I recently got told that i am stuck up. How do i change this personality flaw?

I dont want to be stuck up!! In fact, i never thought i was stuck up, untill ive been told by someone i really listen to. (bf) so anyways, what do i do about this?I recently got told that i am stuck up. How do i change this personality flaw?
Humble people are well liked people, be a listener and not the I'm gonna get this or that, I have better and you don't, be humble be happy for others and never brag. Just have a great smile and be interested in others not about you, then you will see others start to emulate you and

you will gain lots of friends.

Life is good and never talk about others this is a set up that many people use to get people on there side they lack confidence, just change the subject and say I got to go I'll call you later, something came up.I recently got told that i am stuck up. How do i change this personality flaw?
The answer depends on how you carry yourself.



If you talk and behave arrogantly, dominating, act as if no one else is as important as you, or knows as much as you do, I'd say that's being stuck up. That needs to change by humbling yourself. Proud people are brought down, humble people are promoted. Be willing to listen, respect, honor, learn, and give of yourself with sincerity.



If you're considerate, kind, and don't insist on your own way, and behave with confidence and good self-esteem, I'd say this behavior may be a threat to those who think on a lower level. Your presence may make them feel self-conscious. Just dismiss them by saying you're not conceited, but convinced.
People that are somewhat shy have a tendency to not act outgoing and friendly. This does give some people the impression that they are stuck up. When you pass people, try to work on not being too shy or so absorbed in your own thoughts, that you don't pay notice to an acquaintance. A friendly hello, now and then breaks the ice.



Maybe your bf thought that you were too judgmental of others. There is too much on TV that tells us it is OK to judge others, but in real life judgementalism just leads to dissatisfaction.



At some point in our lives, we try to find our place in the world. We try to pigeon-hole people to see where we fit in. But when we cross the line between trying to understand others and judging others, that is when arrogance takes us over and we become stuck up. But, not to worry, IF you ever cross that line, you can always cross back.
Everybody gets told that at some time. Maybe you are, maybe not, maybe it was just at that instance or most of the time. I would have your friend clarify that and explore it with them and see their point of view, evaluate it and see if it applies. If not, so what. it hurts a bit, but, if you really are, what goes around, comes around.... or you could just humor them and say, ';Thank you'; could I have another?
Ask for detailed examples from your friend and if needed ask other people's input. Don't disagree or interrupt. Just listen. Then take time to reflect on what you heard. Then weigh the evidence. Come out with conviction on your decision but don't try to change people's minds.
lol You are an impressionable teenager aren't you? Listen...you had one person tell you that. Hardly a sign of needed attitude change. Next time tell him say ';You're right I am. And if you keep telling me that, you might not be good enough for me.'; Let me know if he keeps telling you that then...
TO MOST PEOPLE BEING ';STUCK UP'; MEANS THAT YOU ARE A LEADER AND NOT A FOLLOWER !!! STAY THE SAME ( SEE IF YOUR bf WILL STAY WITH YOU) BECAUSE YOU ARE A UNIQUE PERSON !!! PEOPLE WHO SAY THIS TO YOU ARE JUST ';HATERS'; !!! ask your bf if he think this way of you WHY ARE YOU WITH ME !!!
people can think your stuck up and some people wont think you stuck up at all, just do you and you would/should be good.
according to youre name i would think that you know the humble always win in the end ,,good luck
lol dont change it, embrace it
lower your standards
Don't pay attention to what others say!