me and my ex split badly now he wants me to be his facebook pal. its all about how good married life is and stuff and i have to admit its quite hurtful seeing this because he was such an *** when he was with me so i dont understand why he adds me and i dont understand why hes had a personality change ? or has heHe seems to have had a personality change or has he?
No. I don't think so. I'm pretty sure that he's just trying to cause some jealousy.
Monday, June 6, 2011
How can I surprise people at school after break?
Like lose a lot of weight, change personality, etc. I really want to surprise people but I do not know how. ANY suggestins are great.How can I surprise people at school after break?
lose weight, get new clothes, change hair color or hair style, get new make up, like CHANGE the make up you are wearing and so on! Good luck! :)
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i don't know why you'd want to, but maybe try getting a cute new outfit or hairstyle.
wear fully designed tpo tat makes u thin.change ur hairstyle
lose weight, get new clothes, change hair color or hair style, get new make up, like CHANGE the make up you are wearing and so on! Good luck! :)
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?How can I surprise people at school after break?
i don't know why you'd want to, but maybe try getting a cute new outfit or hairstyle.
wear fully designed tpo tat makes u thin.change ur hairstyle
How do you get a girl to talk to you more? and change my personality?
I am a guy in grade 9 and I like this girl ALOT!!. Her personality is very energetic, happy (all the time), kind and popular. There is a big difference between me and her, I am basically a high school nerd ( I do have friends ), I am very shy, boring, kind and a bit helpful. I want to talk to her and eventually make her my girlfriend ( she is already my friend and she knows me ). To make her my girlfriend, I have to change my personality from boring and shy to energetic and fun. How can I change my personality ( I had this personality when I was younger but when I was in grade 7, I lost it )?How do you get a girl to talk to you more? and change my personality?
You shouldn't change for her. If you do, she won't be liking the real you, she'll be liking the person you're pretending to be, and you can't have a real relationship that way. Besides, people are often attracted to people unlike themselves. You two might balance eachother out and compliment eachother's personalities as is.How do you get a girl to talk to you more? and change my personality?
i think u better be in you r way and u r atttidude
don't ever change you... because you will always be you... no matter how hard you try... she should love you for who you are not who you're not... you're still young you are living in a sea full of fish... if not her then you'll meet someone in the future.
Don't make the personality, everything. Just relax. The girl comes to u, because of what u do, not what u are. So learn the lines well, and if u say the right things, that is flatter her, tell her she is pretty, etc. etc. the girl is yours.
do whats natural and be yourself.
You kind of just have to do it. Put yourself out of your confort zone, do things you wouldn't normally do. I'd start by flirting with her. You can always message me.
You shouldn't change for her. If you do, she won't be liking the real you, she'll be liking the person you're pretending to be, and you can't have a real relationship that way. Besides, people are often attracted to people unlike themselves. You two might balance eachother out and compliment eachother's personalities as is.How do you get a girl to talk to you more? and change my personality?
i think u better be in you r way and u r atttidude
don't ever change you... because you will always be you... no matter how hard you try... she should love you for who you are not who you're not... you're still young you are living in a sea full of fish... if not her then you'll meet someone in the future.
Don't make the personality, everything. Just relax. The girl comes to u, because of what u do, not what u are. So learn the lines well, and if u say the right things, that is flatter her, tell her she is pretty, etc. etc. the girl is yours.
do whats natural and be yourself.
You kind of just have to do it. Put yourself out of your confort zone, do things you wouldn't normally do. I'd start by flirting with her. You can always message me.
How much does testosterone effect aggressiveness in FTM transitioning?
My boyfriend is a trans man who is just getting started on his transitioning. He hasn't started T yet, but my worry is that he will become much more aggressive. I don't want to address this to him for fear of making him feel that I'm not supportive of his identity (which I completely am). Has anyone gone through this or know someone who has? How much can T change personality?How much does testosterone effect aggressiveness in FTM transitioning?
It really varies. However, in time aggressiveness will become less noticeable as he becomes used to being on T. In a transsexual person hormone replacement therapy does NOT change personality. Once started on HRT most of us feel calmer and mentally whole for the first time. As a result we often become easier to get along with as we are happier with ourselves.
