I am smart and get good grades. I am not one of those girls that freaks out if I get a B or lower. I am pretty or atleast my mom says so. I am nice to everyone even if I hate them. I do own clothes with designer labels. I am really shy I barely talk in any of my classes and in my report card I always get '; Samantha is shy';... I lack self confidence, I am one of the youngest girls in my grade. I am still 13th. When a guy talks to me it is always about homework. I haven't kissed a guy, gone out on a date or had a boyfriend. I like a guy who has known me since I was born, he is a family friend and I want to get my first kiss from him. Help me change..I want to change my personality for a better me and for a guy. How??
thats not changing your personality - thats just being more confident.
you should NEVER change your personality.
gaining confidence is tough to give advice on though. Its mostly in yourself. You have to make yourself talk - what do you have to lose? Think of it this way, your smart, your attractive, you know what your talking about. People would love to hear you! get out there and be confident.
sorry i cant help more, but being more confident is ALL IN YOURSELF. If you are shy to talk to guys, try getting a friend to ';match'; you and a guy they know that you like. It makes it a little easier. Talk about past experiences you have in common or things you know hes interested in
you have to just GO FOR IT. Be hard on yourself. Open up to friends, confide in them, get them to help you out.
If you are happy and confident, and you smile and say hi to him, he will def. get a good impression.
good luck!!I want to change my personality for a better me and for a guy. How??
work on it is all you can do ,only you can change you.
My suggestion is one im sure you'll hear manny times, Never change your self just for a relationship or a guy. Now if you really want to change something, Shyness can kill sometimes. I used to be really shy and i still am, but im wanting to be more out going. You should be more talkitive to him and, maybe tell him how you feel about him. :-)
sounds like your too worried about being perfect. im 14 and ive gone out with 10 guys and kissed 20 somethin like that. i used to be excactly like you but then i stopped worrying about what i wear or act. i now just wear jeans and a teeshirt no preppyness. i laugh obnoxiously, smile more, and burp in public. basically just let loose and forget about what people think. but along with my shy image went my grades. maybe you should find a balance between us but im alot happier now.
it sounds like you are a wonderful person so don't change too much about yourself. all you have to do is build some self confidence. sit down and figure out all of the good things about yourself. once you are confident...he will see the new you and fall in love with it.
I don't think you need to worry about the fact that you haven't been kissed yet, but I might be able to help with the other part. I finally decided that I need to be more confident, and the only thing I've found that works is just doing whatever you are nervous about, no matter what. It might take you a while to do it (IMing him or something, for example), but just ignore the part of your brain that is telling you not to. Try not to think or analyze every single thing you do...just go for it. It's worked for me so far.
Don't change, if you do then the relationship you are changing for will fail. You should always be yourself. You're still young, you have plenty of time. Don't rush into relationships.
Changing your personality is probably one of the hardest things to do. Most people do it by ';acting'; the way they want to be, and repressing the way they really are. If you keep it up long enough, the new personality will many times ';take';.
The thing is, hon, if you are still 13, some of what you are feeling is driven by hormones that you have little or no control over; hormones drive you through most of adolescence. 13 is a little young to be worried about not having been kissed, gone out, or had a boyfriend. This stuff will happen when the time is right, so don't rush it.
If this guy you so want your first kiss from is a family friend, then find a movie that you both want to see and ask him if he would like to go with you (or a group). Sit next to him, hold his hand if you want, give him a hug afterward, and see how he reacts. If he pulls away, back off; he isn't ready. But if it seems you are hitting it off, then maybe the two of you can do something else, even if it's just hanging out. A second date is a pretty good time for a kiss. Again, see how he reacts. He may just want to keep things the way they are. But you have your whole life ahead of you. Just be patient; this stuff will seem pretty natural when the time comes.
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
How do you change your personality?
We squeal to much over a boy, and then we can't stop laughing when we see some random person. We laugh over maggots and i dont know why.... WE NEED HELP so our guy doesnt think we are stupid.....How do you change your personality?
We? There is another person doing this with you? You ';both'; need calm down in a way. Just tell ';yourselves'; that it isn't funny or picture something that is dreadful to end the laughter...How do you change your personality?
Ok itz just a guy... Just tell yourselves thatpc or mac kid sweating
We? There is another person doing this with you? You ';both'; need calm down in a way. Just tell ';yourselves'; that it isn't funny or picture something that is dreadful to end the laughter...How do you change your personality?
Ok itz just a guy... Just tell yourselves that
About split personality?
ok so i met a guy about 3 yrs ago online and we've been talking every single day almost and we've gained very strong feelings for one another he lives 2000 miles from me and he wants to be with me one day since then and hes gotten jealous over silly things and angry about silly things but moving on with the story so one day he had gotten real upset with me and then he just got offline then the next day he told me that he needed to tell me something so i asked him what it was and he said that hes bi polar he had received it from his father bc his father also has it so little while went by and sometimes he would get upset about some things and then he wouldn't respond to me for a very long time and then he finally gets back on about 15 mins later and he changed personalities this personality is very mean and very outspoken and then i would get so upset from him being mean i would just get off til the next day and then he would finally get on and he would tell me that he blacked out and didn't remember anything from that night this has happened a lot so he was getting tired of that happening and me having to basically deal with the other him being rude and him having to deal with that kind of life style he was wanting a real life so then a while after that he had went to the doctors about it and then he got diagnosed with split personality so he tried different meds and they did not work some of them made him worse and hes tried so many then his doctor told him another option of maybe being hypnotized into the ';other'; him was not in existence i told him it didn't sound good bc he could get memory loss or brain damage or maybe even worse so i didn't want him to do that for a very long time now so he went with another doctor and talk to them about it he didnt want to deal with that anymore he had gotten so upset about how his life was so he decided to go ahead and do the procedure and so i didn't talk to him for like a week and i figured that something had went wrong and then he finally got online and he started talking to me like he was when we first started talking 3 years ago it was very strange and i asked him if he had any memory of me and he said no not at all it hurt my feelings a lot so i couldn't take it anymore so i stopped talking to him for a little while and then i got on like a week later i saw that he had left me a message that he got his memory back but he has really bad headaches all the time constantly and he said that he thinks he got his memory back from tripping and falling and hitting his head and he woke up with all memory back which is kinda strange to me but since then we've been talking for about 3 or 4 weeks now and he hasn't had any episodes yet and he said that he went to his doctor and told her about it and she said that she couldn't believe that happened and she was really shocked so what i'm asking about this is, is this possible at all?About split personality?
No.
Three years is a long time to invest yourself in a relationship that is going nowhere. This guy is playing games with you. Get off the computer and go out and meet some real men person to person. Life is so short. Move on.About split personality?
my friend says there was a girl with 13 split personalities. each of them have different memories with different characteristics. and there was one with the wildest characteristic, the 13th. but this story I dunno if it's true. and she said there was a boy with... um, I guess 7 splitting characteristics, and this one looks like it's true. so maybe the problem with that boy maybe true that he has something wrong with his brain, maybe he had a mutation in his brain cell, or maybe he's just lying to you to make you freaked out. but if you're stressed out of this and you freaked out a lot you can say to him whatever you think and you feel about him and his mutation in characteristic and if you want a splendid friendship, just go out and find some friends, true human. you can count on them!
No.
Three years is a long time to invest yourself in a relationship that is going nowhere. This guy is playing games with you. Get off the computer and go out and meet some real men person to person. Life is so short. Move on.About split personality?
my friend says there was a girl with 13 split personalities. each of them have different memories with different characteristics. and there was one with the wildest characteristic, the 13th. but this story I dunno if it's true. and she said there was a boy with... um, I guess 7 splitting characteristics, and this one looks like it's true. so maybe the problem with that boy maybe true that he has something wrong with his brain, maybe he had a mutation in his brain cell, or maybe he's just lying to you to make you freaked out. but if you're stressed out of this and you freaked out a lot you can say to him whatever you think and you feel about him and his mutation in characteristic and if you want a splendid friendship, just go out and find some friends, true human. you can count on them!
Can I change my personality for the better?
I dont really have the looks to attract girls. I'm not sure if I have the personality. Can I get it if I dont have it?
Can I change myself into what girls want so that they will like me? How?Can I change my personality for the better?
The thing that you have to realize is that there is no set personality that girls like. Be happy with how you are and own up to it, girls will notice that. However you act if you are outgoing or shy there is going to be a girl out there for you. Do not change, your uniqueness will make you attractive, be confident in who you are and let them know that. Good Luck!Can I change my personality for the better?
Never change for anyone other than yourself.
Be Confident, not Cocky though.
Be Funny
just try to stay aware and change be more out there and they will notice
You need counseling to do that, only YOU can change if you really want to so good luck!
Never change yourself for someone else, it's not worth it.
One day you will find someone that will love you for you!
Plus, if you change your personality, you'll always feel fake.
Sure but it's not going to happen over night. But hold on girls always like guys that are themselves! A girl should like you for you whether you have the looks, body, or personality... but yeah change into whatever you want.
If you want change bad enough you can change, but only if you want it for yourself. I think personality changes over time through our interactions with the world around us and the people we meet along the way because we constantly validate things to determine what is best.
If you change yourself too something you think someone else wants you to be, you are no longer you.
Everybody is a unique person, and that's how we are born, we don't ask to be beautiful or this and that. In my opinion, be yourself! Look at yourself in the mirror everyday and say: ';hey! God loves me! He wanted me to exist!'; Look is not important, it is for some empty headed girl, but girls like men who make them laugh. Do you have this quality? That's what you should worry about, not your looks:-))
well, actually, it does not depends on your looks but your behaviour and manners. if you really want to attract any girl, there are to ways to do it:
1) simply ignore her- perform this trick only if the girl knows you very well. when she asks ';what is the matter with you?';,
tell her some of your personal problems. she will come close to you.
2) if you r meeting the girl for the first time, do not be shy to go and talk to her. greet her and ask her name only. do not try to use abusive language or try to act oversmart. girls hate that.
You cannot change your core personality, but you can definitely improve your social skills, if that is what you are asking.
Everyone is born with poor social skills, but some people learn how to relate well to others, while others do not. If you go to an internet dating site, you will notice that many women will come right out and say IN WRITING that they do not want to date anyone who is socially awkward. Poor social skills not only hurt your chances with women, but also hinder you when you go for that all important job interview after college. Being socially awkward will hinder you when you are asking for a raise, when you are dealing with conflict at work, or when you are applying for a managerial position.
Being shy and socially awkward has the potential to hold you back in every area of your life, so it works in your best interest to do something about it.
It is an unfortunate catch-22 that lacking self-confidence and feeling self-conscious in social settings tends to make you act socially awkward, which makes people react in a negative way around you, which makes your self-confidence sink even lower, which leads to more social awkwardness, and so on.
There are psychological exercises that you can do to overcome your shyness and your lack of self-confidence. I recommend that you go to the self help section of the local library and find some books on the subject. David DeAngelo has some pretty good confidence building exercise on his “Advanced Series” on approaching women %26amp; dating at doubleyourdating dot com, but it is an expensive program. I would recommend that you start small -- like try reading “Get Anyone to Do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again -- With Psychological Secrets to Control and Influence Every Situation” (Paperback) by Dr. David J. Lieberman.
By the way, people say that you should “be yourself” and that you should never change for anyone but yourself. This is true to a point. If you are doing something irritating, socially unacceptable, really boring, or just plan wrong, then you need to fix that part of your personality (or at least change how you present yourself). On the other hand, people are turned off by someone who seems “fake”, so while in the process of changing yourself for the better, make sure that you do not say or do anything that feels dishonest, or not true to yourself. I know that sounds contradictory, but I think that you will get it eventually.
Can I change myself into what girls want so that they will like me? How?Can I change my personality for the better?
The thing that you have to realize is that there is no set personality that girls like. Be happy with how you are and own up to it, girls will notice that. However you act if you are outgoing or shy there is going to be a girl out there for you. Do not change, your uniqueness will make you attractive, be confident in who you are and let them know that. Good Luck!Can I change my personality for the better?
Never change for anyone other than yourself.
Be Confident, not Cocky though.
Be Funny
just try to stay aware and change be more out there and they will notice
You need counseling to do that, only YOU can change if you really want to so good luck!
Never change yourself for someone else, it's not worth it.
One day you will find someone that will love you for you!
Plus, if you change your personality, you'll always feel fake.
Sure but it's not going to happen over night. But hold on girls always like guys that are themselves! A girl should like you for you whether you have the looks, body, or personality... but yeah change into whatever you want.
If you want change bad enough you can change, but only if you want it for yourself. I think personality changes over time through our interactions with the world around us and the people we meet along the way because we constantly validate things to determine what is best.
If you change yourself too something you think someone else wants you to be, you are no longer you.
Everybody is a unique person, and that's how we are born, we don't ask to be beautiful or this and that. In my opinion, be yourself! Look at yourself in the mirror everyday and say: ';hey! God loves me! He wanted me to exist!'; Look is not important, it is for some empty headed girl, but girls like men who make them laugh. Do you have this quality? That's what you should worry about, not your looks:-))
well, actually, it does not depends on your looks but your behaviour and manners. if you really want to attract any girl, there are to ways to do it:
1) simply ignore her- perform this trick only if the girl knows you very well. when she asks ';what is the matter with you?';,
tell her some of your personal problems. she will come close to you.
2) if you r meeting the girl for the first time, do not be shy to go and talk to her. greet her and ask her name only. do not try to use abusive language or try to act oversmart. girls hate that.
You cannot change your core personality, but you can definitely improve your social skills, if that is what you are asking.
Everyone is born with poor social skills, but some people learn how to relate well to others, while others do not. If you go to an internet dating site, you will notice that many women will come right out and say IN WRITING that they do not want to date anyone who is socially awkward. Poor social skills not only hurt your chances with women, but also hinder you when you go for that all important job interview after college. Being socially awkward will hinder you when you are asking for a raise, when you are dealing with conflict at work, or when you are applying for a managerial position.
Being shy and socially awkward has the potential to hold you back in every area of your life, so it works in your best interest to do something about it.
It is an unfortunate catch-22 that lacking self-confidence and feeling self-conscious in social settings tends to make you act socially awkward, which makes people react in a negative way around you, which makes your self-confidence sink even lower, which leads to more social awkwardness, and so on.
There are psychological exercises that you can do to overcome your shyness and your lack of self-confidence. I recommend that you go to the self help section of the local library and find some books on the subject. David DeAngelo has some pretty good confidence building exercise on his “Advanced Series” on approaching women %26amp; dating at doubleyourdating dot com, but it is an expensive program. I would recommend that you start small -- like try reading “Get Anyone to Do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again -- With Psychological Secrets to Control and Influence Every Situation” (Paperback) by Dr. David J. Lieberman.
By the way, people say that you should “be yourself” and that you should never change for anyone but yourself. This is true to a point. If you are doing something irritating, socially unacceptable, really boring, or just plan wrong, then you need to fix that part of your personality (or at least change how you present yourself). On the other hand, people are turned off by someone who seems “fake”, so while in the process of changing yourself for the better, make sure that you do not say or do anything that feels dishonest, or not true to yourself. I know that sounds contradictory, but I think that you will get it eventually.
I need tips on how to deal with GF that has Borderline Personality Disorder?
We've been together for over 2 years. I love her and I know she loves me. UNTIL...... Her Personality changes, and she hates me. Says mean, hurful things. We are going to get into therapy, but I would like some pointers on how to deal with the bad side.
Is such a totally different person. It's like she don't even know me. Then it goes away and she's an angel again.I need tips on how to deal with GF that has Borderline Personality Disorder?
When she goes hysterical and raging on you, don't react or try to reason with her. She can't hear it. Tell her, ';I am not able to face this anger which I realize isn't even about me. I have to leave the room for a SHORT TIME so I can feel safe. I still love you but we both need to be in different rooms right now.'; Of course, she'll go ballistic due to abandonment issues, but that's not your problem. You have a right to not be abused and BPD is no excuse for abuse. It would help if she had a therapist to call at these times.I need tips on how to deal with GF that has Borderline Personality Disorder?
thats intense.
uve bee dating for 2 years. do u think u shudve asked sooner.
i think u can just stay out of her way
Get another girl friend.
Is such a totally different person. It's like she don't even know me. Then it goes away and she's an angel again.I need tips on how to deal with GF that has Borderline Personality Disorder?
