How Can I Change my personality?

Well, I've been a nice guy for pretty much my entire high school life. I've made tons of friends and relationships with other people, but i'm not saying that not great and all. I just want to get a taste of of what its like being a ';bad boy'; or someone that everyone is drawn to without the need of an introduction at first. Any tips?How Can I Change my personality?
As with mental disorders, there is no cure (except maybe the odd surgery), only means to manage impulses and cope with the emotions (or lack thereof). So you can't really change your personality, only what you appear as on the outside, but that's what you're looking for, anyway.



If you're looking for attention; you can change the way you dress or act (listen to your impulses instead of reason).



Really, though, if you want people to be drawn to you, a reasonable amount of eye contact and a pleasant smile can help.How Can I Change my personality?
you cant change a personality. Its who you are. and if you do try it your real personality will pop up sooner or later.
Dont try and be the ';bad boy';, just dont do it. Nothing positive comes from it. What you want in reality is that confidence. Try to focus more on yourself and how you act. Do nice things for others but dont do it out of insecurity or worry that they wont like you. Do it because you're a nice guy and thats what you WANT to do. Key: do what YOU want to do and dont let anyone do anything to harm you. once you have that attitude, people will be drawn to you whether you are 'bad' or 'nice'



but dont try to change your personality..you'll get nowhere
I think I understand, as I was a good girl all through high school; one day in a moment of defiance, I walked on a lawn marked, 'don't walk on the grass' - just to be defiant...



Bad boys seem so much more attractive - until - you marry one, and realize your life is a living mess.... Good guys seem to finish last, but they sure can finish best; remember, that once you begin to sully your good name, it is hard to get it back, and - perhaps it is not being 'bad' is what you really want; you want just to be able to make your own decisions and not placate everyone or go by the rules; I am now in a situation where once in a while, i want to know when can I bend the rules, when is it okay to break the rules for a greater good?



Just think of the consequences of what bad entails; jail time, dishonor, disrespect, loss of reputation. Maybe what you need is just an opportunity to cut loose- go hang gliding or bungi jumping... rock climbing, something that makes you grow in your own personal estimation...
Hint: Right now you are a good boy who has good friends and good relationships. You WANT to be a good boy. Trying to change your personality is not possible, you are who you are. If, for some strange twisted reason, you do become a bad boy, than you will have jerks for friends, you will end up being a bully, and who knows how many girls you will break the hearts of.

Oh, I'm sorry, you WANTED to change your life? You wanted to do something stupid?

Ouch, I've got to get out of this place!