How can I change my personality?

I'm not happy with my personality. I'm shy, quiet, I never know what to talk about with someone. How can I change that about myself? I really need help with this. I don't get noticed often.How can I change my personality?
You have stated your problem in a very direct manner, now you need to take direct actions in order to solve them. First and foremost, being shy and quiet is not always wrong a bad thing, and certainly nothing to be ashamed of. It is no more right or wrong than being a complete extrovert, it is just different than. Also, keep in mind that a personality is a compilation of many different qualities which in turn make up your own unique personality traits. Your self description from beginning to end is quite negative. I would believe that this has a lot to do with your uneasiness around others. The best thing that can help you to stop these types of feelings is to face them head - on. Just begin gradually by saying hello to someone or people on a daily basis, then move on from there. Always keep your chim up, your shoulders back, and a smile on your face. These non-verbal clues will exude confidence and make yourself seem more approachable. How are you so sure that you do not get recognized? I would be willing to bet that no one has ever came up to you and told you that you blend in with the wallpaper. So this is purely speculation on your part. Not everyone enjoys small talk or finds it easy. Not everyone goes to the hairdresser and talks about anything and everything under the moon. The big thing is that you do not have to, and you are not weird or strange or bad because of it. Start to gradually talk with others and move forward from there. (keep up on current events in order to have some ides to start off with. Desensitization or facing your fears directly is the only way to become more outgoing. Always remember that you are who you are and learn to respect that. Everyone is different and not one person's personality is better than yours. Good luck to you!How can I change my personality?
Don't change who you are! Just give it some time, and be with people who make you laugh. Have fun, it's life.
You can but it will come back
You need to find out what your interests are.

You need to concern yourself with seeking knowledge.

When you develop confidence, everything changes.

Not everyone starts out confident.

Strive to be excellent at something. There are unlimited choices insofar as interest.

You can do anything that you want to do. you just need to be quiet and still and find out what inspires you. We as humans don't have so much time on this earth. You are your own masterpiece and it is your duty to sculpt yourself and create what you want.

I was very shy when i was young. Both my parents deserted me and I never had any direction as far as role models go. I dropped out of school in 8th grade so i could go to work and take care of myself. I was forced to learn how to survive. It helped me to have confidence but I did it myself alone.

I became a figure skater when I was 11-16. Won 5 gold medals

I became a body builder when I was twenty Won a 2nd place trophy

I became a guitar and blues singer at 23 and played in bands.

I became a working chef (self taught) at 34 made big cash

I became a wellness counselor at 40 because i love to help people

I am a bartender by trade but Im NOW retiring to become a skin care specialist. I will move to Hawaii because I CAN. I am still alone...never had kids.

You can do anything in the world that you want!

I did and you are no different.

It's all about setting goals.

You WILL open up just like a caterpillar and have many things to share and talk about with others.

You can have the person (ality) that you want. I just know it!

Go get it now.

I hoped this helped.

Please email me anytime.

Peace and Love