When she goes hysterical and raging on you, don't react or try to reason with her. She can't hear it. Tell her, ';I am not able to face this anger which I realize isn't even about me. I have to leave the room for a SHORT TIME so I can feel safe. I still love you but we both need to be in different rooms right now.'; Of course, she'll go ballistic due to abandonment issues, but that's not your problem. You have a right to not be abused and BPD is no excuse for abuse. It would help if she had a therapist to call at these times.I need tips on how to deal with GF that has Borderline Personality Disorder?
thats intense.
uve bee dating for 2 years. do u think u shudve asked sooner.
i think u can just stay out of her way
Get another girl friend.
How can i change my personality???? HELP PLEASE!?
Help! I really think im a boring person! i also feel like others think that thiers nothing specail about me. How can i change that? I want to be a fun person tht no one will ever forget? HELP PLEASEEEEEE!!!!!!How can i change my personality???? HELP PLEASE!?
That's a quest of a lifetime :)
Start by believing that you don't have to prove anything to those who say you're boring. Your sense of worth is what you define it to be.
That's a quest of a lifetime :)
Start by believing that you don't have to prove anything to those who say you're boring. Your sense of worth is what you define it to be.
How do I change my personality to get along with people better?
magnetic personality,don't fit in,loser,can't build relationships,can't hold job,How do I change my personality to get along with people better?
first realize yourself. you are human, you dont want to suffer. if others are human they probably dont want to suffer either. how can you help them suffer less? to be appreciated by people for being a person is the beautiful part of life.How do I change my personality to get along with people better?
try counseling
Learn to be a really good listener.
Look at the city you live in, or if you are in school, there maybe some counseling they offer for free, or reduced price.
Maybe even look at Dr. Phil. (books or websites) I know it is corny, but he seems to have some decent advice. I put some links to his personality test too.
Good luck.
Writing some times helps too.
Warehouseoutsourcing (it麓s that a nickname? mamma m铆a!
Can I call you ';Ware';?)
You cannot change your personality but... you can work on it with the help of a psychologist or a social-counsellor.
I wish you the best.
Regards from Argentina
first realize yourself. you are human, you dont want to suffer. if others are human they probably dont want to suffer either. how can you help them suffer less? to be appreciated by people for being a person is the beautiful part of life.How do I change my personality to get along with people better?
try counseling
Learn to be a really good listener.
Look at the city you live in, or if you are in school, there maybe some counseling they offer for free, or reduced price.
Maybe even look at Dr. Phil. (books or websites) I know it is corny, but he seems to have some decent advice. I put some links to his personality test too.
Good luck.
Writing some times helps too.
Warehouseoutsourcing (it麓s that a nickname? mamma m铆a!
Can I call you ';Ware';?)
You cannot change your personality but... you can work on it with the help of a psychologist or a social-counsellor.
I wish you the best.
Regards from Argentina
How can I get in with the ';popular crowd'; without changing my personality or buying in to the latest fads
Is there any way to become ';popular'; in high school without having to change your personality or buying in to fads?How can I get in with the ';popular crowd'; without changing my personality or buying in to the latest fads
people like leaders -what ever direction you go -do it with confidenceHow can I get in with the ';popular crowd'; without changing my personality or buying in to the latest fads
Will being popular make you happy?
Date someone who is in college.
Express your personality to the fullest. Being yourself without caring about what others think can earn a tremendous amount of respect. It takes balls however. Are you up for the challenge?
just do ur thing and be a leader! stand up for whats rite! and dont be loud and obnoxious PLZ ppl HATE that! just some tips..
鈾arie
sleep with the quarterback
jus be yourself not a follower
you sound douchy very much, and lame why need friends you don't need friends to graduate id rather not have friends because they are just drama and without them you get ahead and don't worry about their stupid problems. stop trying to be a ****** follower people like you get on my damn nerves, get some damn dignity dude.nursing home listings structuretoptr
people like leaders -what ever direction you go -do it with confidenceHow can I get in with the ';popular crowd'; without changing my personality or buying in to the latest fads
Will being popular make you happy?
Date someone who is in college.
Express your personality to the fullest. Being yourself without caring about what others think can earn a tremendous amount of respect. It takes balls however. Are you up for the challenge?
just do ur thing and be a leader! stand up for whats rite! and dont be loud and obnoxious PLZ ppl HATE that! just some tips..
鈾arie
sleep with the quarterback
jus be yourself not a follower
you sound douchy very much, and lame why need friends you don't need friends to graduate id rather not have friends because they are just drama and without them you get ahead and don't worry about their stupid problems. stop trying to be a ****** follower people like you get on my damn nerves, get some damn dignity dude.
Do you know someone who had a severe personality change after a car accident/possible head injury?
Back in 2002 my sister rolled her car like 5 times when she reached down to pick up a cd she dropped. Her car was completely demolished rescue said they didnt know how she survived. She had had a few drinks so when the police came they took her to jail instead of the hospital. When she got out of the jail she was severely depressed and never went back to work. She made a good living, was very self sufficient and had a very active social life. She didnt complete her dwi classes and things and ended up going back to jail numerous times after. She has gone from one drug to the next finally ending w/leaving a newborn addicted to heroin at the hospital to run off and do more heroin. She told me the last time I talked to her, two yrs after her accident that that night ruined her life that she's never been able to shake that. Is it possible she had a head injury that was never diagnosed? She was an attractive successful lady who loved her family and adored babies and I have NO idea whatsoever who she is now.Do you know someone who had a severe personality change after a car accident/possible head injury?
My brother-in-law got in a fight with two other guys who hit him really really hard in the front part of the head (forehead region). My mother-in-law said he had been acting strange after that incident...acting not like himself...forgot things and started acting impulsively (didn't think before doing an action). He killed himself shortly after that after a small fight with his girlfriend. After doing some research we believe his impulse control region of his brain (front part) was damaged in the earlier fight. That part inside us that says ';hmm I may disagree with this person, but what are the consequences of the actions I am about to take?';
We wish we had a doctor take a much closer look at him after that fight. It seems like you have to force a doctor to care now days, to do more than the ';bare minimum'; check up.
I feel for your family and sister. Please try to get her to see a doctor and explain that she had a head injury a few years ago. Demand an MRI. Demand answers. Also please get her into some counseling. This new person is not your sister, but your old sister is still in there.
Good luck and God bless.Do you know someone who had a severe personality change after a car accident/possible head injury?
Yeah, it happens allot. If people have strokes or head injuries they can totally change. One person I knew went from crazy party girl to trying to cook and do crafts. It was kind of funny but not.
My brother-in-law got in a fight with two other guys who hit him really really hard in the front part of the head (forehead region). My mother-in-law said he had been acting strange after that incident...acting not like himself...forgot things and started acting impulsively (didn't think before doing an action). He killed himself shortly after that after a small fight with his girlfriend. After doing some research we believe his impulse control region of his brain (front part) was damaged in the earlier fight. That part inside us that says ';hmm I may disagree with this person, but what are the consequences of the actions I am about to take?';
We wish we had a doctor take a much closer look at him after that fight. It seems like you have to force a doctor to care now days, to do more than the ';bare minimum'; check up.
I feel for your family and sister. Please try to get her to see a doctor and explain that she had a head injury a few years ago. Demand an MRI. Demand answers. Also please get her into some counseling. This new person is not your sister, but your old sister is still in there.
Good luck and God bless.Do you know someone who had a severe personality change after a car accident/possible head injury?
Yeah, it happens allot. If people have strokes or head injuries they can totally change. One person I knew went from crazy party girl to trying to cook and do crafts. It was kind of funny but not.
How many of you would you say your personality changed in the last 5 years?at would you like to ask?
Do you think your past relationships had any effects on this?How many of you would you say your personality changed in the last 5 years?at would you like to ask?
My personality has changed a little in the last 5 years because my son went away to college. I went from almost full-time mom to re-learning about myself, and I am a little different than I was.How many of you would you say your personality changed in the last 5 years?at would you like to ask?
Hmmmm, it's really hard to say if I think my personality has changed in the last 5 years. Change happens gradually, day by day, so we can't usually see if we have changed for that reason. I do think that ';I'; have changed in the past 5 years. I feel like I've learned some things and grown in compassion for the plight of others. I was so hard so sure about right %26amp; wrong, good %26amp; bad when I was young. Now I think I know that people are limited and everyone has their ';cross'; to bear. I used to be more insecure and now I am less so but I don't know if that reflects on my personality. I've always had a happy-go-lucky personality even though I have my crippling self-doubts but I always put effort into being the clown if you will. I'd say I've grown in the past 5 years but I don't know if my personality has changed? Maybe it has? I just don't see it. I'm too close to it to know. In terms of past %26amp; future relationships, yes they have shaped me, favorably. I remember all (but one to be truthful %26amp; it wasn't even a romantic one) with fondness.
I think my personality basically has not changed, but the way I act and look at life has. I've gone from mid 40s to early 50s and I am taking on a more mature outlook on the world and acting a little bit more responsible. I am a three times married and now divorced woman that should bear the brunt of it all on my face and body, but apparently I made a pact with the devil somewhere along the line because I still look like I'm mid to late 30s to most people. I attribute it to good genes and really oily skin. I am less playful and more serious. I think more about the future and death and dying than ever before. I think more about what is really important in my life, my relatives, my pets, etc. I do not think my basic personality has changed, but my views on life and people has.
Mine definitely has. I tried to be someone I wasn't during my last relationship. I,m back to being me again. And I'm going to stay being me, my true friends like having me back
I have changed in the last 5 years, and not one of my previous relationships has anything to do with it.
I do ask myself why I put up with sh*t for so long. But now, my wife and life is perfect, and I wouldn't go backwards for a ￡any billions of pounds.
Happiness cannot be bought or paid for. Love has no price. I'd pay dearly for the love I have now; I'd pay with my life.
I've changed alot in the last 3 years.Back then i was a little miserable thing at war with the world.Hated everyone in it and everyone seemed to hate me.I'd lost my dad to cancer,my mum never spoke to me - no-one cared, i didn't care if i lived or died.Then in July 2006 my life changed.I met the man who is now my fiance.Sounds corny but for the first time since my dad's death i began to smile.The world seemed brighter and i began to notice things around me - even little things like the birds singing.
Gradually i became a happier,more caring person.Small things upset me,can't watch sad movies without crying whereas before i'd just sit glaring at the TV.I'm a totally different person.My mum and i started talking properly for the first time in years.We even became friends and were right up to her death in August.My friends from 'my dark days' don't even recognise me anymore- personality wise,I'm just so different, and i owe it all to my wonderful fiance because without him i really don't think i'd even be here now.
yeahh I would say I have changed umm no I dont think so that any relationshiops did really
My personality has changed a little in the last 5 years because my son went away to college. I went from almost full-time mom to re-learning about myself, and I am a little different than I was.How many of you would you say your personality changed in the last 5 years?at would you like to ask?
Hmmmm, it's really hard to say if I think my personality has changed in the last 5 years. Change happens gradually, day by day, so we can't usually see if we have changed for that reason. I do think that ';I'; have changed in the past 5 years. I feel like I've learned some things and grown in compassion for the plight of others. I was so hard so sure about right %26amp; wrong, good %26amp; bad when I was young. Now I think I know that people are limited and everyone has their ';cross'; to bear. I used to be more insecure and now I am less so but I don't know if that reflects on my personality. I've always had a happy-go-lucky personality even though I have my crippling self-doubts but I always put effort into being the clown if you will. I'd say I've grown in the past 5 years but I don't know if my personality has changed? Maybe it has? I just don't see it. I'm too close to it to know. In terms of past %26amp; future relationships, yes they have shaped me, favorably. I remember all (but one to be truthful %26amp; it wasn't even a romantic one) with fondness.
I think my personality basically has not changed, but the way I act and look at life has. I've gone from mid 40s to early 50s and I am taking on a more mature outlook on the world and acting a little bit more responsible. I am a three times married and now divorced woman that should bear the brunt of it all on my face and body, but apparently I made a pact with the devil somewhere along the line because I still look like I'm mid to late 30s to most people. I attribute it to good genes and really oily skin. I am less playful and more serious. I think more about the future and death and dying than ever before. I think more about what is really important in my life, my relatives, my pets, etc. I do not think my basic personality has changed, but my views on life and people has.
Mine definitely has. I tried to be someone I wasn't during my last relationship. I,m back to being me again. And I'm going to stay being me, my true friends like having me back
I have changed in the last 5 years, and not one of my previous relationships has anything to do with it.
I do ask myself why I put up with sh*t for so long. But now, my wife and life is perfect, and I wouldn't go backwards for a ￡any billions of pounds.
Happiness cannot be bought or paid for. Love has no price. I'd pay dearly for the love I have now; I'd pay with my life.
I've changed alot in the last 3 years.Back then i was a little miserable thing at war with the world.Hated everyone in it and everyone seemed to hate me.I'd lost my dad to cancer,my mum never spoke to me - no-one cared, i didn't care if i lived or died.Then in July 2006 my life changed.I met the man who is now my fiance.Sounds corny but for the first time since my dad's death i began to smile.The world seemed brighter and i began to notice things around me - even little things like the birds singing.
Gradually i became a happier,more caring person.Small things upset me,can't watch sad movies without crying whereas before i'd just sit glaring at the TV.I'm a totally different person.My mum and i started talking properly for the first time in years.We even became friends and were right up to her death in August.My friends from 'my dark days' don't even recognise me anymore- personality wise,I'm just so different, and i owe it all to my wonderful fiance because without him i really don't think i'd even be here now.
yeahh I would say I have changed umm no I dont think so that any relationshiops did really
How can i change my personality from introvert into extrovert..?
frnds, i m 22 yr old boy..i m introvert.i m very quiet ,shy,unconfident..as i think i made lil bit late to take the decision..
due to introvert , i really loss lots of thing in my life..nd i tends to change my personality to extrovert..so i want tips from ..only serious answer are only acceptable...i m comp. prog.How can i change my personality from introvert into extrovert..?
Medication is a must to avoid, if possible. the fact that you recognize and can articulate your problem suggests drugs are NOT the answer.
You're 22; you have a lot of life ahead of you. Don't get stuck on what-all you haven't done; focus on what it will take to move forward, to get your needs met.
Luck to you, m'friend.How can i change my personality from introvert into extrovert..?
Drugs like ambienpure work wonders
You cannot change your personality. But you can go out of your way to be friendly, loud, and confident.
Time to get drunk baby! It really brings out the extrovert in many people.
Seriously, you have to realize that life is short, and if you hang around in the side lines being shy your whole life, you are going to have a crap life. Really analyze what the worst thing that can happen from being a little more confident. Someone you don't give a crap about is mean to you? Who cares? Life is there for the taking, go out and grab it.
Well you need to practice your people skills by being more proactive and getting out more and interacting with people next time you go to the store for example insteading of going to get food go to meet a new person, but while your there pick up some food its just about being friendly to people and putting yourself out there more
Well, to start off I think you should get a buddy. Yes someone who is already popular who can teach you the ropes. Make sure you pick someone you can look up to. And don't follow them excatly, take you spin on things that they do. If you can't find anyone to look up to. Think of your heroes and read about them. Read their autobiography or biography. You might find something in there that will help you get a good start on confidence.
Think of the other person and assume he/she is feeling the same way. Try to concentrate on making the other person comfortable, and you'll find that you have forgotten about your shyness. Complement (honestly) them on something they might be wearing, or ask them what they think about a tv show/movie/whatever. Eventually you'll find a mutually enjoyable subject, and who knows? You might find yourself in a lively group discussion!! Relax. Have fun. And good luck!
All right, first of all, you can't ';change your personality.'; Not completely, at least. If you're an introvert you'll always be somewhat of an introvert. But you can be *more* extroverted at least. I have had the same problem all my life, and the two things that have helped me the most are finding someone, and getting a job that forces me to be chatty and personable. At this point in your life, you're probably all settled into your career, though. Right now I'm working at a coffehouse, and we are required to talk to each customer and be very personable so they will want to come back. I've only been there three weeks and my manager has told me I'm completely changed. So maybe something like that wouldn't work for you, though, since you already have a steady ';career.';
So in place of that, here's what I suggest: set goals for yourself. When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself, ';Okay, I'm going to talk to at least three people I don't know today.'; It can be anything-- waiting in the grocery checkout line, at your work, just force yourself to talk to people. It will be awkward and maybe a little embarassing at first, but soon it will start to feel natural, and you'll get better.