So have patience. T may be a little be of a ride at first, but things should smooth out pretty quickly.
Thank you for being supportive!How much does testosterone effect aggressiveness in FTM transitioning?
Transman chipping in here, and your fear is a pretty common one. Luckily though, testosterone does not turn a person into some sort of wild and crazy monster man!
The changes are different for everyone, and so long as he's being watched by a competent doctor you two shouldn't notice any dangerous changes.
Common ';side effects'; to taking T can be increased (or decreased) sex drive, higher energy levels, changes in level of concentration, spontaneous happiness (he'll probably get random little thrills for the first few months while his voice drops), and overall a feeling of accomplishment.
People like to try and blame negative actions, thoughts, or situations on the T, but it's not the T's fault... uh, ever! My college's doc tried to blame my T for a viral infection knocking me on my butt... don't let anyone con you into believing that if something does change in him or goes wrong that's because of the T. If his levels are in the safe zone, it's something else.
T doesn't change your personality, it just makes your life less angst fueled.
Tell your girlfriend, that it might not make her more aggresive, but once she takes it, she probably might want sex with you more.
It will definatly change her personality, a lil more aggressive, but rarely is she going to end up in a womans prison for beating you up
It really varies. However, in time aggressiveness will become less noticeable as he becomes used to being on T. In a transsexual person hormone replacement therapy does NOT change personality. Once started on HRT most of us feel calmer and mentally whole for the first time. As a result we often become easier to get along with as we are happier with ourselves.
So have patience. T may be a little be of a ride at first, but things should smooth out pretty quickly.
Thank you for being supportive!How much does testosterone effect aggressiveness in FTM transitioning?
Transman chipping in here, and your fear is a pretty common one. Luckily though, testosterone does not turn a person into some sort of wild and crazy monster man!
The changes are different for everyone, and so long as he's being watched by a competent doctor you two shouldn't notice any dangerous changes.
Common ';side effects'; to taking T can be increased (or decreased) sex drive, higher energy levels, changes in level of concentration, spontaneous happiness (he'll probably get random little thrills for the first few months while his voice drops), and overall a feeling of accomplishment.
People like to try and blame negative actions, thoughts, or situations on the T, but it's not the T's fault... uh, ever! My college's doc tried to blame my T for a viral infection knocking me on my butt... don't let anyone con you into believing that if something does change in him or goes wrong that's because of the T. If his levels are in the safe zone, it's something else.
T doesn't change your personality, it just makes your life less angst fueled.
Tell your girlfriend, that it might not make her more aggresive, but once she takes it, she probably might want sex with you more.
It will definatly change her personality, a lil more aggressive, but rarely is she going to end up in a womans prison for beating you up
Has anyone out there tried to change their personality? did it work?
I want to change mine to become a better person.
because I dont like the way I am so negative and agitated, I would like a complete turnaround for myself. I want to act happier and more carefree instead of angry and high strung. Have any of you changed yourself in a big way? How did others react to the new you?Has anyone out there tried to change their personality? did it work?
Habit is the main influence on us. If you want to change then you should change your routine. Tell yourself positive things and get in the habit of doing things the way you would like to see yourself doing them.
Sometimes you also need a vacation to get your mind off of the grind so that's not the only thing you see in life.Has anyone out there tried to change their personality? did it work?
Get some therapy to find out why you get angry so easily. Use creative visualization to become the person you want to be and to get what you want from life.
You will never be happy if you try to change your personality. If you're negative and agitated, try changing your surroundings. Don't be like other sheeple.
That is a beautiful thing for any personality to want. You already are that way and it is not a matter of changing as much as it is a matter of opening up that part of you that is that way. You will find that all the material is already there. It is just a matter of you giving yourself permission to do so. When you succeed you will find that the change was actually more of an addition that enhanced the other in a way that will be satisfactory to you as a personality.
Yeah, I tried to act happy all the time and alot of mean people were on my back about that. I still try to to do the really nice thing yet then people try to take advantage of that, so I just get really mean and stingy, let em rot right along with me. Still I keep trying to come back with that from time to time, like from when I was 12, but it makes me vulnerable to bad feelings so I take breaks.
