What do you do when someone has a personality change?

How do I react to mylover who when he's not drinking is sweet , but when he's drinking he is totally different. Like he 's rough and slightly mean. How can I help him? I love him.What do you do when someone has a personality change?
my father is the same way. my mom would get so upset becuase he would come home drunk every night - a totally different person.



the best advice i can give you is just to try not to hold grudges against him for his behavior when he drinks - it will cause lots of fights and just really bad tension between you two. (my mom + dad are now separated, and she blames it all on his drinking).



Please talk to him about this (when he's sober). Tell him that he's just not the same person when he drinks. Yeah, he'll probably blow it off, saying 'yeah right, that's not true'. But, just let him know how much it would mean to you.



You two could make an agreement...like he only drinks every so often. or only has so many drinks.



Maybe you could talk to a counselor.



or...try filming him when he's drinking. Show him the tape when he's sober and see if he realizes what kind of person he becomes.



Good luck. :)What do you do when someone has a personality change?
commit them
Some people are happy drunks, and some are not. You could video tape him while he is drunk, so he can see himself when he is sober. If that doesn't work... move on!
Get him to go to AA or dump him.
You need to be there for him ... find the root of the problem. Why is he drinking in the first place?
Tell him how he acts when he drinks, but if it persists, break up with him. Unless he is willing to give up drinking...it's not worth it, TRUST me.
Go to AA with him, or go by yourself and seek help.
Keep him away from the booze. And no more Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde
dump him
if they have a personality change when they drink he needs to not drink. he might have a problem. ask him if he might try not drinking for a while and tell him about the change in him you see when he does drink. if he reacts well good for u. if he gets angry he needs help.
You should be able to talk to him and tell him how you feel about this. Maybe after letting him know, you can talk him into taking it easy when he drinks. Some people just get out of control and can act real crappy sometimes. Bringing it to their attention sometimes will ';wake'; them up a bit. If you don't tell him about it, he may not realize that this is bothering you and won't do anything to try to change it. Good luck!