Also, I gained a lot of confidence from having a significant other. I know you can't just snap your fingers and make a girlfriend appear, but try to interact with girls. Flirt a little. Be kind and respectful. Maybe somebody will come your way. ;)
Well I know it's tough. I know where you're coming from. But you'll do great. Just remember that you don't *have* to be an extrovert persay, because your introversion is hardwired into your system already. You'll be a lot more confident if you learn to *like* that about yourself, trust me. Be aware that you can have self confidence and still be introverted. That's sometimes the most attractive kind of guy there is. ;) Well, good luck!
Your nature is your nature, if you become something that is not your nature you will suffer in duality. Be comfortable with who you are. Your perceptions of ';self'; may not be what others see in you. You are 22, nothing is permanent. You will not be the same person in 1 year, 5 years or 10. Be patient with yourself. Love who you are and be harmless to yourself and others. Remember you are the master of your life, you are only what you think that you are and 99% of the time, or perecptions are wrong.
That's quite a challenge there, and just by asking seems like you're pressured by doing so. First of all good things happen to good people, (although it doesn't appear like that on the news). If you're genuinely a good person, reassure yourself of that. Feeling confident about oneself of at least one noticeable thing, puts you on that extrovert path already. When you feel comfortable in your own space, try sharing that space with someone who shares common interests. All it takes is opening the right door, the one you feel comfortable and confident opening. Behind that door I guarantee will be a world of doors for you to open, if you choose to. You haven't lost out on anything, life is about reproduction and opportunities will always reproduce. You just have to know when to reach out for it. Just stay true to yourself and choose your battles wisely. Just because you change your image doesn't make you shine.
I disagree with those who say you can't change your personality. I was the quietest, dorkiest, sweet little thing for the first 15 years of my life. Ha not anymore. I am 24 now and nobody even remembers me being that shy introverted girl who couldn't even answer questions in class without shaking and getting quesy. Now it won't be instant or anything but rather a year or two before you really shine but the trick is to just do it. Take a public speaking class at a community college. Give your closet a makeover. If you dress conservatively you are more prone to act so. Try hot topics. The more attention your clothes get the more your expected to give too. Then go somewhere you have never been and never plan to go again. Where you don't know anyone. Force it. Act like you know everyone you walk past. Just start talking like you know them. Most people will be confused and think they should know you and talk back. Do it until you can do it around real friends.
';22 yr old boy'; - Are you saying your child-like? Are you attending college? What's your normal day like?
Without those answers I'm just going to assume that you live with your mom, have no ambition, no job, no friends, stay at home on your PC, etc...
The first thing that you want to do is meet someone who is extroverted. This is easier than you might think. The first thing you might want to consider finding places that are social, that center around things you like to do.
For instance, let's say that you like card games (be it Magic, poker, etc). You would want to go to a place where a group of people play those games. This could be at a local comic shop, casino, or anything that involves groups of people enjoying what you enjoy.
Now that you're playing with those people there's a good chance that they'll begin talking with you. The good thing about playing a game with these people is the fact that you don't really have to worry about what your body is doing (you'll be playing cards, looking at your hand, messing with chips, etc) and you can focus on just having a normal conversation with this person. It's much easier to converse with people when you have something to do.
Just really try to loosen up. These people don't know you and if you'd like to, you could probably avoid them for the rest of your life.
Think of things that you really feel comfortable doing and go out where people are doing them.
After you begin to feel comfortable talking with people while doing something you enjoy it'll be easier just to talk with people in general.
One of the most important things to do is TRY! Don't just read everyone's advice and do nothing. Good luck.
you can try to learn how to act, once you've made a fool out of yourself with acting with emotions and characters that you don't feel or have, you'll naturally feel more confident and find that expressing yourself isnt that difficult after all.
due to introvert , i really loss lots of thing in my life..nd i tends to change my personality to extrovert..so i want tips from ..only serious answer are only acceptable...i m comp. prog.How can i change my personality from introvert into extrovert..?
Medication is a must to avoid, if possible. the fact that you recognize and can articulate your problem suggests drugs are NOT the answer.
You're 22; you have a lot of life ahead of you. Don't get stuck on what-all you haven't done; focus on what it will take to move forward, to get your needs met.
Luck to you, m'friend.How can i change my personality from introvert into extrovert..?
Drugs like ambienpure work wonders
You cannot change your personality. But you can go out of your way to be friendly, loud, and confident.
Time to get drunk baby! It really brings out the extrovert in many people.
Seriously, you have to realize that life is short, and if you hang around in the side lines being shy your whole life, you are going to have a crap life. Really analyze what the worst thing that can happen from being a little more confident. Someone you don't give a crap about is mean to you? Who cares? Life is there for the taking, go out and grab it.
Well you need to practice your people skills by being more proactive and getting out more and interacting with people next time you go to the store for example insteading of going to get food go to meet a new person, but while your there pick up some food its just about being friendly to people and putting yourself out there more
Well, to start off I think you should get a buddy. Yes someone who is already popular who can teach you the ropes. Make sure you pick someone you can look up to. And don't follow them excatly, take you spin on things that they do. If you can't find anyone to look up to. Think of your heroes and read about them. Read their autobiography or biography. You might find something in there that will help you get a good start on confidence.
Think of the other person and assume he/she is feeling the same way. Try to concentrate on making the other person comfortable, and you'll find that you have forgotten about your shyness. Complement (honestly) them on something they might be wearing, or ask them what they think about a tv show/movie/whatever. Eventually you'll find a mutually enjoyable subject, and who knows? You might find yourself in a lively group discussion!! Relax. Have fun. And good luck!
All right, first of all, you can't ';change your personality.'; Not completely, at least. If you're an introvert you'll always be somewhat of an introvert. But you can be *more* extroverted at least. I have had the same problem all my life, and the two things that have helped me the most are finding someone, and getting a job that forces me to be chatty and personable. At this point in your life, you're probably all settled into your career, though. Right now I'm working at a coffehouse, and we are required to talk to each customer and be very personable so they will want to come back. I've only been there three weeks and my manager has told me I'm completely changed. So maybe something like that wouldn't work for you, though, since you already have a steady ';career.';
So in place of that, here's what I suggest: set goals for yourself. When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself, ';Okay, I'm going to talk to at least three people I don't know today.'; It can be anything-- waiting in the grocery checkout line, at your work, just force yourself to talk to people. It will be awkward and maybe a little embarassing at first, but soon it will start to feel natural, and you'll get better.
Also, I gained a lot of confidence from having a significant other. I know you can't just snap your fingers and make a girlfriend appear, but try to interact with girls. Flirt a little. Be kind and respectful. Maybe somebody will come your way. ;)
Well I know it's tough. I know where you're coming from. But you'll do great. Just remember that you don't *have* to be an extrovert persay, because your introversion is hardwired into your system already. You'll be a lot more confident if you learn to *like* that about yourself, trust me. Be aware that you can have self confidence and still be introverted. That's sometimes the most attractive kind of guy there is. ;) Well, good luck!
Your nature is your nature, if you become something that is not your nature you will suffer in duality. Be comfortable with who you are. Your perceptions of ';self'; may not be what others see in you. You are 22, nothing is permanent. You will not be the same person in 1 year, 5 years or 10. Be patient with yourself. Love who you are and be harmless to yourself and others. Remember you are the master of your life, you are only what you think that you are and 99% of the time, or perecptions are wrong.
That's quite a challenge there, and just by asking seems like you're pressured by doing so. First of all good things happen to good people, (although it doesn't appear like that on the news). If you're genuinely a good person, reassure yourself of that. Feeling confident about oneself of at least one noticeable thing, puts you on that extrovert path already. When you feel comfortable in your own space, try sharing that space with someone who shares common interests. All it takes is opening the right door, the one you feel comfortable and confident opening. Behind that door I guarantee will be a world of doors for you to open, if you choose to. You haven't lost out on anything, life is about reproduction and opportunities will always reproduce. You just have to know when to reach out for it. Just stay true to yourself and choose your battles wisely. Just because you change your image doesn't make you shine.
I disagree with those who say you can't change your personality. I was the quietest, dorkiest, sweet little thing for the first 15 years of my life. Ha not anymore. I am 24 now and nobody even remembers me being that shy introverted girl who couldn't even answer questions in class without shaking and getting quesy. Now it won't be instant or anything but rather a year or two before you really shine but the trick is to just do it. Take a public speaking class at a community college. Give your closet a makeover. If you dress conservatively you are more prone to act so. Try hot topics. The more attention your clothes get the more your expected to give too. Then go somewhere you have never been and never plan to go again. Where you don't know anyone. Force it. Act like you know everyone you walk past. Just start talking like you know them. Most people will be confused and think they should know you and talk back. Do it until you can do it around real friends.
';22 yr old boy'; - Are you saying your child-like? Are you attending college? What's your normal day like?
Without those answers I'm just going to assume that you live with your mom, have no ambition, no job, no friends, stay at home on your PC, etc...
The first thing that you want to do is meet someone who is extroverted. This is easier than you might think. The first thing you might want to consider finding places that are social, that center around things you like to do.
For instance, let's say that you like card games (be it Magic, poker, etc). You would want to go to a place where a group of people play those games. This could be at a local comic shop, casino, or anything that involves groups of people enjoying what you enjoy.
Now that you're playing with those people there's a good chance that they'll begin talking with you. The good thing about playing a game with these people is the fact that you don't really have to worry about what your body is doing (you'll be playing cards, looking at your hand, messing with chips, etc) and you can focus on just having a normal conversation with this person. It's much easier to converse with people when you have something to do.
Just really try to loosen up. These people don't know you and if you'd like to, you could probably avoid them for the rest of your life.
Think of things that you really feel comfortable doing and go out where people are doing them.
After you begin to feel comfortable talking with people while doing something you enjoy it'll be easier just to talk with people in general.
One of the most important things to do is TRY! Don't just read everyone's advice and do nothing. Good luck.
you can try to learn how to act, once you've made a fool out of yourself with acting with emotions and characters that you don't feel or have, you'll naturally feel more confident and find that expressing yourself isnt that difficult after all.
My friends Boxer has had a personality change. Help ?
My friend has a 4 year old boxer who up until the begining of this year has always been great with other dogs. But recently she cant walk him near other dogs as he pounces on them and pins them on to the floor. He doesn't hurt them just dominate them, but she is now afraid that one of these dogs might turn nasty or that Murphy himself might one day. The only thing she can think of that has happened is she and her husband were walking him one day and as they rounded a corner there was a puppy that started barking and snapping at him, her husband and the puppys owner got in to an argument about it, and it did get a little heated but they soon moved off. But since then she has had trouble with Murphy, she says it almost like he wants to pin them down and dominate them. Does anyone have any ideas as to how she can resolve this problem. We have another friend who she walks her dog with and Murphy is fine with Stanley but they have been walking together since Stanley was a puppy. Any ideas?My friends Boxer has had a personality change. Help ?
This was just on Oprah. Nate a regular on Oprah had 2 problem dogs. One was a tad aggressive the other a backer. The' Dog Whisperer' was called. Get his book from the library. Your friend needs to change her position as pack leader. The dog needs to be trained to watch her for instructions always.
Maybe Oprah has a tape or on her Web for more. Maybe he has a site too.My friends Boxer has had a personality change. Help ?
Dogs are pack animals. They want to earn their spot in the pack. Your friend obviously is NOT the Alpha to this dog. This is very important. Train train train train.... I cannot stress this enough.
The dog is trying to tell other dogs in the area that he/she is the alpha, but he/she needs to learn he/she is not, through the owner, and now.
Find a traing course in the area and take it, before the lawsuits start.
Maybe another dog hurt, or tried to hurt him? I had a boxer who was the sweetest thing and worshiped the ground I walked on. Then, I had a car accident with him inthe car. After that, he wouldn't have anything to do with me. He would even bark %26amp; growl when I came around him :(.
My dog she is a pit bull-boxer mix and she duz the same thing when i take her for walks and she acts the same around my other dogs but she is just trying to dominate them and when my dog duz that she growls, so they just need to correct her and if she actualy stared a fight than maybe they need to get rid of her.
Teach her an ';alternative behavior'; ... next time you go for a walk... take a bag of treats with you... the very second YOU see another dog ... (hopefully before she does) ask him to sit and reward him lavishly... He can not pin the other dogs if he is sitting and giving you attention but YOU have to be MORE REWARDING! You might want to ';set this up'; a few times with a friend and a known dog and in the mean time avoid ';practicing the poor behavior';
I think you partially answered it yourself... Murphy saw how humans respond to threatening behavior, and, how we are also aggressive in our day to day beliefs, protections, and convictions... law of the jungle, don't start nothing you can't finish, etc...
My dog started doing the same thing after watching me pin down my girlfriends, and after all, sex can seem quite agressive to a ever studying young pup and then seeing the rewards of closeness and gratitude thereafter. It could give the dog mixed messages when all of a sudden its just not ok for them to behave in similiar fashions, just like their human gods. The dog might even think your nuts for not seeing the hypocracy.
Dogs are decendants of wolves, period.
Yes, we breed the tamer ones, but, they do not wipe and they do not vote.
They can't flip a light switch, and they couldn't give a dang about having to shampooing the rug again.
They want (must have) a sense of purpose. To protect, to regulate other dogs, to comfort, to accompany, to comply...
Luckily, Murphy isn't a punk... other dogs may think (or are led to believe) they are just so special they must be bulletproof.
Hard as it may be to accept, Murphy is helping other dogs to accept a dose of reality.
There are things in this world that puppies and sheltered pets dont know about, that are bigger, stronger, faster, and smarter... like cars, coyotes, wolves, etc. (need I say more?)...
At 4 years old, Murphy is acting like a pack elder... being that he isn't ripping open throats or breaking skin, he is acting from best intentions... naturally.
Advise ??? Umm... DO NOT expect him to ';attack'; other dogs... that was something that happened in the past.
Move on so he can follow your lead.
Be friendly in advance to upcoming pets and owners, you are on neutral grounds.
Yes, he will not want his owner pissed off, set the tone AND KEEP IT THAT WAY.
Dogs have their own languages and are a great judge of character, give them the benifit of a doubt and most importantly... make sure your not doing anything to escalate a tender situation
Best wishes... my regards to Murph.
This was just on Oprah. Nate a regular on Oprah had 2 problem dogs. One was a tad aggressive the other a backer. The' Dog Whisperer' was called. Get his book from the library. Your friend needs to change her position as pack leader. The dog needs to be trained to watch her for instructions always.
Maybe Oprah has a tape or on her Web for more. Maybe he has a site too.My friends Boxer has had a personality change. Help ?
Dogs are pack animals. They want to earn their spot in the pack. Your friend obviously is NOT the Alpha to this dog. This is very important. Train train train train.... I cannot stress this enough.
The dog is trying to tell other dogs in the area that he/she is the alpha, but he/she needs to learn he/she is not, through the owner, and now.
Find a traing course in the area and take it, before the lawsuits start.
Maybe another dog hurt, or tried to hurt him? I had a boxer who was the sweetest thing and worshiped the ground I walked on. Then, I had a car accident with him inthe car. After that, he wouldn't have anything to do with me. He would even bark %26amp; growl when I came around him :(.
My dog she is a pit bull-boxer mix and she duz the same thing when i take her for walks and she acts the same around my other dogs but she is just trying to dominate them and when my dog duz that she growls, so they just need to correct her and if she actualy stared a fight than maybe they need to get rid of her.
Teach her an ';alternative behavior'; ... next time you go for a walk... take a bag of treats with you... the very second YOU see another dog ... (hopefully before she does) ask him to sit and reward him lavishly... He can not pin the other dogs if he is sitting and giving you attention but YOU have to be MORE REWARDING! You might want to ';set this up'; a few times with a friend and a known dog and in the mean time avoid ';practicing the poor behavior';
I think you partially answered it yourself... Murphy saw how humans respond to threatening behavior, and, how we are also aggressive in our day to day beliefs, protections, and convictions... law of the jungle, don't start nothing you can't finish, etc...
My dog started doing the same thing after watching me pin down my girlfriends, and after all, sex can seem quite agressive to a ever studying young pup and then seeing the rewards of closeness and gratitude thereafter. It could give the dog mixed messages when all of a sudden its just not ok for them to behave in similiar fashions, just like their human gods. The dog might even think your nuts for not seeing the hypocracy.
