How do i change my personality?

everyone sees me as weak, prude, geek, and boring. i'm the friend you call for a crisis but not to the party. i want to change myself so much that when people talk to me they will say thats not her but it is her. i want to be someone totally different a new, better, stronger person that noone can hurt.How do i change my personality?
Most people have a ';default'; setting on certain attributes. You either HAVE these attributes, but they are suppressed or hidden (and all you have to do is uncover them) or this is not 'you.'





You might really be the life of the party, but are socially inhibited- if that is the case, then stretching those muscles will bring out the 'real' you.



You could just be introverted, with your interests lying in a direction that is not 'party crowd'... at that point, you don't have a hidden personality attribute.



You can differently learn to FAKE it- I think ANYONE can change themselves in any manner if enough effort it taken.



I think that you will find that once you make this change, and if you are successful, you will find it's not really what you thought it was.



however, it's one thing for us to TELL you this, and it's quite another to LIVE and learn.



By all means! try and change yourself. There is really no harm to exploring your possibilities at that point you will know if this is your hidden personality or your true nature.



what could the end results be?



You either discover your true nature, or you learn more about yourself.. I can't see a down side.



You change by putting yourself there- by being there. don't wait to be invited- just go to the party... search them out.How do i change my personality?
you cant just change your personality, theres no like, switch you can just press lol. why dont you start going out and doing more fun activities and stuff so that you dont seem boring? or change your style, just stuff that will make people think you are not so geeky etc
do what olivia newton john did in the movie ''grease''..john travolta dug it
Find the 7 dragon balls, then make your wish. Drugs are a more expensive option.
Embrace who you are, not who you wish to be.
What you lack is self confidence and self esteem. Remember, you can only be hurt if you allow the words of another over-ride how you feel about yourself. Otherwise, it doesn't matter what someone else says. Its just hot air, and your opinion is just as valid as their's is.
You could witness someone getting murdered, so you will get put in the witness protection program, then you will get a new name, possibly move countries and will get a fresh start in life, then you can be whoever you want to be...okay maybe not..... But talking to a psychologist could help, but just have more confidence in yourself, you gotta be like a boxer and not let anyone's hits land on you.
You can't change your personality. You should love yourself for who you are. And if no one wants to hangout with you at a party then they're not a TRUE friend. You may not be able to change your personality but can change your behavior. Try being more open. Maybe they don't call you for a party because you've never shown them that you want to party. The next time there's a party go...allow yourself to have fun. But be careful. Don't become someone that you're not. Work on your self esteem. You may even want to try counseling to help you get there. Good luck!