Is it possible to change your personality?

I hate my personality x3 it makes me miserable and a social outcast...mainly with girls.. I know im not ugly but even when i know a girl likes me im very... very.. very shy and scared to talk to her unless she speaks first i know its crazy how do i change.. oh yeah i worry about what others think way too much.. for example if i bought some shoes and some said they look big or ugly... I'd take them back to the storeIs it possible to change your personality?
* Do this step by step. You want to change yourself completely and it will take some time before you actually do it.



* Maybe do it for the summer and then in the fall people will see the new you.



* Don't get frustrated if you don't change right away. Like I said, it'll take some time.



* Is there something you absolutely love that you can't sacrifice? Then keep it! It is most important to feel good about your new self.



* NEVER change who you are because other people don't like you. If you are a nerd, don't become a prep just because they are 'cool'. Go take a look at a group of true goths at your school (The kind that are goth because it is a way to express themselves, not because they think they are vampires.) They are all standing around laughing at the preppy people and making jokes about how every blonde at the school will work for them some day.



* If you think you cannot change who you are because of parents or other people in your life, change yourself in small ways. Cut down habits you don't like and introduce new ones. If mom or dad asks what's up, explain to them (DON'T yell or argue) that there is nothing wrong with your self-esteem, that you are just trying to be more comfortable with yourself.Is it possible to change your personality?
personality comes from inner soul and atitude

so change ur atitude if any thing is WRONG
i worry of what people think of me, too... but i have learned if you just relax a bit and dont stress.. its gonna be ok!
ok well I tried this and i worked for me... im not sayin it will work for u but u can try...

1) hang out with new friends thataren'tt shy

2) try not to be so selfconsciouss

3) be CONFIDENT

4) if u see a Girll go for her (well of unless of course she is taken..i did that with guys though cause im not lesbo! =))

5) get more into the social groups like get into a sport or somethin or drama like and extra activities that gets you out there more!!
You can change qualities about yourself and grow.