Dogs are decendants of wolves, period.
Yes, we breed the tamer ones, but, they do not wipe and they do not vote.
They can't flip a light switch, and they couldn't give a dang about having to shampooing the rug again.
They want (must have) a sense of purpose. To protect, to regulate other dogs, to comfort, to accompany, to comply...
Luckily, Murphy isn't a punk... other dogs may think (or are led to believe) they are just so special they must be bulletproof.
Hard as it may be to accept, Murphy is helping other dogs to accept a dose of reality.
There are things in this world that puppies and sheltered pets dont know about, that are bigger, stronger, faster, and smarter... like cars, coyotes, wolves, etc. (need I say more?)...
At 4 years old, Murphy is acting like a pack elder... being that he isn't ripping open throats or breaking skin, he is acting from best intentions... naturally.
Advise ??? Umm... DO NOT expect him to ';attack'; other dogs... that was something that happened in the past.
Move on so he can follow your lead.
Be friendly in advance to upcoming pets and owners, you are on neutral grounds.
Yes, he will not want his owner pissed off, set the tone AND KEEP IT THAT WAY.
Dogs have their own languages and are a great judge of character, give them the benifit of a doubt and most importantly... make sure your not doing anything to escalate a tender situation
Best wishes... my regards to Murph.
Do babies usually have a personality change around 4 Months?
I was always bragging about how GOOD my baby was! and I think I spoke too soon! I mean my baby will always be good to me no matter what, but he went from being good, and sitting on his bouncy chair, or being anywhere I sat him to screaming OUT-LOUD every-time I leave the room for even 1 second, and he doesnt want to sit on his chair anymore for longer than 5 minutes?
He looks restless all the time?? Did your baby did something similar around 4 or 5 months?
Mom for the very 1st time!
Thanks and how's everyone doing tonite? I hope you're all doing great as well as your cubs!!!Do babies usually have a personality change around 4 Months?
Hi, so how was your labor? You said you were scared about the whole thing! Congrats on your son! Your son`s behaviour is completely normal. My little girl went through the same thing, she would not let me leave the room, it`s a security thing. She also didn`t want to sit in her bouncy for very long or her swing, she wanted to be always changing what she was doing, which is normal. I got one of those bumbo chair`s and that way she could sit in it surrounded by toys and her bottle and she really liked that. I felt like it got a little easier when she began crawling, around 7 months, and now that she is walking it is a lot easier! She doesn`t want me in the room all the time and I have more freedom! Now I`m just waiting for her to be done with breastfeeding and then my family can babyit for a whole night!!Do babies usually have a personality change around 4 Months?
All three of my kids did that. When my twins went through that I was beside myself with stress because I had JUST figured them out. Ugh.
My son did it too but I expected it so I wasn't as horrified when it happened but he did it too in a baaad way. I carried him around all the time.
He looks restless all the time?? Did your baby did something similar around 4 or 5 months?
Mom for the very 1st time!
Thanks and how's everyone doing tonite? I hope you're all doing great as well as your cubs!!!Do babies usually have a personality change around 4 Months?
Hi, so how was your labor? You said you were scared about the whole thing! Congrats on your son! Your son`s behaviour is completely normal. My little girl went through the same thing, she would not let me leave the room, it`s a security thing. She also didn`t want to sit in her bouncy for very long or her swing, she wanted to be always changing what she was doing, which is normal. I got one of those bumbo chair`s and that way she could sit in it surrounded by toys and her bottle and she really liked that. I felt like it got a little easier when she began crawling, around 7 months, and now that she is walking it is a lot easier! She doesn`t want me in the room all the time and I have more freedom! Now I`m just waiting for her to be done with breastfeeding and then my family can babyit for a whole night!!Do babies usually have a personality change around 4 Months?
All three of my kids did that. When my twins went through that I was beside myself with stress because I had JUST figured them out. Ugh.
My son did it too but I expected it so I wasn't as horrified when it happened but he did it too in a baaad way. I carried him around all the time.
Can a cat's personality change when moved to a new home??
I bought a cat from a breeder in Russia and he was shipped to me in California... At the breeders, he ';ruled the roost';, was very playful, and slept in the breeder's bed. At his new home with me, he hides under the bed all day every day except to go potty and eat. If I so much as move he runs and hides. He seems very skiddish. I wonder if this will get better or if he's going to be an under-the-bed nervous cat. He won't let me near him :( He's 10 months old too! Is this from the transition or is this how he's going to be??? It's been 2 weeks :(Can a cat's personality change when moved to a new home??
it's perfectly normal. once your cat starts to feel more at home he will start coming out but sticking to the sides of your walls just talk to him in a soothing voice and dont try to push. you can also try treats like canned fancy feast and such to let him know your on his side.Can a cat's personality change when moved to a new home??
let him choose his roost weather with you or some where else
yes just be patience with the cat. Cause when we moved my cat wouldn't eat for 3 days but she's fine now. Also moved is a big change for cats.
Yes, that happened to my cat as well. He is and was an outdoor cat, but not as much now as when he was in our old house. When we moved, he changed from a fit, energetic hunter to a boring, obese house cat. He only goes outside once in a while to go to the bathroom and ';explore'; our back porch. We think it may be because our neighbors cats were also outdoor cats, and they had already ';claimed'; our yard. maybe it is the opposite with your cat. He has nothing to rule over and doesnt have anything to do...?
Tha'ts normal. When i moved, my cat stayed inside for almost a month. She wouldn't go outside unless i was with her. But she's used to everything now. Just give the cat sometime. My cat was also about 10 month when we moved so don't worry to much about it. If you get really worried, you can always take him to the vet. They can give him some medicine to calm him down.
he went through a very stressful travel time. he should warm up to you soon. give him treats when he does come out and it may help.a scottish name imply within dos
it's perfectly normal. once your cat starts to feel more at home he will start coming out but sticking to the sides of your walls just talk to him in a soothing voice and dont try to push. you can also try treats like canned fancy feast and such to let him know your on his side.Can a cat's personality change when moved to a new home??
let him choose his roost weather with you or some where else
yes just be patience with the cat. Cause when we moved my cat wouldn't eat for 3 days but she's fine now. Also moved is a big change for cats.
Yes, that happened to my cat as well. He is and was an outdoor cat, but not as much now as when he was in our old house. When we moved, he changed from a fit, energetic hunter to a boring, obese house cat. He only goes outside once in a while to go to the bathroom and ';explore'; our back porch. We think it may be because our neighbors cats were also outdoor cats, and they had already ';claimed'; our yard. maybe it is the opposite with your cat. He has nothing to rule over and doesnt have anything to do...?
Tha'ts normal. When i moved, my cat stayed inside for almost a month. She wouldn't go outside unless i was with her. But she's used to everything now. Just give the cat sometime. My cat was also about 10 month when we moved so don't worry to much about it. If you get really worried, you can always take him to the vet. They can give him some medicine to calm him down.
he went through a very stressful travel time. he should warm up to you soon. give him treats when he does come out and it may help.
How your personality changes when you are around same sex as opposed to opposite sex?
and why you think?
and which you like better?
please explain also why you become this way?
also how depends on their intellectual level.?
is this normal?
please explain.How your personality changes when you are around same sex as opposed to opposite sex?
Well I feel good, if that means anything at all.How your personality changes when you are around same sex as opposed to opposite sex?
I'm myself no matter who I'm with.
and which you like better?
please explain also why you become this way?
also how depends on their intellectual level.?
is this normal?
please explain.How your personality changes when you are around same sex as opposed to opposite sex?
Well I feel good, if that means anything at all.How your personality changes when you are around same sex as opposed to opposite sex?
I'm myself no matter who I'm with.
2 year old DD personality change since having a new baby?
WE have 2 wonderful beautiful childern DD 2yo(28 months) and DS 11 days old. But our DD is not adjusting well to the new addition. She has been acting like a tyrant. She is constantly screaming, throwing fits and every other word from her is NO. While the baby sleeps she will be in the same room but as soon as he wakes she will leave the room and hide or throw a tantrum. We have tried spending more time with her and telling her how we love her and how the baby loves her too. But she just keeps up the same behavior she has even told me that I don't love her. She is doing things she would have never done in the past like putting some things in her mouth, trying to wander outside by herself, ect. This whole thing is breaking my heart and sometimes I feel guilty. We know she loves him but we think she is afraid to show it. Please someone giveme some advice on how I can stop this behavior because I think I will go crazy if it doesn't end soon. Thanks in advance2 year old DD personality change since having a new baby?
My daughter was 22 months when we brought our new baby home. She was quite upset at this new addition, it lasted about 1 month or so and every day it got better. I noticed that whenever someone would come to see the new baby everyone fussed over the new baby instead of our oldest and she was always the centre of attention, so I made a point of asking our guests to say hello to our oldest daughter first before fussing too much over the baby.
I also included our oldest daughter in everything, from feeding to changing. If I was changing the baby, I would ask my oldest to open the diaper for her sister and say things like ';wow, you are the best big sister ever'; and she would be very happy with herself and very proud of herself. After about a week, she would actually tell people ';do you want to meet my little sister';, we would always make a point of spending a lot more time with our oldest daughter.
it is tough, but it was so rewarding. My oldest is now almost 3 and the baby just turned one and they are inseparable. The oldest is always asking for her little sister, and when she wakes up in the morning she goes straight into her sisters room - she use to come and see us :)
I felt guilty in the beginning, but I feel SO much better and happier. the first time you see the oldest one, hug or kiss the little one you will cry your eyes out - it is beautiful to see.
Don't feel bad - feel free to contact me anytime as I have seen it all. I don't think she is doing it to be bad or misbehave I think she may actually be upset or confused over the situation. Instead of paying attention to her behaviour try to redirect it, instead of asking why she is hiding or sulking say something like ';we are going to change the baby I can't do it without your help, you are the big sister and your little brother needs you';.
Good luck and congrats on your new addition.2 year old DD personality change since having a new baby?
My mom ';gave'; me to my brother. He got to help out a lot with ';his'; baby. He got to help feed me and play with me and hold me and he was only 2 1/2 when i came around. You just have to make it more fun for her to have new baby there. THe more you play into her sudden behaviour the more she wins because she is getting the attention she wants. She doesn't care if it is positive attention or negative attention as long as it's attention. Don't play her game.
I've also heard of people throwing a party for the older sibling to celebrate them becoming a big brother/big sister...none of the attention was given to the baby...only the older one...it supposed to help them adjust with the sudden loss of some of the attention.
I can't really give much advice on how to stop the behaviour other than be consistent and firm. Let her help you as much as possible and let her have time to hold him while she is sitting on the sofa (with your help!). When he smiles say 'look he is smilling specially for his big sister'. I have 2 children with the same age gap, my son is now 5 and my daughter is 2, it all seems like a distant memory but I remember it well. You feel guilty, different feelings of love for both, anger and then guilt and you start thinking that life as you knew it is well and truly over and you will never get your child back.
Thankfully none of it is true, it takes a while for everyone to adjust to the new baby but eventually things will settle down and you too will feel like this is all just a distant memory. Who knows you might be able to say the same thing to someone else in 2 years.
Take care!
My daughter was 22 months when we brought our new baby home. She was quite upset at this new addition, it lasted about 1 month or so and every day it got better. I noticed that whenever someone would come to see the new baby everyone fussed over the new baby instead of our oldest and she was always the centre of attention, so I made a point of asking our guests to say hello to our oldest daughter first before fussing too much over the baby.
I also included our oldest daughter in everything, from feeding to changing. If I was changing the baby, I would ask my oldest to open the diaper for her sister and say things like ';wow, you are the best big sister ever'; and she would be very happy with herself and very proud of herself. After about a week, she would actually tell people ';do you want to meet my little sister';, we would always make a point of spending a lot more time with our oldest daughter.
it is tough, but it was so rewarding. My oldest is now almost 3 and the baby just turned one and they are inseparable. The oldest is always asking for her little sister, and when she wakes up in the morning she goes straight into her sisters room - she use to come and see us :)
I felt guilty in the beginning, but I feel SO much better and happier. the first time you see the oldest one, hug or kiss the little one you will cry your eyes out - it is beautiful to see.
Don't feel bad - feel free to contact me anytime as I have seen it all. I don't think she is doing it to be bad or misbehave I think she may actually be upset or confused over the situation. Instead of paying attention to her behaviour try to redirect it, instead of asking why she is hiding or sulking say something like ';we are going to change the baby I can't do it without your help, you are the big sister and your little brother needs you';.
Good luck and congrats on your new addition.2 year old DD personality change since having a new baby?
My mom ';gave'; me to my brother. He got to help out a lot with ';his'; baby. He got to help feed me and play with me and hold me and he was only 2 1/2 when i came around. You just have to make it more fun for her to have new baby there. THe more you play into her sudden behaviour the more she wins because she is getting the attention she wants. She doesn't care if it is positive attention or negative attention as long as it's attention. Don't play her game.
I've also heard of people throwing a party for the older sibling to celebrate them becoming a big brother/big sister...none of the attention was given to the baby...only the older one...it supposed to help them adjust with the sudden loss of some of the attention.
I can't really give much advice on how to stop the behaviour other than be consistent and firm. Let her help you as much as possible and let her have time to hold him while she is sitting on the sofa (with your help!). When he smiles say 'look he is smilling specially for his big sister'. I have 2 children with the same age gap, my son is now 5 and my daughter is 2, it all seems like a distant memory but I remember it well. You feel guilty, different feelings of love for both, anger and then guilt and you start thinking that life as you knew it is well and truly over and you will never get your child back.
Thankfully none of it is true, it takes a while for everyone to adjust to the new baby but eventually things will settle down and you too will feel like this is all just a distant memory. Who knows you might be able to say the same thing to someone else in 2 years.
Take care!
Did Luigi's personality change alot?
Ever noticed that since Luigi's Mansion, Luigi tends to act wimpy and scared all the time? I noticed that the Mario series before Luigi's Mansion came, Luigi didn't act all scared so much, especially during the N64 era. Like in the Mario Tennis 64 intro, Luigi seemed confident to step up and pick a fight with Waluigi. Luigi seemed more badass around that time. I don't know why Nintendo decided to turned him into acting like a sissy. Plus, I loved how Luigi's voice sounded in Mario Kart 64 and Mario Tennis 64.Did Luigi's personality change alot?
They've done it just to make him more of an obvious ';Player 2'; role.Did Luigi's personality change alot?
well it seem like he is confident in all of the non traditional games, like racing or sports games. in stuff like luigi's mansion, you focus on luigi and not really mario. so you see what luigi is really like. there used to be a mario cartoon actually, a while ago and luigi was all timid and stuff in that. i guess nintendo wanted another character, for like comic relief, and he was the best one for the job!
remember, mario is always the one who goes on adventures and luigi stays back. thats why hes best to be the scared one.
lol
he kicked *** in mario 1.
Luigis mansion he was just a pussy.
lol im not even lying i just was saying this!
Some one else asked who's better out of the two plumbers and i said luigi.. except now they make him a pansy! Idk if you've played Bowsers Inside Story... but he's at an all time worse there! Man it sucks too... i really like luigi... and there making hima girl
I do agree with you, luigi is no longer main character material, because hes such a wimp.
They've done it just to make him more of an obvious ';Player 2'; role.Did Luigi's personality change alot?
well it seem like he is confident in all of the non traditional games, like racing or sports games. in stuff like luigi's mansion, you focus on luigi and not really mario. so you see what luigi is really like. there used to be a mario cartoon actually, a while ago and luigi was all timid and stuff in that. i guess nintendo wanted another character, for like comic relief, and he was the best one for the job!
remember, mario is always the one who goes on adventures and luigi stays back. thats why hes best to be the scared one.
lol
he kicked *** in mario 1.
Luigis mansion he was just a pussy.
lol im not even lying i just was saying this!
Some one else asked who's better out of the two plumbers and i said luigi.. except now they make him a pansy! Idk if you've played Bowsers Inside Story... but he's at an all time worse there! Man it sucks too... i really like luigi... and there making hima girl
I do agree with you, luigi is no longer main character material, because hes such a wimp.
In need of personality change!whhhyyy me? Howw...?
ok, im 16 never had a boyfriend, and barely friends with guys. I love chilling with them, cos theyre not bitchy, and more easy going. Im realy quiet and shy, but have started to get more confidence talking to people. Sometimes i really want a boyfriend, or even just more friends! I have alot of self confidence issues. Need advice on how to overcome this, and just get out there! Im easy too, i guess, i lost my virginity to a guy hoping he would like me better. Getting over him? Comebacks? Thanks!In need of personality change!whhhyyy me? Howw...?
