How do you change your personality?

From bad traits to good..the type of person people want tom be around with.How do you change your personality?
be more likeable and relateable. depends on what in ur personality you want to change. but i think you cant change personality because personalites are who we as humans are. and no one, not even our-selves can change that.How do you change your personality?
not easy, you are who you are and you can only keep an act up for so long
Not easily.

If you were to change who you were then you would be a fake.

Its better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not.

As Curt Kobain would say..
you just have to accept everything around you. i guess negative traits happen when you reject things you refuse to accept.



slowly, you'll just change. :)
Well you have to find you bad traights and you work on each one seperately until you have gotten rid of the bad traight and then you can move onto another bad traight although it is not easy.
You shouldn't change your personality - its what makes you different from everyone else, bad traits and all. you wouldnt be you if you had a different personality :)
by changing your personality your becoming a different person, if you want to be that perosn everyone wants to be around, think about what you like in other people and whats draws you to them and take it from there
You might not want to hear this but to a large extent you can't change it.



People suggest that you analyse and hang around with the people you admire. That way you pick up their traits that you like and see how they tick.



But you also need will power. I wanted to change my personality a while back and asked the same question. But I just couldn't be assed changing. If people have a problem with me its theirs. I'm not going to waste my time on them.
Well, the traits that make up personality are pretty much hardwired... you can alter them a bit, but you cant entirely change them.



No one can, you could practice acting like someone else but that wont change you or make you happy...
You have top brainwash yourself. Retrain your though process. Read ';How to win friends and influence people'; Then do everything its says. Keep reminding yourself of that goal and keep living your life the new way.
That's a loaded one for sure. Well, you don't change your personality. Everybody has good and bad in them. Some poeple show the two characteristics in balance, while others show one more than the other. I think the way to approach a desire like that, is to watch yourself, I mean really watch and listen to yourself for a period of 24-48 hours. Make notes if you can on all of the good things that you say or do, and do the same for the bad, or things that you would not want to be on the receiving end of.



Couple things will happen here. First, you are going to say and do less things that are disrespectful just because you are consciously watching yourself. Also, yo will become aware of the person that you are presenting and, aware of the person you can be and where the opportunities are. Don't be afraid to tell poeple what you are doing, those worth knowing, will respect what you are doing.



After that, set goals for yourself, look for opportunities to improve, and before you know it, you'll be the person you always knew you could be.



That's just my $.02 worth, best of luck!
Bad trait run in all family's but u can over come them by doing good things . Such has people who are mean with no purpose be nice to people ur normally mean to etc.. It's not a bad change to be nice to others and it's only going to give good return in the future.
The first thing is to stop hanging with people who keep dragging you to bad habits.
It's your unconscious mind that is in the driving seat and if you want to affect change in your behaviours and beliefs etc then you need to access your unconscious to do it. Getting into trance and hypnotic states is the way to do this. We go in and out of trance all the time, every day and if you make a desision to change while you are in those states then the change is going to have a much better effect.
It can be done. What traits do you want to change?



I actually 'gave up' being shy, by acting as if I wasn't. Soon enough, being bolder became part of my nature. I've also stopped losing my temper.
u cant change ur personality. u r who u r. if people dont accept who he is then obviously theyre r not the people to hang around with. if ur good friends with this tom then u should stick by his side. even though he might have some bad qualities about him hes still ur friend right?



if i were u i wouldnt hang around people who dont like ur other friends. stick witht the people u can trust. even though this tom might be bad, dorky, or sometimes very obnoxious hes still ur friend. stick with him.



i hope i gave u some good insight! : )
My personality and demeanor changed when I started Prozac..it sounds bad, but I can handle the kids screaming and the husband yelling. any time things get worse, my DR just ups my dosage ..so you could try medication, if your DR will allow it.



And start saying ';Whatever'; alot, just don't let things get to you on the outside



I know I sound like a wakko, saying to medicate yourself, but it is better than yelling at the kids and not having the patience to be a good mommy. And don't get me started on the huubby.
If you are being you, you should'nt chnage yourself. I'm sure you will find someone that understands you. You don't change anything about yourself for others.
smile a lot and think about happy things. be ignorant, my friend
Suffer traumatic brain injury, like Phineas Gage.