How can i change my personality?

i dont think my friends take me seriously. they never talk to me at school, and when they do its because they have no one else to talk to. i wanna totally change my personality so they can see me differentHow can i change my personality?
personality is hard to change, this is because your personality defines who you are and what makes you different than others.



if you really want to do this, it is possible but will require a lot of work and will take a long time.



to speed things up, you should probably move to a new environment, say a new school after you have identified what about yourself is causing your friends to make fun of you (e.g. you dress funny, your haircut is funny, whatever). i just think it will be harder for you to change yourself and expect the people around you right now to change the way they see you as because remember, old impressions are harder to break. or they might just think you're being fake like what others have mentioned above. personally, i dont think changing yourself is being fake, as long as you know what you want, and you truly like the change. like do you think those emo kids were born emo? i doubt it, if you wanna go emo, by all means, as long as you know how to carry it its fine.How can i change my personality?
Try to make some new friends.



If the friends you do have don't like you, they really aren't considered friends.



Go up and talk to a bunch of new people, try and find things you have in common.



You could also go the route of joining clubs or volunteering.



Good Luck, son.
Want to change your whole personality? Think that your right-now personality is just annoying, too happy, too sad, etc.? Here's a way to change that!



Step 1: Figure out what you want your new self to be like. Mysterious? Preppy? Funny? Then figure out what changes will be made.



Step 2: Distinguish what is it you want to emulate. Don't just look at a person and say ';Yep, I want to be like that.'; Find out exactly what it is that you admire--How they handle a situation, or their word choice? Make sure to write all this stuff down in a notebook.



Step 3: Pick out the characteristics you want. Write down the parts of the character you want to be. Make sure to also write down how the character responds. Maybe you like the way they respond to certain situations, how they treat others, making friends, a bully, etc.



Step 4: Look the part. You don't have to go out and get a new wardrobe, but maybe adding some new jewelry or changing the way your hair looks, changing the way you smile, laugh, hold yourself, anything.



Step 5: Make changes to the way you talk. Does your voice quiver when you're mad, or do you talk loudly, or quietly. Practice changing your voice and try to keep the way of talking for a while before doing the next steps.



Step 6: Change your attitude. Do you want to be preppy and happy towards things, or funny and clever, or do you want to be spunky and hard? It may take time to get used to that, so take your time changing it and take it step by step.



Step 7: Break any bad habits that you may be doing. They are figments of your old personality, and if you want a better personality, make the way you act better.



Do this step by step. You want to change yourself completely and it will take some time before you actually do it. Maybe do it for the summer and then in the fall people will see the new you. Don't get frustrated if you don't change right away. Like I said, it'll take some time. Is there something you absolutely love that you can't sacrifice? Then keep it! It is most important to feel good about your new self.

NEVER change who you are because other people don't like you. If you are a nerd, don't become a prep just because they are 'cool'. Go take a look at a group of true goths at your school (The kind that are goth because it is a way to express themselves, not because they think they are vampires.) They are all standing around laughing at the preppy people and making jokes about how every blonde at the school will work for them some day.



If you think you cannot change who you are because of parents or other people in your life, change yourself in small ways. Cut down habits you don't like and introduce new ones. If mom or dad asks what's up, explain to them (DON'T yell or argue) that there is nothing wrong with your self-esteem, that you are just trying to be more comfortable with yourself.



To make parents less worried about your change, do your best to get good grades in school, and keep your old friends if your parents like them.
its not really easy to ';change'; your personality, its who you are

if you want the best you can do is try being someone your not

it doesnt usually work well because people will be like whats wrong with the person. If they were your friends they wouldnt talk to you as a last resort. Find new friends or just try to get into the things your current friends like, as long as its not drugs or smoking or anything
Maybe they don't take you seriously because you don't take your SELF seriously! Did I just BLOW YOUR MIND? Really, it is important to do whatever you do with conviction, and if you are faking then you will find this impossible. The only positive change for you to make, therefore, is to quit faking. The faker knows no true friends.



Of course, I won't pretend that everyone will like you, just for being sincere. They may be sincere in different ways, or they may be adamant about faking it in a certain way. Find what works for you, but do not work hard to please others at your own expense. They are probably not better than you.
know better about yourself.
That sounds awful drastic. Maybe you need new friends instead of changing your whole personality. I'd talk to a guidance counselor. Maybe they can help you identify if you have some social behaviors that you could modify, change or stop. You need some self awareness and a neutral, educated person to talk to and give you some insight. Maybe you have a great personality and your friends are just shallow. They sound like users to me. I wish you the best.