In order for someone to love you, even like you you need to like yourself. Sounds like you need to do some soul searching.
Hang out with the friends you do have. Put yourself out there more. Dress up, wear makeup if you don't, get a haircut, dye your hair. You're just as good as anyone else.
You're not missing out on much by not running around with a gang of people who don't even care about you.
Maybe you should embrace what you have, not what you lack.
Guys dig chicks with confidence.
Make them come to you.
Flirt but don't let them think they can have it all. I wouldn't even worry about sex.
Guys hit it and quit it.
Hit the teen clubs (if there are any in your area) go to the mall, join an after school club, get involved! Let everyone get to know the awesome girl you know you are inside.In need of personality change!whhhyyy me? Howw...?
well a couple months ago i wanted to change too.for me, a song changes my mood. So i always thought of this sing (liar liar by nevershoutnever) that made me feel this one way and now im like that all the time. well this might seem kinda stupid but it worked for me soo i hope this helps!
Just be you don't change for someone else and don't lose confident. Tell the guy you like you like him.
In order for someone to love you, even like you you need to like yourself. Sounds like you need to do some soul searching.
Hang out with the friends you do have. Put yourself out there more. Dress up, wear makeup if you don't, get a haircut, dye your hair. You're just as good as anyone else.
You're not missing out on much by not running around with a gang of people who don't even care about you.
Maybe you should embrace what you have, not what you lack.
Guys dig chicks with confidence.
Make them come to you.
Flirt but don't let them think they can have it all. I wouldn't even worry about sex.
Guys hit it and quit it.
Hit the teen clubs (if there are any in your area) go to the mall, join an after school club, get involved! Let everyone get to know the awesome girl you know you are inside.In need of personality change!whhhyyy me? Howw...?
well a couple months ago i wanted to change too.for me, a song changes my mood. So i always thought of this sing (liar liar by nevershoutnever) that made me feel this one way and now im like that all the time. well this might seem kinda stupid but it worked for me soo i hope this helps!
Just be you don't change for someone else and don't lose confident. Tell the guy you like you like him.
Tips for a personality change over ?
Hi
well how do i start.. i think i have been ignoring this for quiet a while now but its time to do introspection and do something about it
i have been a introvert,reserve kinda person from childhood ...Post graduation from a A grade college ,exposure to corporate world,climbing the management ladder in professional world has done the patch work in terms of gaining confidence in public speaking,taking the oweership of critical tasks but i am still lacking a lot in terms of giving too much attention on consequences. i am too scared to think of the results and its after effects be it in terms of scolding from Project manager if i deviate from a well defined process in job , taking sides of mother in a debatable issue of wife Vs My mother
Many a times i think i should have given a smart or subtle answer to a catch 22 situation at that instant itself but either i wont gather courage to say so or that answer would never strike at that moment and i will then repent later
I know not everyone is bestowed with all qualities
but can this be worked upon in a systematic manner
Even my wife,my inlaws and colleagues are aware of this shortcoming and they use to manipulate and use it to the best of their advantage
Anyone there who has been patient and kinda enuff to still read till this line would like to give any suggestion how to become bold,carefree,confident w/t sounding/behaving as dominating,aggressive and imposing ,i will be really thankful
Tips for a personality change over ?
You have to love yourself and be proud of who you are and not be afraid to assert yourself. Look at all of your accomplishments. Feel successful, but also strive to even better yourself more. Your worth should not be determined by the opinions of those in your life. And you also must realize that their opinions are only assumptions of how you portray yourself to them, not necessarily who you truly are. Open yourself up a bit. That's the first step. You have to let yourself be vulnerable to eventually become strong.Tips for a personality change over ?
get over yourself
I think you will benefit from at least a few sessions with a therapist who can help you understand what your true needs are that you are trying to express, and to give you an idea of the process involved in trying to address them.
I wonder...are you an only child? I have a theory that only children do not get the benefits of childhood confrontations and squabbles and forgiveness that people with siblings do. I also have trouble standing up to those who are most important to me and who may also be my superiors. I have accepted that I am not a leader, and that's not a bad thing. However, I do have opinions - even if it takes a while for me to work them out - and those opinions should be respected by those around me. These people who ';know'; about your doormat qualities and abuse them might not like it when you stand up to them because they aren't used to it. You may need to explain explicitly that you are consciously making a change and you could use their patience and understanding and respect during the transition. It will be scary at first to dissent from your expected responses and actions, but it is liberating and well worth the uncomfortable change. By the way, I've gotten to loathe the term ';doormat'; and am sorry to use it, but I want you to get what I'm saying. I've come to look at my behavior more as ';loyalty'; and in that way am learning to respect myself for who I am. Hope this helps.
well how do i start.. i think i have been ignoring this for quiet a while now but its time to do introspection and do something about it
i have been a introvert,reserve kinda person from childhood ...Post graduation from a A grade college ,exposure to corporate world,climbing the management ladder in professional world has done the patch work in terms of gaining confidence in public speaking,taking the oweership of critical tasks but i am still lacking a lot in terms of giving too much attention on consequences. i am too scared to think of the results and its after effects be it in terms of scolding from Project manager if i deviate from a well defined process in job , taking sides of mother in a debatable issue of wife Vs My mother
Many a times i think i should have given a smart or subtle answer to a catch 22 situation at that instant itself but either i wont gather courage to say so or that answer would never strike at that moment and i will then repent later
I know not everyone is bestowed with all qualities
but can this be worked upon in a systematic manner
Even my wife,my inlaws and colleagues are aware of this shortcoming and they use to manipulate and use it to the best of their advantage
Anyone there who has been patient and kinda enuff to still read till this line would like to give any suggestion how to become bold,carefree,confident w/t sounding/behaving as dominating,aggressive and imposing ,i will be really thankful
Tips for a personality change over ?
You have to love yourself and be proud of who you are and not be afraid to assert yourself. Look at all of your accomplishments. Feel successful, but also strive to even better yourself more. Your worth should not be determined by the opinions of those in your life. And you also must realize that their opinions are only assumptions of how you portray yourself to them, not necessarily who you truly are. Open yourself up a bit. That's the first step. You have to let yourself be vulnerable to eventually become strong.Tips for a personality change over ?
get over yourself
I think you will benefit from at least a few sessions with a therapist who can help you understand what your true needs are that you are trying to express, and to give you an idea of the process involved in trying to address them.
I wonder...are you an only child? I have a theory that only children do not get the benefits of childhood confrontations and squabbles and forgiveness that people with siblings do. I also have trouble standing up to those who are most important to me and who may also be my superiors. I have accepted that I am not a leader, and that's not a bad thing. However, I do have opinions - even if it takes a while for me to work them out - and those opinions should be respected by those around me. These people who ';know'; about your doormat qualities and abuse them might not like it when you stand up to them because they aren't used to it. You may need to explain explicitly that you are consciously making a change and you could use their patience and understanding and respect during the transition. It will be scary at first to dissent from your expected responses and actions, but it is liberating and well worth the uncomfortable change. By the way, I've gotten to loathe the term ';doormat'; and am sorry to use it, but I want you to get what I'm saying. I've come to look at my behavior more as ';loyalty'; and in that way am learning to respect myself for who I am. Hope this helps.
Does your personality change whenever you meed someone different?
i might already know the answer but id like your opinion. what is the reason behind it? whenever i meet someone i act like a different person then if i talk to an old friend, and even then with each old friend i act differently with each one, i have no idea how i usualy act anymore because its so diverse at times, note id like an honest answer dont try to just state a blunt, tell me what you think, be descriptive, i talk to my girlfriend and act like any old person, yet i look back at it and i tell myself ';that isnt me'; yet then at times ill be like ';that is so me 100%'; it changest so frequently my whole thought process goes differently as well, it shows in my school work, sometimes i make 85s that when i look back on it the next week id re answer them all for a 100 passing easy, i act like a completely different person when i have a headache as well more irritable, outspoken (to a degree yet not entirely, i mean sure, ill tell you to shut up but i wont go overboard) i met someone recently and i act formal, talk to an old friend and im as different and oposite in such intensity its amazng sure my beliefs and views on things are the same but i produce it differently in so many ways i dont know which is my normal way of doing things anymore. (i had this question in mind many times during the days but it always drifted away, however unimportant, i think i have my answer already but i'd like to see what you think on this view)Does your personality change whenever you meed someone different?
its common in adolescence, even adults. personally this is my Label for immaturity but in your case i see it more as comfort ability. most of all people in the world are like that. i can have conversations with some people that i cant with others. i tend to present my self in the same way. Unless im being silly. i think it eventually evens out, the acting different in front of everyone that is. things change constantly, how you are is not giving too you at birth you develop them from learning social situations, some people find it easiest to act differently, that is just how they are, don't dwell on it.Does your personality change whenever you meed someone different?
hmm my life isn't an act i'm just me.all the time.
You are a different you when your around different people.
I'm like that too.
Like a 3D polygon, you have a different side for each person.
As long as your not tireing to be some one different. The most important thing out there is to be yourself, but its ok to have different personalities at different times. Maybe one friend just brings out your wild side and one just calms your down...
If it comes naturally to act the way you do around certain people then that is all your personality, as long as your not trying to be something you know your not in order to please someone. Different people are into different things, so when you are around different kinds of people you just act more on the certain parts of your personality that appeal the most to them, but it is still all you
yes, i do this, and i am very unhappy about it.
about how differently you would do on a test -
this could be due to stress, sleepiness, drugs ( no offense, just listing a possibility) and, believe it or not a few types of seizures that are not evident from outside, called
complex seizures
or
complex partial seizures.
the headache especially is what made me think about the possibility of ';invisible'; seizures. talk to your doc, or even a neurologist. I 'm serious.
Yeah for sure and it depends what what type of person I'm with. I act the most comfortable and at-home around my boyfriend. I act fairly comfortable around my parents. I act shy and innocent around my extended family. I can act wild, fun and crazy around one friend and wholesome, goody-good and quiet around another.
It's called adapting man.some people like funny so you act funny and some people don't so you don't.I do it too.odp.net charakterset 4how to get a boyfriend
its common in adolescence, even adults. personally this is my Label for immaturity but in your case i see it more as comfort ability. most of all people in the world are like that. i can have conversations with some people that i cant with others. i tend to present my self in the same way. Unless im being silly. i think it eventually evens out, the acting different in front of everyone that is. things change constantly, how you are is not giving too you at birth you develop them from learning social situations, some people find it easiest to act differently, that is just how they are, don't dwell on it.Does your personality change whenever you meed someone different?
hmm my life isn't an act i'm just me.all the time.
You are a different you when your around different people.
I'm like that too.
Like a 3D polygon, you have a different side for each person.
As long as your not tireing to be some one different. The most important thing out there is to be yourself, but its ok to have different personalities at different times. Maybe one friend just brings out your wild side and one just calms your down...
If it comes naturally to act the way you do around certain people then that is all your personality, as long as your not trying to be something you know your not in order to please someone. Different people are into different things, so when you are around different kinds of people you just act more on the certain parts of your personality that appeal the most to them, but it is still all you
yes, i do this, and i am very unhappy about it.
about how differently you would do on a test -
this could be due to stress, sleepiness, drugs ( no offense, just listing a possibility) and, believe it or not a few types of seizures that are not evident from outside, called
complex seizures
or
complex partial seizures.
the headache especially is what made me think about the possibility of ';invisible'; seizures. talk to your doc, or even a neurologist. I 'm serious.
Yeah for sure and it depends what what type of person I'm with. I act the most comfortable and at-home around my boyfriend. I act fairly comfortable around my parents. I act shy and innocent around my extended family. I can act wild, fun and crazy around one friend and wholesome, goody-good and quiet around another.
It's called adapting man.some people like funny so you act funny and some people don't so you don't.I do it too.
Does your personality change between your main account and back up account?
this is my back up account, if its one thing i noticed, i tend to be much more meaner on this account, and i tend to ask qs, i definitely wouldnt ask on my other account (mostly cause i dont want my fans to see them).
on my main account im nicer, yet more depressing.
how about you guys? (im only asking in this section, cause you guys are a very odd and interesting group).Does your personality change between your main account and back up account?
Are you Sandy? 19, Mixed, and Proud Virgin? Who are you? lol
But no, mostly because this is my only account. It's probably because you don't have to worry about your repuation, losing points, and etc.
Bye!Does your personality change between your main account and back up account?
No I'm the same. I've used this one recently for about 4 weeks now, since I have one on level 5, and I wanted to get this one to level 5 as well. I haven't used my 3rd one in like months, that one is on level 3. I'm the same, I don't change who I am.
I only ahve one account...I don't really see the point of having an alter ego here on YA lol...but u got 2 accounts yeah? wuts the name of ur other account?
*lol u didnt answer what i asked...rejection..:P
on my main account im nicer, yet more depressing.
how about you guys? (im only asking in this section, cause you guys are a very odd and interesting group).Does your personality change between your main account and back up account?
Are you Sandy? 19, Mixed, and Proud Virgin? Who are you? lol
But no, mostly because this is my only account. It's probably because you don't have to worry about your repuation, losing points, and etc.
Bye!Does your personality change between your main account and back up account?
No I'm the same. I've used this one recently for about 4 weeks now, since I have one on level 5, and I wanted to get this one to level 5 as well. I haven't used my 3rd one in like months, that one is on level 3. I'm the same, I don't change who I am.
I only ahve one account...I don't really see the point of having an alter ego here on YA lol...but u got 2 accounts yeah? wuts the name of ur other account?
*lol u didnt answer what i asked...rejection..:P
Puppy had personality change?
Hi I recently adopted a puppy. It's currently 8.5 weeks old. It's a mixed breed but I'm not exactly sure what breed he is.
He's a very delightful puppy and he adapted quickly to his surroundings when I brought him home. He's progressing well in his crate training and already knows to go outside. But he's having difficulty with his behavioral training. He's a puppy so of course he loves to bite everything, I bought him a chew toy which he loves. Everytime he bites something he's not suppose to I give him a nip on the side (Cesar Millan's technique) and redirect his bite to the chew toy. However, he's getting more and more aggressive everytime I correct his behavior. He growls back and trys to attack me. It saddens me to think of how adorable he was days ago and now he's growling and fighting back. Am I doing something wrong? I really miss my sweet puppy but I have to do something about his biting problem.... please help?Puppy had personality change?
Cesar Milan's techniques don't work for every dog and every situation. An 8 week old puppy is not able to understand why you're hurting him. He begins to see you as a threat and wants to protect himself. You've just been misinformed. Puppies teethe just like babies do; It isn't biting. His gums are sore, his teeth are sore and he just wants to find something to relieve the pain and urge to chew.
He needs more than one chew toy first of all. A variety of toys (soft and hard) will help keep him from focusing on things he isn't supposed to chew on. Also, instead of punishing him, try distracting him with something else to chew on when he chews something he isn't supposed to. When he stops chewing it, praise him heavily. Dogs in general respond much better to positive training rather than negative. Training is essential, but you have to be conscious of your puppy's age and level of development before beginning a training regimen.Puppy had personality change?
i watch that show to and right befor they do it they say dont do this without consulting with a pro geez
I actually don't aggree with Cesar tecnique. If you bite a puppy back or hit or smack him or roll him over-force full methods, it in a dogs nature to actual respond aggressively and much more likely to growl and bite back in response. Which is why is response is growl and biting now. You need to change your methods.
Much better Say a firm NO and redirect the pup to a chew toy. I much prefer victoria stillwell trainning then Cesar.
Well why wud u listen to him??? Dogs dont respond to being hit well. You will be far more succesful with positive reinforcement. If u hit the dog of course he is gonna bite back. I suggest seeing a dog trainer and not listeing to idiots who think they no everything about dogs when they clearly dont.
good luck
There are several things you can do to curb mouthing and biting, and you may end up using a combination of approaches. Here's what to do when you feel teeth:
et out a high-pitched yelp or squeal, which should startle your pup and cause her to let go. With her teeth now off your skin, praise her for good behavior.
ight the urge to pull your hand back. Instead, let it go limp; quickly jerking away may be misinterpreted as playing and could inadvertently encourage her to continue the behavior.
ignal that mouthiness is unacceptable by turning away from her or even going into another room for about 30 seconds. What your pup wants is interaction with you, and she'll quickly learn to avoid doing anything that interrupts your games.
edirect her. Instead of your fingers, provide an appropriate toy for her to chew on.
ind another outlet. Play fetch, take a walk, or practice training exercises instead of playing games that tempt her to mouth or bite.
ocialize her with other puppies and arrange playdates with well-behaved adult dogs--they're more effective than humans at demonstrating good canine manners.