Lots of people make big changes in their lives and have it reflect on how negative they are percieved to be. Working with a counselor to solve what has made you so negative and agitated will help a whole lot.
People react to positive changes in others positively, they feel great now, too.
Yes, gradually. I am shy so I impersonated people whose qualities I admire - like confident and charming - imagining what they would do and how they would react in a given situation. Eventually I have instilled such values that they became natural.
yeah i was in that ship too but i crossed my sea. you see, its good to have a good personality but to make sure you don't get demotivated or startle others, take very small and simple steps..
changing you personality all of a sudden will make others think you stoned or something. and the way others look at you because of this will make you lose confidence in yourself..
use your negativity with humor at first so that it doesn't look bad and then use you remove the negativity and use the humor.
Humor has always worked for me because i had the problem of being too straightforward. tell everything straight to the face without realizin how much hurt they get..
all the best, and dont give up..
rome wasnt built in a day, but it was built eventually..
Change is good
It is possible to change your entire way of thinking not your personality. With a positive mind you become more patient %26amp; tolerant of everything. Ive changed entirely from what I used to be like. I learnt to clicker train dogs %26amp; learnt the art of positive reinforcement. I think different now %26amp; take my time in everything I do. I think this helps to keep me calm %26amp; not be highly strung like I used to be. It also brushes off on other members of my family %26amp; I have more power over them than before. I no longer do as I am told. I do as I am asked. I have the power to change the way I am spoken to. Try to study the art of positive thinking %26amp; you can not only change yourself, you can change others too.can anybody advise me on tvs
because I dont like the way I am so negative and agitated, I would like a complete turnaround for myself. I want to act happier and more carefree instead of angry and high strung. Have any of you changed yourself in a big way? How did others react to the new you?Has anyone out there tried to change their personality? did it work?
Habit is the main influence on us. If you want to change then you should change your routine. Tell yourself positive things and get in the habit of doing things the way you would like to see yourself doing them.
Sometimes you also need a vacation to get your mind off of the grind so that's not the only thing you see in life.Has anyone out there tried to change their personality? did it work?
Get some therapy to find out why you get angry so easily. Use creative visualization to become the person you want to be and to get what you want from life.
You will never be happy if you try to change your personality. If you're negative and agitated, try changing your surroundings. Don't be like other sheeple.
That is a beautiful thing for any personality to want. You already are that way and it is not a matter of changing as much as it is a matter of opening up that part of you that is that way. You will find that all the material is already there. It is just a matter of you giving yourself permission to do so. When you succeed you will find that the change was actually more of an addition that enhanced the other in a way that will be satisfactory to you as a personality.
Yeah, I tried to act happy all the time and alot of mean people were on my back about that. I still try to to do the really nice thing yet then people try to take advantage of that, so I just get really mean and stingy, let em rot right along with me. Still I keep trying to come back with that from time to time, like from when I was 12, but it makes me vulnerable to bad feelings so I take breaks.
Lots of people make big changes in their lives and have it reflect on how negative they are percieved to be. Working with a counselor to solve what has made you so negative and agitated will help a whole lot.
People react to positive changes in others positively, they feel great now, too.
Yes, gradually. I am shy so I impersonated people whose qualities I admire - like confident and charming - imagining what they would do and how they would react in a given situation. Eventually I have instilled such values that they became natural.
yeah i was in that ship too but i crossed my sea. you see, its good to have a good personality but to make sure you don't get demotivated or startle others, take very small and simple steps..
changing you personality all of a sudden will make others think you stoned or something. and the way others look at you because of this will make you lose confidence in yourself..
use your negativity with humor at first so that it doesn't look bad and then use you remove the negativity and use the humor.
Humor has always worked for me because i had the problem of being too straightforward. tell everything straight to the face without realizin how much hurt they get..
all the best, and dont give up..
rome wasnt built in a day, but it was built eventually..
