How can i change my personality from introvert into extrovert..?

frnds, i m 22 yr old boy..i m introvert.i m very quiet ,shy,unconfident..as i think i made lil bit late to take the decision..


due to introvert , i really loss lots of thing in my life..nd i tends to change my personality to extrovert..so i want tips from ..only serious answer are only acceptable...i m comp. prog.How can i change my personality from introvert into extrovert..?
Medication is a must to avoid, if possible. the fact that you recognize and can articulate your problem suggests drugs are NOT the answer.





You're 22; you have a lot of life ahead of you. Don't get stuck on what-all you haven't done; focus on what it will take to move forward, to get your needs met.





Luck to you, m'friend.How can i change my personality from introvert into extrovert..?
Drugs like ambienpure work wonders
You cannot change your personality. But you can go out of your way to be friendly, loud, and confident.
Time to get drunk baby! It really brings out the extrovert in many people.





Seriously, you have to realize that life is short, and if you hang around in the side lines being shy your whole life, you are going to have a crap life. Really analyze what the worst thing that can happen from being a little more confident. Someone you don't give a crap about is mean to you? Who cares? Life is there for the taking, go out and grab it.
Well you need to practice your people skills by being more proactive and getting out more and interacting with people next time you go to the store for example insteading of going to get food go to meet a new person, but while your there pick up some food its just about being friendly to people and putting yourself out there more
Well, to start off I think you should get a buddy. Yes someone who is already popular who can teach you the ropes. Make sure you pick someone you can look up to. And don't follow them excatly, take you spin on things that they do. If you can't find anyone to look up to. Think of your heroes and read about them. Read their autobiography or biography. You might find something in there that will help you get a good start on confidence.
Think of the other person and assume he/she is feeling the same way. Try to concentrate on making the other person comfortable, and you'll find that you have forgotten about your shyness. Complement (honestly) them on something they might be wearing, or ask them what they think about a tv show/movie/whatever. Eventually you'll find a mutually enjoyable subject, and who knows? You might find yourself in a lively group discussion!! Relax. Have fun. And good luck!
All right, first of all, you can't ';change your personality.'; Not completely, at least. If you're an introvert you'll always be somewhat of an introvert. But you can be *more* extroverted at least. I have had the same problem all my life, and the two things that have helped me the most are finding someone, and getting a job that forces me to be chatty and personable. At this point in your life, you're probably all settled into your career, though. Right now I'm working at a coffehouse, and we are required to talk to each customer and be very personable so they will want to come back. I've only been there three weeks and my manager has told me I'm completely changed. So maybe something like that wouldn't work for you, though, since you already have a steady ';career.';





So in place of that, here's what I suggest: set goals for yourself. When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself, ';Okay, I'm going to talk to at least three people I don't know today.'; It can be anything-- waiting in the grocery checkout line, at your work, just force yourself to talk to people. It will be awkward and maybe a little embarassing at first, but soon it will start to feel natural, and you'll get better.





Also, I gained a lot of confidence from having a significant other. I know you can't just snap your fingers and make a girlfriend appear, but try to interact with girls. Flirt a little. Be kind and respectful. Maybe somebody will come your way. ;)





Well I know it's tough. I know where you're coming from. But you'll do great. Just remember that you don't *have* to be an extrovert persay, because your introversion is hardwired into your system already. You'll be a lot more confident if you learn to *like* that about yourself, trust me. Be aware that you can have self confidence and still be introverted. That's sometimes the most attractive kind of guy there is. ;) Well, good luck!
Your nature is your nature, if you become something that is not your nature you will suffer in duality. Be comfortable with who you are. Your perceptions of ';self'; may not be what others see in you. You are 22, nothing is permanent. You will not be the same person in 1 year, 5 years or 10. Be patient with yourself. Love who you are and be harmless to yourself and others. Remember you are the master of your life, you are only what you think that you are and 99% of the time, or perecptions are wrong.
That's quite a challenge there, and just by asking seems like you're pressured by doing so. First of all good things happen to good people, (although it doesn't appear like that on the news). If you're genuinely a good person, reassure yourself of that. Feeling confident about oneself of at least one noticeable thing, puts you on that extrovert path already. When you feel comfortable in your own space, try sharing that space with someone who shares common interests. All it takes is opening the right door, the one you feel comfortable and confident opening. Behind that door I guarantee will be a world of doors for you to open, if you choose to. You haven't lost out on anything, life is about reproduction and opportunities will always reproduce. You just have to know when to reach out for it. Just stay true to yourself and choose your battles wisely. Just because you change your image doesn't make you shine.
I disagree with those who say you can't change your personality. I was the quietest, dorkiest, sweet little thing for the first 15 years of my life. Ha not anymore. I am 24 now and nobody even remembers me being that shy introverted girl who couldn't even answer questions in class without shaking and getting quesy. Now it won't be instant or anything but rather a year or two before you really shine but the trick is to just do it. Take a public speaking class at a community college. Give your closet a makeover. If you dress conservatively you are more prone to act so. Try hot topics. The more attention your clothes get the more your expected to give too. Then go somewhere you have never been and never plan to go again. Where you don't know anyone. Force it. Act like you know everyone you walk past. Just start talking like you know them. Most people will be confused and think they should know you and talk back. Do it until you can do it around real friends.
';22 yr old boy'; - Are you saying your child-like? Are you attending college? What's your normal day like?





Without those answers I'm just going to assume that you live with your mom, have no ambition, no job, no friends, stay at home on your PC, etc...





The first thing that you want to do is meet someone who is extroverted. This is easier than you might think. The first thing you might want to consider finding places that are social, that center around things you like to do.





For instance, let's say that you like card games (be it Magic, poker, etc). You would want to go to a place where a group of people play those games. This could be at a local comic shop, casino, or anything that involves groups of people enjoying what you enjoy.





Now that you're playing with those people there's a good chance that they'll begin talking with you. The good thing about playing a game with these people is the fact that you don't really have to worry about what your body is doing (you'll be playing cards, looking at your hand, messing with chips, etc) and you can focus on just having a normal conversation with this person. It's much easier to converse with people when you have something to do.





Just really try to loosen up. These people don't know you and if you'd like to, you could probably avoid them for the rest of your life.





Think of things that you really feel comfortable doing and go out where people are doing them.





After you begin to feel comfortable talking with people while doing something you enjoy it'll be easier just to talk with people in general.





One of the most important things to do is TRY! Don't just read everyone's advice and do nothing. Good luck.
you can try to learn how to act, once you've made a fool out of yourself with acting with emotions and characters that you don't feel or have, you'll naturally feel more confident and find that expressing yourself isnt that difficult after all.