Growl back at him. When you back down, he counts coup on you. If it happens consistently he'll know he's the alpha and you aren't.
Next time he lays a tooth on you, try this.
Open your hand so the palm and fingers are straight and together, and the thumb is sticking out at 90 degrees.
Put the angle, where your thumb meets your hand, over the top of the pup's muzzle with fingers on one side and the thumb on the other. Curl your fingers and thumb toward his mouth, pushing his lips against his teeth. Don't hurt him, just keep his lips between your fingertips and his teeth.
Shake him gently side-to-side a couple of times, while glaring into his eyes. State, in a low, growling voice, ';NO TEETH!';
If he struggles against your hold, he'll hurt himself by pushing his lips against the teeth.
Hold him till he stops struggling, then push him away and get up, walk away without looking at him.
Cesar Milan's techniques only work for him; there's a ton of work that gets done with those dogs that never gets shown on a half-hour show.
Buy lots of training books and try everything. I recommend Brian Kilcommons, Barbara Woodhouse, Patricia Gail Burnham and the Monks of New Skete.
Kilcommons also has a website that has a forum:
www.mysmartpuppy.com
He's a very delightful puppy and he adapted quickly to his surroundings when I brought him home. He's progressing well in his crate training and already knows to go outside. But he's having difficulty with his behavioral training. He's a puppy so of course he loves to bite everything, I bought him a chew toy which he loves. Everytime he bites something he's not suppose to I give him a nip on the side (Cesar Millan's technique) and redirect his bite to the chew toy. However, he's getting more and more aggressive everytime I correct his behavior. He growls back and trys to attack me. It saddens me to think of how adorable he was days ago and now he's growling and fighting back. Am I doing something wrong? I really miss my sweet puppy but I have to do something about his biting problem.... please help?Puppy had personality change?
Cesar Milan's techniques don't work for every dog and every situation. An 8 week old puppy is not able to understand why you're hurting him. He begins to see you as a threat and wants to protect himself. You've just been misinformed. Puppies teethe just like babies do; It isn't biting. His gums are sore, his teeth are sore and he just wants to find something to relieve the pain and urge to chew.
He needs more than one chew toy first of all. A variety of toys (soft and hard) will help keep him from focusing on things he isn't supposed to chew on. Also, instead of punishing him, try distracting him with something else to chew on when he chews something he isn't supposed to. When he stops chewing it, praise him heavily. Dogs in general respond much better to positive training rather than negative. Training is essential, but you have to be conscious of your puppy's age and level of development before beginning a training regimen.Puppy had personality change?
i watch that show to and right befor they do it they say dont do this without consulting with a pro geez
I actually don't aggree with Cesar tecnique. If you bite a puppy back or hit or smack him or roll him over-force full methods, it in a dogs nature to actual respond aggressively and much more likely to growl and bite back in response. Which is why is response is growl and biting now. You need to change your methods.
Much better Say a firm NO and redirect the pup to a chew toy. I much prefer victoria stillwell trainning then Cesar.
Well why wud u listen to him??? Dogs dont respond to being hit well. You will be far more succesful with positive reinforcement. If u hit the dog of course he is gonna bite back. I suggest seeing a dog trainer and not listeing to idiots who think they no everything about dogs when they clearly dont.
good luck
There are several things you can do to curb mouthing and biting, and you may end up using a combination of approaches. Here's what to do when you feel teeth:
et out a high-pitched yelp or squeal, which should startle your pup and cause her to let go. With her teeth now off your skin, praise her for good behavior.
ight the urge to pull your hand back. Instead, let it go limp; quickly jerking away may be misinterpreted as playing and could inadvertently encourage her to continue the behavior.
ignal that mouthiness is unacceptable by turning away from her or even going into another room for about 30 seconds. What your pup wants is interaction with you, and she'll quickly learn to avoid doing anything that interrupts your games.
edirect her. Instead of your fingers, provide an appropriate toy for her to chew on.
ind another outlet. Play fetch, take a walk, or practice training exercises instead of playing games that tempt her to mouth or bite.
ocialize her with other puppies and arrange playdates with well-behaved adult dogs--they're more effective than humans at demonstrating good canine manners.
Growl back at him. When you back down, he counts coup on you. If it happens consistently he'll know he's the alpha and you aren't.
Next time he lays a tooth on you, try this.
Open your hand so the palm and fingers are straight and together, and the thumb is sticking out at 90 degrees.
Put the angle, where your thumb meets your hand, over the top of the pup's muzzle with fingers on one side and the thumb on the other. Curl your fingers and thumb toward his mouth, pushing his lips against his teeth. Don't hurt him, just keep his lips between your fingertips and his teeth.
Shake him gently side-to-side a couple of times, while glaring into his eyes. State, in a low, growling voice, ';NO TEETH!';
If he struggles against your hold, he'll hurt himself by pushing his lips against the teeth.
Hold him till he stops struggling, then push him away and get up, walk away without looking at him.
Cesar Milan's techniques only work for him; there's a ton of work that gets done with those dogs that never gets shown on a half-hour show.
Buy lots of training books and try everything. I recommend Brian Kilcommons, Barbara Woodhouse, Patricia Gail Burnham and the Monks of New Skete.
Kilcommons also has a website that has a forum:
www.mysmartpuppy.com
Random personality change towards my crush??
Well I stay with my family at my crush's house every summer, so Ionly see him once a year.He's way older than me,so I try to keep him interested in me by playing hard to get.For example, last year I acted tomboyish towards him and because of that, we picked on each other a lot.Now, this year, I dont know why but I appeared more girly. When we were in this theme park, he asked me why I didnt want to go on the scary ride and I practicaly blurted out that I was scared.Also, there was another time when my brother and my crush's brother were watching a scary movie and I asked him why he wasn't watching it and he said because he watched the movie already.Then,he asked me why I didn't want to watch it and I said,';I'm scared to!';Everytime he asked me questions like that,I just blurted them out without thinking.Now,I know that hes not interested in me at all b/c he didn't even pick on me or anything or talked to me as much as he did last year.Why'd i do that %26amp; how should I act next year to him?Random personality change towards my crush??
the main problem was that you never acted like yourself! i think its a big turn off to guys when they are attracted to a girl then they come to realize that they were being fake. But hey! everyone becomes nervous and makes quik reactions when you try to impress someone.
next year when you see him... be yourself. There is not much else you can do. It may be sucky to hear, but you can't make someone like you. You don't want to be with someone that you really care about, when they don't feel the same.
Who knowz?! maybe he is just confused right now because he may still not know the real you! be yourself next time...and if is not interested...sory, but there is not much else you can do....if you both begin to get along, have fun!!!!
Good Luck!
the main problem was that you never acted like yourself! i think its a big turn off to guys when they are attracted to a girl then they come to realize that they were being fake. But hey! everyone becomes nervous and makes quik reactions when you try to impress someone.
next year when you see him... be yourself. There is not much else you can do. It may be sucky to hear, but you can't make someone like you. You don't want to be with someone that you really care about, when they don't feel the same.
Who knowz?! maybe he is just confused right now because he may still not know the real you! be yourself next time...and if is not interested...sory, but there is not much else you can do....if you both begin to get along, have fun!!!!
Good Luck!
Overnight personality change... HELP !?
My girl just turned one years old. And suddenly, OMG, it's like someone kidnapped my happy, content, smiling, easy-going baby and replaced her with a snarky monster-kid !
She is constantly testing, every day is a struggle. She purposely does whatever we just said NO to, then has a monster fit when we take her away from whatever it was. She is suddenly extremely impatient and screams at the top of her lungs. Every single time she doesn't get what she wants, she has a terrible tantrum, throwing herself down and doing the bacon. If we are holding her when we refuse something, she slaps us in the face ! She never did any of this just a week ago !
What is the best way to deal with this sudden extreme-defiant phase ? Any idea how long I'll be pulling my hair out ? I can't imagine the terrible two's can be much worse....Overnight personality change... HELP !?
1) don't yell, be obsequious or appeasing.
2) develop a firm voice when talking at all times except when playing.
3) I like the holding time out: sit down on floor or chair, put the child on your lap with her back toward you and hold her arms around her in a sort of straight jacket firmly so she can't squirm out, but, of course, loose enough to let her breath.
4) while she is trying to squirm out and yell, you are calmly but firmly telling her in a regular voice: ';XYZ is a no-no, XYZ is a no-no...'; (XYZ = the particular transgression). At first do it for 30 seconds to 1-2 minutes. If this doesn't help, keep it up until she calms down in your lap and when she finally calms repeat the message 1-2 more times then her let go.
5) be consistent, never miss an opportunity to follow the undesirable behavior with a consequence.
6) be aware some behaviors will be a the result of simple inability to self regulate and others out of the meanness of that period. Some behavior will just have to be ignored (just walk out of the room or turn you back to it) and others the steps above. Experience will tell you which needs a consequence and which needs to be ignored. Sometimes you won't know, so ignore and if continues do the routine above but if you do the routine don't give up in the middle. Good luck. You've got 6 months to 3 years of this but hopefully the above with shorten and/or make them less intense or frequent.
She is constantly testing, every day is a struggle. She purposely does whatever we just said NO to, then has a monster fit when we take her away from whatever it was. She is suddenly extremely impatient and screams at the top of her lungs. Every single time she doesn't get what she wants, she has a terrible tantrum, throwing herself down and doing the bacon. If we are holding her when we refuse something, she slaps us in the face ! She never did any of this just a week ago !
What is the best way to deal with this sudden extreme-defiant phase ? Any idea how long I'll be pulling my hair out ? I can't imagine the terrible two's can be much worse....Overnight personality change... HELP !?
1) don't yell, be obsequious or appeasing.
2) develop a firm voice when talking at all times except when playing.
3) I like the holding time out: sit down on floor or chair, put the child on your lap with her back toward you and hold her arms around her in a sort of straight jacket firmly so she can't squirm out, but, of course, loose enough to let her breath.
4) while she is trying to squirm out and yell, you are calmly but firmly telling her in a regular voice: ';XYZ is a no-no, XYZ is a no-no...'; (XYZ = the particular transgression). At first do it for 30 seconds to 1-2 minutes. If this doesn't help, keep it up until she calms down in your lap and when she finally calms repeat the message 1-2 more times then her let go.
5) be consistent, never miss an opportunity to follow the undesirable behavior with a consequence.
6) be aware some behaviors will be a the result of simple inability to self regulate and others out of the meanness of that period. Some behavior will just have to be ignored (just walk out of the room or turn you back to it) and others the steps above. Experience will tell you which needs a consequence and which needs to be ignored. Sometimes you won't know, so ignore and if continues do the routine above but if you do the routine don't give up in the middle. Good luck. You've got 6 months to 3 years of this but hopefully the above with shorten and/or make them less intense or frequent.
How do you change your personality ?
i talk loud and i talk alot, how to i change that ? i mean like.. i know it takes a while, but .. i tried many times but i just kept forgetting it, and i have to be nice , help !!How do you change your personality ?
When I was younger I was talking a lot, too. I changed when a person I trusted used all secrets to hurt me. I kept forgetting. But it happend again. Until I quit talking. For almost one or two years. That was a horrible time, all those things stuck inside me.
You need to start write journals. And best would be you talk to one person or two where you feel it's ok to talk a lot. Then after that you will be able to be quiet.
For the talking lout tell your friends to yell embarassing every time you get to loud. If it embarasses you, you won't forget again for the future. But they need to keep yelling at you for quite time before that will work, I think (I was too quiet in voice for some years before everyone started to whisper at me.) :-)
Good luck!How do you change your personality ?
You're welcome and thank you *hug* :-)
ask urself ^^ sorry only u know the answer to that...
ther really is nothing u can do about it,
maybe ask a friend to remind you when u do it,
or i guess just try and stop ur self
its not an easy thing to do
goodluck
you dont....theres nothing wrong with how you are!!!!!! i swear
You are an extrovert and there is nothing wrong with that. If you want to learn tact, that is a different story. Try to use that 'if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all' philosophy. And when you have to speak your mind and you know it will hurt someones feelings, say what you need to with the utmost respect. Now that I think about it, respect is the key to tact.
i dont know how to
None of us can, our personalities were like concrete at the age of 8 years old. The rest is a matter of improving the abilities we learned by then. The genetics of humans determine the influence our environment has upon us although we do have the power of choice. if we were capable of changing our persona lites then what a screwed-up world this would be, everybody would run to Wal-Mart and get a cheap make-over lasting only long enough to get out the door. At this point we could solicit again at Halloween and really scare the socks off of your neighbor.email hosting what is the name of
When I was younger I was talking a lot, too. I changed when a person I trusted used all secrets to hurt me. I kept forgetting. But it happend again. Until I quit talking. For almost one or two years. That was a horrible time, all those things stuck inside me.
You need to start write journals. And best would be you talk to one person or two where you feel it's ok to talk a lot. Then after that you will be able to be quiet.
For the talking lout tell your friends to yell embarassing every time you get to loud. If it embarasses you, you won't forget again for the future. But they need to keep yelling at you for quite time before that will work, I think (I was too quiet in voice for some years before everyone started to whisper at me.) :-)
Good luck!How do you change your personality ?
You're welcome and thank you *hug* :-)
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ask urself ^^ sorry only u know the answer to that...
ther really is nothing u can do about it,
maybe ask a friend to remind you when u do it,
or i guess just try and stop ur self
its not an easy thing to do
goodluck
you dont....theres nothing wrong with how you are!!!!!! i swear
You are an extrovert and there is nothing wrong with that. If you want to learn tact, that is a different story. Try to use that 'if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all' philosophy. And when you have to speak your mind and you know it will hurt someones feelings, say what you need to with the utmost respect. Now that I think about it, respect is the key to tact.
i dont know how to
None of us can, our personalities were like concrete at the age of 8 years old. The rest is a matter of improving the abilities we learned by then. The genetics of humans determine the influence our environment has upon us although we do have the power of choice. if we were capable of changing our persona lites then what a screwed-up world this would be, everybody would run to Wal-Mart and get a cheap make-over lasting only long enough to get out the door. At this point we could solicit again at Halloween and really scare the socks off of your neighbor.
Personality change? ?
A couple of years back I was a nice positive person. Then, people started making fun of me and it made me all mad so I just shut myself away. I figured out it is very lonely, and I want to go back to the way I was. I DID try being nice to people, but it seems every time I talk now, everything that comes out of my mouth is mean. I'm going to high school next year, and I want to be the outgoing person I once was. I have been kind of depressed about this, and it seems really hard for me to open up to people now. Could anyone give me some tips on how to be a nice, outgoing person?Personality change? ?
You learned to respond a certain way to people making fun of you. Now, people have become a stimulus which you associate with aggression, so you understandably feel the need to withdraw to avoid harm.
You shut yourself out. Now, it is hard to unlearn that behavior when it keeps being reinforced (when you keep shutting yourself out). It is completely possible to unlearn it, though.
Just think carefully about what you say to people. Don't be quick to speak, or things will probably come out mean, like always. The more you do this, the more you'll realize that not everyone is going to be aggressive or mean towards you. You'll begin to unwind the association of ';personal contact'; and ';fear/anger response';
Just practice, little by little, talking to people in a nice friendly way. It won't happen overnight, but in time, you'll slowly become more open and outgoing.Personality change? ?
the best way is to ask questions and keep eye contact. it take the spotlight off you, and they think you are amazing because you listen and care.
you shouldnt have changed, just be really nice and go with the flow, ull definitely become a nice person again
Just chill out when you talk to people. It helps. And high school sucks so thanks for the points
dont try to be anything just be yourself
and just simply talk to other kids
You are who you are. People do not change us...we let people change us. There is a saying that goes, ';If we do not have anything nice to say, don't say anything.'; What I am trying to say is that you have options. Think before you say something to someone. Hanging around positive people might help.