Change is good
It is possible to change your entire way of thinking not your personality. With a positive mind you become more patient %26amp; tolerant of everything. Ive changed entirely from what I used to be like. I learnt to clicker train dogs %26amp; learnt the art of positive reinforcement. I think different now %26amp; take my time in everything I do. I think this helps to keep me calm %26amp; not be highly strung like I used to be. It also brushes off on other members of my family %26amp; I have more power over them than before. I no longer do as I am told. I do as I am asked. I have the power to change the way I am spoken to. Try to study the art of positive thinking %26amp; you can not only change yourself, you can change others too.
Changing personality?
How would you go about trying to change your personality from lets say boring and uninteresting to funny and interesting?Changing personality?
Watch a whole lot of Steve Martin stuff from the old days and start imitating him. Everyone else did back then!Changing personality?
by steadfast efforts in acquiring more knowledge and information over various subjects and exposure and better interaction, duly becoming flexible, developing vocabulary etc.
I never feel bored in any situation. I consider every moment as an opportunity to learn things, by observing the happenings around you or by indulging in certain contemplation about something or the other. Often, while in travel, I internally switch on the singer within me, who will within no time, sing the most melodious songs, that I would have come across. When you are alone, you should feel at peace with yourself. Quiet loneliness is the essential condition of a potentially divine soul. We all have the potential divinity and we must cultivate the habit of feeling its presence.
hmm....... sounds to me like you've taken a big hit to your self esteem. First you have to realize that you have a wonderful gift of nature called ';Freedom of Choice'; and then you need to take that gift and unwrap it totally. What choices can you make in your life to feel happier and lighter? Brainstorm about 20 ways you can feel truly happier and lighter. Make the list slightly whackier than you would ordinarily try, but not so whacky that you will infringe on someone else's freedoms or get thrown in jail or the looney bin. Here are some possible responses to start you off:
-volunteer in a hospital
-buy a couple of lovely pure, unadulterated essential oils to inhale when I feel down or negative
-hang with happy, calm, kind people
-do a sport I really enjoyed when I was 9 (Soccer? Gymnastics? Skiprope? Swimming?)
-re-read a book I really enjoyed when I was 9 (Anne of Green Gables? Amelia Bedelia?)
You go! Then commit to do one of the items today... one tomorrow, and so on....
all the best!
Your personality isn't boring and uninteresting you just keep telling yourself it is and now thats what you believe. If you truly think you're boring and uninteresting that's most likely how you will come across to other people. Just relax, be yourself and don't worry about it. You're 'boring and uninteresting' might become 'laidback and totally cool', ya dig?
I would say learning is the fastest root to being interesting. and as far as being funny that is hard to learn or teach. But watching george carlin and bill hicks dvds could be a good idea.
second experiencing alot of things makes people interesting and gives them stories and crap to talk about.
Firstly, I will need to look at my appearance on the outside such as the clothes I am wearing, my hair etc. IT could be I carry a boring outward appearance and maybe I need make-over myself.
After making myself better looking, I shall look into the way I communicate. Communication shows your personality a lot. If i made jokes that no one laughs, I will try to read more joke books to upgrade my sense of humor. Reading a variety of books can actually improve one's knowledge thus, creating conversation with others will be fun and easy. Most of all, read the art of communicating effectively and learn it.
Next, one should always learn to be charming. It's easy to be charming by keeping a smile on your face and saying hello to others. Picking up a new hobby does help a lot as well because through hobbies we actually discover interesting things we never know.
Watch a whole lot of Steve Martin stuff from the old days and start imitating him. Everyone else did back then!Changing personality?
by steadfast efforts in acquiring more knowledge and information over various subjects and exposure and better interaction, duly becoming flexible, developing vocabulary etc.
