How a person can change his personality with respect to psychological reflections?

i mean that what changes are needed to the person for adopting a good quality personality being accepted by general peopleHow a person can change his personality with respect to psychological reflections?
it's bit tough dear...there is a word known as 'Habit'...it won't let u change ur personality...u may try changing your personality on a certain issue consciously but your subconcious mind will play the trick...according to me no1 can build up his/her personality by themselves...it's God's gift to us.How a person can change his personality with respect to psychological reflections?
there is a place for everyone! not fitting in is good. almost all great ideas come from people who do not think like others also some rotten ones too. but as my world closes in.. you can reach out to someone who shares the same thoughts as you in a good personality changing experiences. like, traveling to other places and country's make you open to the changes all around us. we are not alone,,,,we have our selves to live inside of,. if there is a change to be made ....look outside your self and do the most selfish thing known to mankind......help someone or your fellow animal kingdom friend a see how it will make you feel. you wont be around here... the change will happen all on its own....bye ...see ya on the outside doing something to full you up. smiles
First of all one should be in a good mentally physically emotionally spiritually financially then she or he may have a quality peronality which is acceptep by whole group.