You may also be going through some hormonal changes. Going through changes may make you say and do things that under normal circumstances you wouldn't do. Don't make things hard on yourself. Give yourself sometime and see what happens.
You learned to respond a certain way to people making fun of you. Now, people have become a stimulus which you associate with aggression, so you understandably feel the need to withdraw to avoid harm.
You shut yourself out. Now, it is hard to unlearn that behavior when it keeps being reinforced (when you keep shutting yourself out). It is completely possible to unlearn it, though.
Just think carefully about what you say to people. Don't be quick to speak, or things will probably come out mean, like always. The more you do this, the more you'll realize that not everyone is going to be aggressive or mean towards you. You'll begin to unwind the association of ';personal contact'; and ';fear/anger response';
Just practice, little by little, talking to people in a nice friendly way. It won't happen overnight, but in time, you'll slowly become more open and outgoing.Personality change? ?
the best way is to ask questions and keep eye contact. it take the spotlight off you, and they think you are amazing because you listen and care.
you shouldnt have changed, just be really nice and go with the flow, ull definitely become a nice person again
Just chill out when you talk to people. It helps. And high school sucks so thanks for the points
dont try to be anything just be yourself
and just simply talk to other kids
You are who you are. People do not change us...we let people change us. There is a saying that goes, ';If we do not have anything nice to say, don't say anything.'; What I am trying to say is that you have options. Think before you say something to someone. Hanging around positive people might help.
You may also be going through some hormonal changes. Going through changes may make you say and do things that under normal circumstances you wouldn't do. Don't make things hard on yourself. Give yourself sometime and see what happens.
How do I cope with my change in personality?
I'm 19 years old and married with a baby on the way. My husband says I'm not the woman he fell in love with anymore because I am bisexual, but when we got serious I cut all of that stuff out of my life. He misses that and wants to do a three-some with another woman. He says we got married too soon and hasn't gotten what he calls his ';wiggles'; out. He still wants to have sex with another woman and I don't know how to cope with it.How do I cope with my change in personality?
When it comes to matters of personal expectation, I feel it's increasingly important to stick to your values, even if it makes waves in the relationship. If nothing else it seems as though there's a lot of honesty in your relationship, which makes for a solid foundation.
Even if it is a situation that is a result of a premature union, there's more at stake than just the relationship between you and him. If he's incapable of sustaining the level of commitment that a family unit generally requires, then you're better off knowing that is the case, and you're probably going to be best served by accepting that you can only maintain your half of the relationship, if he chooses not to maintain his half, i'm inclined to believe that it's truly his loss.How do I cope with my change in personality?
Let him move on. He is way to immature to be married in the first place. I have to give it to him though the man is honest. Most men blame the girl stating they are crazy and nuts and that is the reason why they are leaving. He told you straight up he is wanting to go out have sex with other girls. He will probably regret what he is doing but it will be to late when he does regret it. You will have moved on and found someone else who treats you way better. He is a jerk!!! Be the best Mommy you know how to. Better youself.
You are carrying the most important reason for him to forget the wiggles. He's going to be a father now and it's time to act like one.
When it comes to matters of personal expectation, I feel it's increasingly important to stick to your values, even if it makes waves in the relationship. If nothing else it seems as though there's a lot of honesty in your relationship, which makes for a solid foundation.
Even if it is a situation that is a result of a premature union, there's more at stake than just the relationship between you and him. If he's incapable of sustaining the level of commitment that a family unit generally requires, then you're better off knowing that is the case, and you're probably going to be best served by accepting that you can only maintain your half of the relationship, if he chooses not to maintain his half, i'm inclined to believe that it's truly his loss.How do I cope with my change in personality?
Let him move on. He is way to immature to be married in the first place. I have to give it to him though the man is honest. Most men blame the girl stating they are crazy and nuts and that is the reason why they are leaving. He told you straight up he is wanting to go out have sex with other girls. He will probably regret what he is doing but it will be to late when he does regret it. You will have moved on and found someone else who treats you way better. He is a jerk!!! Be the best Mommy you know how to. Better youself.
You are carrying the most important reason for him to forget the wiggles. He's going to be a father now and it's time to act like one.
Personality change suggestions?
I tend to have mood swings, even when I'm not PMSing. I can't control it; it's like, sometimes I'm on a happiness high and people are just attracted to me, and I can make people laugh effortlessly, and life is a breeze. Then, I seem to recede into a shell, and I can't get out. I have been called dependent, even annoying in the sense that I depend on other people to hang out with (constantly) and I want friends it's just so hard to form them! I want people to want to be my friend. I want to be close to people. I just don't know how to get out of this shell. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, thanks.Personality change suggestions?
This should help you to develop your social skills: http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/social_Personality change suggestions?
sounds like your bi-polar.....or something
but just always be positive and optimistic, that might help even when your down
This should help you to develop your social skills: http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/social_Personality change suggestions?
sounds like your bi-polar.....or something
but just always be positive and optimistic, that might help even when your down
Personality change with strokes and also a brain stem tumor. How do I deal with this?
Yep, it is me. I am only 55 yrs old and I am stunned that this has happened.
I have a rage in me. I have been a mellow person most of my life. I have been a patient person, now I want to throw a fit and I have.Personality change with strokes and also a brain stem tumor. How do I deal with this?
Contact your physician, symptoms of personality changes need to be investigated. You may require medication to regulate your brain chemistry and only a physician can determine what steps to take next.
Good luck,
TexPersonality change with strokes and also a brain stem tumor. How do I deal with this?
Live Your Life Like You Did Before, It Made You A Mellow And Patient Person And No Matter What Happens You Should Be Happy That You Lived The Life You Did Or Else You Will Start Wishing That It Never Happened And It Will Cause Way More Stress For You.
Here Is Something For You To Look At Every Morning To Help You Get Through Your Day:
Happiness keeps You Sweet, Trials keep You Strong, Sorrows keep You Human, Failures keep You Humble, Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only God keeps You Going!
You are so special!
I have a rage in me. I have been a mellow person most of my life. I have been a patient person, now I want to throw a fit and I have.Personality change with strokes and also a brain stem tumor. How do I deal with this?
Contact your physician, symptoms of personality changes need to be investigated. You may require medication to regulate your brain chemistry and only a physician can determine what steps to take next.
Good luck,
TexPersonality change with strokes and also a brain stem tumor. How do I deal with this?
Live Your Life Like You Did Before, It Made You A Mellow And Patient Person And No Matter What Happens You Should Be Happy That You Lived The Life You Did Or Else You Will Start Wishing That It Never Happened And It Will Cause Way More Stress For You.
Here Is Something For You To Look At Every Morning To Help You Get Through Your Day:
Happiness keeps You Sweet, Trials keep You Strong, Sorrows keep You Human, Failures keep You Humble, Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only God keeps You Going!
You are so special!
How do change your personality for the better?
I think that maybe i need to improve my personality for the better i sometimes find it hard to communicate with others and i would like to change that i don't have many friends probably due to not really knowing how to communicate with people i meetHow do change your personality for the better?
think positive and keep an upbeat outlook and it will show
think positive and keep an upbeat outlook and it will show
Friend's personality change...?
I have been friends with this one girl for about 2 months or so, and have treated her great (she has even commented on how i seemed to be as perfect as a man can get). However, about a week ago she met this guy who is a complete jerk towards her and she has become very standofish/jerky towards me yet is clingy and almost worshipping towards him. What is going on???Friend's personality change...?
Its the jerk doing it to her. It could also be drugs. One of my good friends from high school completely changes when he started doing cocaine and drinking 8-10 beers a night. He treated his girls like complete sh-t by my standards and I never could figure out why they stay with him and how he always had them lined up. He's playing with her self-confidence and insecurities. Thats how they work 'THE JERK'S GAME'. Its horrible isnt it?Friend's personality change...?
Shes just caught up i think. you should bring it to her attention let her know.fluffy comforter african american hair
Its the jerk doing it to her. It could also be drugs. One of my good friends from high school completely changes when he started doing cocaine and drinking 8-10 beers a night. He treated his girls like complete sh-t by my standards and I never could figure out why they stay with him and how he always had them lined up. He's playing with her self-confidence and insecurities. Thats how they work 'THE JERK'S GAME'. Its horrible isnt it?Friend's personality change...?
Shes just caught up i think. you should bring it to her attention let her know.
Friend's personality change...?
I have been friends with this one girl for about 2 months or so, and have treated her great (she has even commented on how i seemed to be as perfect as a man can get). However, about a week ago she met this guy who is a complete jerk towards her and she has become very standofish/jerky towards me yet is clingy and almost worshipping towards him. What is going on???Friend's personality change...?
WELL I ALWAYS HEAR WOMEN LIKE ROUGH LOVE. JUST LIKE WHEN A MAN HITS A WOMEN AND SHE DOESNT ACUSE HIM JUST LETS IT GO!!!Friend's personality change...?
It could be that she feel like she does not deserve you. Also sometimes women like guys who are on the jerky side so they have an excuse to be on the bitchy side. Also perfect is almost boring. But if you feel like this talk to her about it.
Talk talk talk................and be a good listener........you may get the answer........and you might have to read between the lines..........good luck.........she might what something you don't offer........sorry........that's how it is.
WELL I ALWAYS HEAR WOMEN LIKE ROUGH LOVE. JUST LIKE WHEN A MAN HITS A WOMEN AND SHE DOESNT ACUSE HIM JUST LETS IT GO!!!Friend's personality change...?
It could be that she feel like she does not deserve you. Also sometimes women like guys who are on the jerky side so they have an excuse to be on the bitchy side. Also perfect is almost boring. But if you feel like this talk to her about it.
Talk talk talk................and be a good listener........you may get the answer........and you might have to read between the lines..........good luck.........she might what something you don't offer........sorry........that's how it is.
Does a life changing event change your personality, if so how?
say losing a loved one specifically someone you thought loved you only to find out not only was it wrong to love that person but that person don't love you. Sort of like realizing your whole life was a lie..? this happened to my best friend and she seems so much hyper now and boom her grades have improved?!?!? she used to be laid back and stuff with not so good grades...Does a life changing event change your personality, if so how?
sometimes it does change your personality forever or maybe, just for that period of time when sulking or whatever.
i remembered when i was really depressed because i liked this guy A LOT and he didnt give 1 penny into me. i didnt do what i shouldve in school. i didnt eat well. i barely got sleep. i became a mute-child for a while. everyone knew something was wrong with me. but then i got over my depression and became stronger. mistakes make you stronger. and my mistake was loving the wrong person.
your friend will do the same. she'll hurt really bad now but life is not over. don't forget about that. ;)Does a life changing event change your personality, if so how?
yeah, i believe it does, my dad recently passed away and i think i look at the whole way of life differently and how things are. And if i do something will it affect me. Anything can happen and now i feel like i live ever moment like there is not another day!
Your friend probably went through a lot of sadness and anger after finding out what she did. An experience like that would definitely make someone wish to leave their old self behind and pursue a better future for themselves. That could explain why she has suddenly become more active and studious. It is good to be hurt sometimes. It could change you for the better. Support your friend and her new choice of lifestyle.
Heres one of my examples...a few years ago my family used to have money. We would be buying and building houses, purchasing luxury cars, buying whatever and whenever..now I'm living in the basement of my own house, the bank has taken our cars away and it caused me stressed and up untill about a week ago all I could think about was that in order to be happy I needed to have my big house again and newer cars and my lil luxury dreams. I ignored what I had in front of me. A great boyfriend and my little boy. Now something terrible has happened to my boyfriend and the thought of losing him and my our family being broken apart hurts. ALOT. Before I thought these material things could make me happy, but all the luxuries in the world couldn't compare to the happiness and contentment that I feel when I'm with my boyfriend and have our family. I could care less for material things now all I want is my family and I'm definately more grateful now for what I do have then what I don't.
depends on the details
sometimes it does change your personality forever or maybe, just for that period of time when sulking or whatever.
i remembered when i was really depressed because i liked this guy A LOT and he didnt give 1 penny into me. i didnt do what i shouldve in school. i didnt eat well. i barely got sleep. i became a mute-child for a while. everyone knew something was wrong with me. but then i got over my depression and became stronger. mistakes make you stronger. and my mistake was loving the wrong person.
your friend will do the same. she'll hurt really bad now but life is not over. don't forget about that. ;)Does a life changing event change your personality, if so how?
yeah, i believe it does, my dad recently passed away and i think i look at the whole way of life differently and how things are. And if i do something will it affect me. Anything can happen and now i feel like i live ever moment like there is not another day!
Your friend probably went through a lot of sadness and anger after finding out what she did. An experience like that would definitely make someone wish to leave their old self behind and pursue a better future for themselves. That could explain why she has suddenly become more active and studious. It is good to be hurt sometimes. It could change you for the better. Support your friend and her new choice of lifestyle.
Heres one of my examples...a few years ago my family used to have money. We would be buying and building houses, purchasing luxury cars, buying whatever and whenever..now I'm living in the basement of my own house, the bank has taken our cars away and it caused me stressed and up untill about a week ago all I could think about was that in order to be happy I needed to have my big house again and newer cars and my lil luxury dreams. I ignored what I had in front of me. A great boyfriend and my little boy. Now something terrible has happened to my boyfriend and the thought of losing him and my our family being broken apart hurts. ALOT. Before I thought these material things could make me happy, but all the luxuries in the world couldn't compare to the happiness and contentment that I feel when I'm with my boyfriend and have our family. I could care less for material things now all I want is my family and I'm definately more grateful now for what I do have then what I don't.
depends on the details
I have a friend thats shy she wants to be more bubbly like me how does she change her personality?
She shouldn't have to change her personality cause we all have our own and that is why I think friends are so special because everyone is unique in their own way. If she wants to be happier then she needs to find something that she enjoys.I have a friend thats shy she wants to be more bubbly like me how does she change her personality?
it's not good to be too shy... but you kind of have to figure that our on your own. you can't force yourself not to be shy. I used to be really shy, but I came out of it my freshman year of highschool. it just happened. you can't CHANGE your personality. stay you... doing anything else just isn't right.I have a friend thats shy she wants to be more bubbly like me how does she change her personality?
by being pretty.
it's not good to be too shy... but you kind of have to figure that our on your own. you can't force yourself not to be shy. I used to be really shy, but I came out of it my freshman year of highschool. it just happened. you can't CHANGE your personality. stay you... doing anything else just isn't right.I have a friend thats shy she wants to be more bubbly like me how does she change her personality?
by being pretty.
How do you live with someone who is on pain medication....I don't know the person anymore,personality changes?
my spouse is suffering from back pain, I can relate because I have been there also,operated on and much improved. My spouse had same operation,fixed problem and now new problem,meds cause personality change according to time of day.How do you live with someone who is on pain medication....I don't know the person anymore,personality changes?
I am not sure I know what you mean by ';according to time of day';.
what kinds of personality change are you seeing, how do you know it is the meds that are causing this? I would call my doctor and ask, also google side effects of this medication.How do you live with someone who is on pain medication....I don't know the person anymore,personality changes?
Some people's bodies don't handle pain medication very well. I am seeing a doctor who specializes in pain management. He works with me to get the the right medicine at the right doses. I would highly recommend that your spouse see a pain management specialist to help him. Mine has worked wonders to help me deal with chronic pain while being able to live a normal life. And yes, my wife is involved in my treatment as she can provide information to me and my doctor on my behavior should something go awry.
I am not sure I know what you mean by ';according to time of day';.
what kinds of personality change are you seeing, how do you know it is the meds that are causing this? I would call my doctor and ask, also google side effects of this medication.How do you live with someone who is on pain medication....I don't know the person anymore,personality changes?
Some people's bodies don't handle pain medication very well. I am seeing a doctor who specializes in pain management. He works with me to get the the right medicine at the right doses. I would highly recommend that your spouse see a pain management specialist to help him. Mine has worked wonders to help me deal with chronic pain while being able to live a normal life. And yes, my wife is involved in my treatment as she can provide information to me and my doctor on my behavior should something go awry.
Do you think most people's personality changes depending on who they are around?
why this is and is this mostly for everybody?
how your personality changes , depending on who you are around ? and after being inside away from everbody for so long...how long does it take for your personality to resume again its superficial role?.
please explain and describe how this is you think for you in particular, if so. and again why?
thanks for your answers!Do you think most people's personality changes depending on who they are around?
of course.if u're familiar with your surrounding and the current situation, u will most probably acted in the most casual/comfortable/the real-self way because u feel relax and safe.. but when u are around unfamiliar people/new places, u will probably acted in the most formal/decent/safe and secure manner so that u wont be called a freak/inappropriate or to avoid being alienated or to survive such situation.acting to be like someone is sometimes necessary to blend with the crowd. but again, if it is so tiresome, u'll behave like the real u (the personality u have when u are with your family/close friends/alone in your room) without giving a damn what others think.Do you think most people's personality changes depending on who they are around?
