Have you ever got a relative or friend to change their personality towards you?

I read somewhere that you can not get people to change, but instead you can only change how you deal with people.



I think that makes some sense but if we do not complain when someone is bad to us they will continue to abuse us.



I think we can get people to change their personality and behavior towards us if they believe that their actions will make their own life difficult or they value their relationship with us and believe that we will cut them off if they do not change.



What do you think?Have you ever got a relative or friend to change their personality towards you?
People do not change their personalities, they may change their approach to you but their basic personality has been established since childhood.Have you ever got a relative or friend to change their personality towards you?
Yeah my sister changes her personality toward me, when she got a new house she became a different person. She looked down on anyone that didn't own their home, I didn't even know her anymore.
How?

Look in the real world.

Being a ';Fisher of men';

Not that easy.

When living human kind does not like to be told on anything in life.

Can never be a ';Fisher of men'; in own backyards.

Have to set sail out to the open sea.

Where all the fish hangs out.

Then feed the hungry fish in time.

With time scoop the fish out put in the frying pan

In having a hearty meal with fish and chips.

Luke 6.39-40,41-45,46-49

What do you think?
Good friend with relationship is good and other is forgotten