How do you change your personality ?

i talk loud and i talk alot, how to i change that ? i mean like.. i know it takes a while, but .. i tried many times but i just kept forgetting it, and i have to be nice , help !!How do you change your personality ?
When I was younger I was talking a lot, too. I changed when a person I trusted used all secrets to hurt me. I kept forgetting. But it happend again. Until I quit talking. For almost one or two years. That was a horrible time, all those things stuck inside me.



You need to start write journals. And best would be you talk to one person or two where you feel it's ok to talk a lot. Then after that you will be able to be quiet.



For the talking lout tell your friends to yell embarassing every time you get to loud. If it embarasses you, you won't forget again for the future. But they need to keep yelling at you for quite time before that will work, I think (I was too quiet in voice for some years before everyone started to whisper at me.) :-)

Good luck!How do you change your personality ?
You're welcome and thank you *hug* :-)

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ask urself ^^ sorry only u know the answer to that...
ther really is nothing u can do about it,

maybe ask a friend to remind you when u do it,

or i guess just try and stop ur self

its not an easy thing to do

goodluck
you dont....theres nothing wrong with how you are!!!!!! i swear
You are an extrovert and there is nothing wrong with that. If you want to learn tact, that is a different story. Try to use that 'if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all' philosophy. And when you have to speak your mind and you know it will hurt someones feelings, say what you need to with the utmost respect. Now that I think about it, respect is the key to tact.
i dont know how to
None of us can, our personalities were like concrete at the age of 8 years old. The rest is a matter of improving the abilities we learned by then. The genetics of humans determine the influence our environment has upon us although we do have the power of choice. if we were capable of changing our persona lites then what a screwed-up world this would be, everybody would run to Wal-Mart and get a cheap make-over lasting only long enough to get out the door. At this point we could solicit again at Halloween and really scare the socks off of your neighbor.

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