I think they just show different parts of their personality to different people.
yes its so that they can impress someone even if it means hurting your mate maybe
like getting inrto a gang so pretending to be horrible to a mate
but me i keep the same personality no matter what
i dont wanna change who i am
yes
Yes, not a HUGE personality change, but it does alter depending who I'm around. I'm more serious at work because I want to be taken more seriously at work, I tease more around my family because we're more laid back, I swear a lot more around my friends because I can let go of my frustrations around them.
how your personality changes , depending on who you are around ? and after being inside away from everbody for so long...how long does it take for your personality to resume again its superficial role?.
please explain and describe how this is you think for you in particular, if so. and again why?
thanks for your answers!Do you think most people's personality changes depending on who they are around?
of course.if u're familiar with your surrounding and the current situation, u will most probably acted in the most casual/comfortable/the real-self way because u feel relax and safe.. but when u are around unfamiliar people/new places, u will probably acted in the most formal/decent/safe and secure manner so that u wont be called a freak/inappropriate or to avoid being alienated or to survive such situation.acting to be like someone is sometimes necessary to blend with the crowd. but again, if it is so tiresome, u'll behave like the real u (the personality u have when u are with your family/close friends/alone in your room) without giving a damn what others think.Do you think most people's personality changes depending on who they are around?
I think they just show different parts of their personality to different people.
yes its so that they can impress someone even if it means hurting your mate maybe
like getting inrto a gang so pretending to be horrible to a mate
but me i keep the same personality no matter what
i dont wanna change who i am
yes
Yes, not a HUGE personality change, but it does alter depending who I'm around. I'm more serious at work because I want to be taken more seriously at work, I tease more around my family because we're more laid back, I swear a lot more around my friends because I can let go of my frustrations around them.
How can i change my personality?
okay i am a girl who can talk for england and i want to quieten down a little i don't want people to see me as a chatter box. i also want to act and look more posh and better. and make it come across as natural i am doing it for a few reason i am 22 but i want 2 achieve this goal by feb i will be 23 there i am also losing weight to give it more of a boost to my personailty and the way i come across!How can i change my personality?
See all what u said? Go Straight To It
Get Urself Into It And Move On
Few Days And U'll Be 200% Whachu Want
You Seem To Will Have Good Things In The Future
Good LuckHow can i change my personality?
If you want to change then change for you and not others. Its great you want to do all these things but dont get upset when it dosent happen the way you want it to in the time frame you want to do it in.
You are going to have a difficult task, trying to change your personality at 22. Wow, you are going to need to move to somewhere where no one else knows you. If you don't the friends you already have will know you are acting way different, and may not like you anymore. If you start with new people who don't know anything about you, then you will have a better chance at doing this.
only an unconditional approval and understanding by ones spiritual teacher can help us chnage this craving in human beings that we see wherever we go, in songs, movies, tv, books, vereytime a person opend\s thier mouth they talk a bit about trib\vialities but after a few minutes with me they start to tumble and thier perfect masks fall down, encountered with so much commpassion and approval they lose thier breath but they ussualy dont know what it is and they get really scared, they need their liveleness to function in the world, scared of silence and mediatation, scared what they will find inside, only a teacher that had travelled that road can hold the hand and gurad the disciple while facing all these monsters, always assuring that we are so much more than those monsters, there is so much more than what we see, the easiest path is a path of bhakti, we alread have passions so to direct them to the Supreme is the quickiest and the less painful way to reach the freedom....I am so sorry for you. I gave you the opportunity to be a man, but you only wanted to abuse and use a woman, disregarding the woman and her personal history for the sake of hurting the person that suffered so much, what a tragedyHow to make a fleece T-shirt quilt oil pan replacement
See all what u said? Go Straight To It
Get Urself Into It And Move On
Few Days And U'll Be 200% Whachu Want
You Seem To Will Have Good Things In The Future
Good LuckHow can i change my personality?
If you want to change then change for you and not others. Its great you want to do all these things but dont get upset when it dosent happen the way you want it to in the time frame you want to do it in.
You are going to have a difficult task, trying to change your personality at 22. Wow, you are going to need to move to somewhere where no one else knows you. If you don't the friends you already have will know you are acting way different, and may not like you anymore. If you start with new people who don't know anything about you, then you will have a better chance at doing this.
only an unconditional approval and understanding by ones spiritual teacher can help us chnage this craving in human beings that we see wherever we go, in songs, movies, tv, books, vereytime a person opend\s thier mouth they talk a bit about trib\vialities but after a few minutes with me they start to tumble and thier perfect masks fall down, encountered with so much commpassion and approval they lose thier breath but they ussualy dont know what it is and they get really scared, they need their liveleness to function in the world, scared of silence and mediatation, scared what they will find inside, only a teacher that had travelled that road can hold the hand and gurad the disciple while facing all these monsters, always assuring that we are so much more than those monsters, there is so much more than what we see, the easiest path is a path of bhakti, we alread have passions so to direct them to the Supreme is the quickiest and the less painful way to reach the freedom....I am so sorry for you. I gave you the opportunity to be a man, but you only wanted to abuse and use a woman, disregarding the woman and her personal history for the sake of hurting the person that suffered so much, what a tragedy
Is it worth changing my personality for others?
I can't find my real personality.
I a several groups of friends and I change my personality of how I act towards people when I am with each group of people, and I don't really know if its worth it. But because I have hidden myself to get more friends I don't really know my real personality.
How can I find it?
And is it worth continuing on with this?
Also everyone says to me, ';just be yourself';. But I think my real self is annoying, childish and nasty but think I'm funny to others, so is it worth changing for others or just be more popular?
Please Help.Is it worth changing my personality for others?
you think your real self is annoying, childish and nasty but to someone else it may be the best thing about you cuz its who you are, fine you can be a little less annoying and nasty but dont let your funny side ever go down. most people love people who are there to make them smile, so you know maybe you should quit thinking about being more popular and try and figure yourself out first and then hang with those who like you for who you are, cuz im sure there are many people who do like you for who you are.Is it worth changing my personality for others?
NO you will eventually lose yourself do you want fake friends ? your not giving these people a chance to know the real you they will probably like you anyways
Just relax and be yourself. Anything else will cause you stress and you will become bitter and twisted and people won't necessarily like you. No one gets on with everyone but real friends will value you as you are.
Be true to yourself. Its not worth changing for other people.
Personalitys are complex things and can take a long time, if ever to be able to define your own.
You can be who you want to be. If you think your real self is annoying, childish and nasty, and youre not happy with that, you can change your personality. But you will be doing it for yourself, not to please others. If you do change and try to become the person you want to be, you will be more confident and not worry so much about having to fake your personality to please others. Then you will find that people will like you for who you are, and your self esteem will improve and you wont be feeling so lonely. It will definitely be worth it. Try to get out of the habit of saying and doing things you think other people will like; try to think about how you really feel, what you think, and what you want. If you think you have faults, you can adress those faults instead of covering them up. Im sure you will be a lot happier if you can do this.
I a several groups of friends and I change my personality of how I act towards people when I am with each group of people, and I don't really know if its worth it. But because I have hidden myself to get more friends I don't really know my real personality.
How can I find it?
And is it worth continuing on with this?
Also everyone says to me, ';just be yourself';. But I think my real self is annoying, childish and nasty but think I'm funny to others, so is it worth changing for others or just be more popular?
Please Help.Is it worth changing my personality for others?
you think your real self is annoying, childish and nasty but to someone else it may be the best thing about you cuz its who you are, fine you can be a little less annoying and nasty but dont let your funny side ever go down. most people love people who are there to make them smile, so you know maybe you should quit thinking about being more popular and try and figure yourself out first and then hang with those who like you for who you are, cuz im sure there are many people who do like you for who you are.Is it worth changing my personality for others?
NO you will eventually lose yourself do you want fake friends ? your not giving these people a chance to know the real you they will probably like you anyways
Just relax and be yourself. Anything else will cause you stress and you will become bitter and twisted and people won't necessarily like you. No one gets on with everyone but real friends will value you as you are.
Be true to yourself. Its not worth changing for other people.
Personalitys are complex things and can take a long time, if ever to be able to define your own.
You can be who you want to be. If you think your real self is annoying, childish and nasty, and youre not happy with that, you can change your personality. But you will be doing it for yourself, not to please others. If you do change and try to become the person you want to be, you will be more confident and not worry so much about having to fake your personality to please others. Then you will find that people will like you for who you are, and your self esteem will improve and you wont be feeling so lonely. It will definitely be worth it. Try to get out of the habit of saying and doing things you think other people will like; try to think about how you really feel, what you think, and what you want. If you think you have faults, you can adress those faults instead of covering them up. Im sure you will be a lot happier if you can do this.
I want to change my personality but i'm afriad that people won't like it ?
I'm sick of my life i do the same things every day and i don't think about anything else but my self and i'm worried that people don't like me i don't like myself and i'm sick of being so shy and i feel like the world revolves around me ..
will i ever change ? can u guys give me some tips on how to change ?
thanksI want to change my personality but i'm afriad that people won't like it ?
Fear of the unknown is the villain of the piece in most of the things that scare the bejesus out of most people most often so your uncertainty about changing your personality is a normal response. it is also true that most individuals live in a permanent state of semi boredom with the ruts they have gotten themselves into. That too is normal. So, you see, you are already not far off the track from joining the rest of us in a common bond. What to do about it, well, that certainly is a whole different story -- isn't it?
Discovery of the heretofore unknown is always an answer to boredom as it generates excitement into a rather dull life, expands our knowledge and experience base, and gives us what we sometimes lack -- a sense of accomplishment. As long as you can keep the lamp of learning burning, you will never lack for warmth somewhere in your soul. It is not you you hate, but rather, the fact that the improvement of you, by you, has stalled and caused you to think you are not going anywhere, but you are. With your question you've shown you know you have a problem requiring action (most don't admit that to themselves and others) and you have reached out to others with your question (you've gone public with it in search of solution). Right there are two steps in the right direction.
WE HAVE MET THE ENEMY AND SHE IS US Judging from what you've given us, I would
hazard the guess that 2/3 of your
presumption that people don't like you emanates from between your ears -- not theirs. Most folks really don't have a realistic handle on how their popularity is rated with any degree of accuracy. They either overrate it or underrate it without giving due credit to the fact that the most difficult task there is to do for the the being human is to see themselves as others see them -- ego always gets in the way of clearer perception. Once again, that makes you normal.
THE BULLFIGHTER What you appear to have is a screaming case of lack of
confidence in yourself in social situations that causes you to be shy. I grant you it is easy for me to give that assessment because I have for most of my adult life had the confidence of a bullfighter who goes into the arena of life with mustard on his sword thanks to having served a four year hitch in the Marine Corps. if you are patient with yourself and energetic in your pursuit of self improvement you too will someday feel the confidence and belief in yourself that will satisfy you and others as well. I rather suspect there is a young man lurking out there somewhere whom you haven't even met yet who will be damn lucky to have you once you too get the confidence of the bullfighter referred to here. If I, and millions like me, can do it -- so can you. You go, gal!
ANAYSIS OF THE PROBLEM Attitude and perception appear to be the problems that
plague you in your obviously young life; and you can do something about that. If you want things to remain as they are for you, keep doing what you've been doing. I guarantee they will stay the same or get worse. But if you want things to change, you must start by changing your attitude and acting vigorously upon the changes. You can do something about that. You cannot expect others to believe in you if you don't believe in yourself first. You can do something about that.
http://www.thesecret.tv/optimists-creed/
If you wish to communicate further with me on the subject, double click on my avatar, go to my profile and read what you see there. Then email me and tell me so. There is both an ';I'; and a ';U'; in the word dialogue. I volunteer to be of whatever assistance this mind and heart can render in a worthy cause -- you. That's my take on your question. What is yours on my answer?I want to change my personality but i'm afriad that people won't like it ?
i wouldnt change you, but if you want to change what you do with you life is another thing, but the thought of myself changing for another people i will never do theres always going to be people who dont like you and being shy is not a bad thing there are alot worse things you can be :) so be happy with who you are
If you want to change your personality because of people then that's wrong but if you want to change it as it's part of your wish then go on just forget about people they got nothing to do with you.
But if it's because of been bored then why don't you put some spice........do something new and stop worrying about your self, as i've said forget about people if they don't like you for who you are then they can go to hell.
Love yourself be positive then people will love you.......Stop been shy, feel free to express yourself it's your life, you decide.
Gud luck...
will i ever change ? can u guys give me some tips on how to change ?
thanksI want to change my personality but i'm afriad that people won't like it ?
Fear of the unknown is the villain of the piece in most of the things that scare the bejesus out of most people most often so your uncertainty about changing your personality is a normal response. it is also true that most individuals live in a permanent state of semi boredom with the ruts they have gotten themselves into. That too is normal. So, you see, you are already not far off the track from joining the rest of us in a common bond. What to do about it, well, that certainly is a whole different story -- isn't it?
Discovery of the heretofore unknown is always an answer to boredom as it generates excitement into a rather dull life, expands our knowledge and experience base, and gives us what we sometimes lack -- a sense of accomplishment. As long as you can keep the lamp of learning burning, you will never lack for warmth somewhere in your soul. It is not you you hate, but rather, the fact that the improvement of you, by you, has stalled and caused you to think you are not going anywhere, but you are. With your question you've shown you know you have a problem requiring action (most don't admit that to themselves and others) and you have reached out to others with your question (you've gone public with it in search of solution). Right there are two steps in the right direction.
WE HAVE MET THE ENEMY AND SHE IS US Judging from what you've given us, I would
hazard the guess that 2/3 of your
presumption that people don't like you emanates from between your ears -- not theirs. Most folks really don't have a realistic handle on how their popularity is rated with any degree of accuracy. They either overrate it or underrate it without giving due credit to the fact that the most difficult task there is to do for the the being human is to see themselves as others see them -- ego always gets in the way of clearer perception. Once again, that makes you normal.
THE BULLFIGHTER What you appear to have is a screaming case of lack of
confidence in yourself in social situations that causes you to be shy. I grant you it is easy for me to give that assessment because I have for most of my adult life had the confidence of a bullfighter who goes into the arena of life with mustard on his sword thanks to having served a four year hitch in the Marine Corps. if you are patient with yourself and energetic in your pursuit of self improvement you too will someday feel the confidence and belief in yourself that will satisfy you and others as well. I rather suspect there is a young man lurking out there somewhere whom you haven't even met yet who will be damn lucky to have you once you too get the confidence of the bullfighter referred to here. If I, and millions like me, can do it -- so can you. You go, gal!
ANAYSIS OF THE PROBLEM Attitude and perception appear to be the problems that
plague you in your obviously young life; and you can do something about that. If you want things to remain as they are for you, keep doing what you've been doing. I guarantee they will stay the same or get worse. But if you want things to change, you must start by changing your attitude and acting vigorously upon the changes. You can do something about that. You cannot expect others to believe in you if you don't believe in yourself first. You can do something about that.
http://www.thesecret.tv/optimists-creed/
If you wish to communicate further with me on the subject, double click on my avatar, go to my profile and read what you see there. Then email me and tell me so. There is both an ';I'; and a ';U'; in the word dialogue. I volunteer to be of whatever assistance this mind and heart can render in a worthy cause -- you. That's my take on your question. What is yours on my answer?I want to change my personality but i'm afriad that people won't like it ?
i wouldnt change you, but if you want to change what you do with you life is another thing, but the thought of myself changing for another people i will never do theres always going to be people who dont like you and being shy is not a bad thing there are alot worse things you can be :) so be happy with who you are
If you want to change your personality because of people then that's wrong but if you want to change it as it's part of your wish then go on just forget about people they got nothing to do with you.
But if it's because of been bored then why don't you put some spice........do something new and stop worrying about your self, as i've said forget about people if they don't like you for who you are then they can go to hell.
Love yourself be positive then people will love you.......Stop been shy, feel free to express yourself it's your life, you decide.
Gud luck...
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