I never feel bored in any situation. I consider every moment as an opportunity to learn things, by observing the happenings around you or by indulging in certain contemplation about something or the other. Often, while in travel, I internally switch on the singer within me, who will within no time, sing the most melodious songs, that I would have come across. When you are alone, you should feel at peace with yourself. Quiet loneliness is the essential condition of a potentially divine soul. We all have the potential divinity and we must cultivate the habit of feeling its presence.
hmm....... sounds to me like you've taken a big hit to your self esteem. First you have to realize that you have a wonderful gift of nature called ';Freedom of Choice'; and then you need to take that gift and unwrap it totally. What choices can you make in your life to feel happier and lighter? Brainstorm about 20 ways you can feel truly happier and lighter. Make the list slightly whackier than you would ordinarily try, but not so whacky that you will infringe on someone else's freedoms or get thrown in jail or the looney bin. Here are some possible responses to start you off:
-volunteer in a hospital
-buy a couple of lovely pure, unadulterated essential oils to inhale when I feel down or negative
-hang with happy, calm, kind people
-do a sport I really enjoyed when I was 9 (Soccer? Gymnastics? Skiprope? Swimming?)
-re-read a book I really enjoyed when I was 9 (Anne of Green Gables? Amelia Bedelia?)
You go! Then commit to do one of the items today... one tomorrow, and so on....
all the best!
Your personality isn't boring and uninteresting you just keep telling yourself it is and now thats what you believe. If you truly think you're boring and uninteresting that's most likely how you will come across to other people. Just relax, be yourself and don't worry about it. You're 'boring and uninteresting' might become 'laidback and totally cool', ya dig?
I would say learning is the fastest root to being interesting. and as far as being funny that is hard to learn or teach. But watching george carlin and bill hicks dvds could be a good idea.
second experiencing alot of things makes people interesting and gives them stories and crap to talk about.
Firstly, I will need to look at my appearance on the outside such as the clothes I am wearing, my hair etc. IT could be I carry a boring outward appearance and maybe I need make-over myself.
After making myself better looking, I shall look into the way I communicate. Communication shows your personality a lot. If i made jokes that no one laughs, I will try to read more joke books to upgrade my sense of humor. Reading a variety of books can actually improve one's knowledge thus, creating conversation with others will be fun and easy. Most of all, read the art of communicating effectively and learn it.
Next, one should always learn to be charming. It's easy to be charming by keeping a smile on your face and saying hello to others. Picking up a new hobby does help a lot as well because through hobbies we actually discover interesting things we never know.
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
How long does it take for fashion to change?
LIke before people used to have differnet kind of clothes,hairstyles and also personalities. But as fashion changes peoples personality changes also, how long does it normally take for fashion to change for example like 5 years back there wasnt that many girls/boys that used gel now everywhere you see there is bound to be gel used in hair.
So how long really will it take for fashion to change?
Thanks.
How long does it take for fashion to change?
well actually its mostly the big clothes companies that change the fashion. really without even trying, but it can also be a popular person. but just make your own style... i mean it probably wont take that long for the fashion to change again. just wait a year or less!How long does it take for fashion to change?
when the people decide that thats not cool anymore
It depends really.
I change my fashions uite frequently, maybe about every 5 months I decide to change my general look.
But usually, maybe it ranges from 2-6 years?? It really depends tbh.
Sorry my answer was crappy...
Fashions change every half year, like spring/summer then to an autumn/winter
but as for things like gelled hair etc, it just depends really, things can phase out pretty quickly, like after a few months, or a year.
Then there are other things that last for a few years, even a decade or so!
fashion changes everyday..
a new design is designed everyday..
its not about what people are wearing its how they're wearing it..
So how long really will it take for fashion to change?
Thanks.
How long does it take for fashion to change?
well actually its mostly the big clothes companies that change the fashion. really without even trying, but it can also be a popular person. but just make your own style... i mean it probably wont take that long for the fashion to change again. just wait a year or less!How long does it take for fashion to change?
when the people decide that thats not cool anymore
It depends really.
I change my fashions uite frequently, maybe about every 5 months I decide to change my general look.
But usually, maybe it ranges from 2-6 years?? It really depends tbh.
Sorry my answer was crappy...
Fashions change every half year, like spring/summer then to an autumn/winter
but as for things like gelled hair etc, it just depends really, things can phase out pretty quickly, like after a few months, or a year.
Then there are other things that last for a few years, even a decade or so!
fashion changes everyday..
a new design is designed everyday..
its not about what people are wearing its how they're wearing it..
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