Monday, November 22, 2010

Can you actually change your personality?

I am very emotional, clingy type person. Personally I feel it sucks. I am always the one who experiences a crisis the most and takes it personally. I wish I were quite the opposite. I can not handle anything without blowing up. How am I ever going to make it through life if I am so emotional?Can you actually change your personality?
At depth your personality is a constant. But you can change traits of your personality like clinginess. Just set yourself concrete goals and make the change.



One of the best ways to deal with emotionalism is to remember that feelings aren't facts, and try and stay out of the business of second guessing your reactions and just concentrate on your ACTIONS and WORDS. What I think and feel about stuff is none of my concern. Just doing good and useful things.Can you actually change your personality?
Yes, it is possible to change these aspects of your personality, although I prefer to word it that ';I am more like myself than I have ever been.';



There is nothing wroing with experiencing a crisis and taking it personally. It is a crisis. Those who block trauma are seriously damaged individuals who have frozent their feelings in order to survive in the past and now live in that cryogenic hell.



However, I understand about your concern about over-reacting in blowing up and being clingy, etc. My life exploded into shambles some years back, to put it mildly, leaving me without family or home. I became so upset that a thing like a pan boiling over was the absolute last straw.



I did a number of things to work with these parts of me that I was not particularly proud of. I found a therapist I feel completely comfortable with, and he works weekly with me on my self-esteem and hashing out what is reality and worth real estate in my head, and what is not. I also attend a support group specific to concerns in my life. Here I have made friends and practice interacting with others who are also trying to live their life in a healthier way. I read leterature specific to my concerns. I have delved into what sprituality means for me, personally.



These things opened my mind and my heart to create, yes, a personality that I would never in a million years have thought would be ';me';. It keeps getting better and better, too. With my development of boundaries and personal resolve and self-respect, people have come into my life that I didn't think existed. I am grateful every day that I do this work, and yes, it is a project that will continue as long as I do.
Yes you can change it. When I was a child I was angry and mean basically hated everyone and that was my choice. As I got older I was tired of not having friends so I decided to relax and turn off some of the hate. Now because of the hurt people can't help but bring upon others I think I will go back to the old mickey and shut down only caring about me. Do you understand. This life is your game, play it like you want. You make the rules and say who the winner is. : ) within reason don't go out of your head and do anything stupid your in charge of your life only. (and kids).
I love the book Personality Plus by florence littauer. It's not a christian-y book, but i got a christian bookstore to order it for me. we are born with certain personality characteristics. there are 4 main personality types, although no one is all one type -- we're all individuals, after all. you don't have to change the type of person you are, just strive to become the best you that you can be. that's all that i can do. Celebrate your enthusiasm, work on strengthening your independent spirit: no one can give you emotional strength. don't be so hard on yourself, and don't be too critical of others. don't expect from others, that's how we get disappointed. i suspect you are a creative person who really needs a good deal of time alone. take it slow with people. don't come on too strong. you have strengths, and i know you need affirmation from others. only be close to people who are genuinely supportive. dealing with ';blow-ups'; has been a lifelong challenge for me. it gets you nowhere. at my age I think and hope i've become tired of the drama (guys don't like it either) you can take a step back, calm down. always remember, whoever cares the most loses.
Find people whoo inspires you, before I was so shy, buh my sister inpired me now people think im crazy and thats wy they love me:) find people who inspires you and you wanna be.
I believe so, but I like to look at it as personal growth, a friend once told me that it makes more sense to help a person grow, (personal growth), then to change them. But on the whole, it would take willingness and a strong desire to change one's personality.
I do believe that you can change your personality but you have to really try. Its like for example in The Incredibles movie. I don't know if you ever saw it before but the girl in it is SUPER shy and then at the end of the movie she is much more confident. Its definately a different situation but what I would do as fas as dating goes is to tell the person your dating about this problem and maybe they can help. You should have one good friend, maybe thats the problem, you don't have someone in your life that you can trust and depend on without having to do anything to get that friendship. You should maintain a really close friend and they can prolly help you the most. Good luck! When in doubt ask Jesus:)
when something bad happens block it. block all emotions %26amp; all thoughts of the bad situation. keep ur mind occupied on other thoughts, take a deep breath, try 2 make yourself believe that the situation isnt important %26amp; u should be fine

How much will my rabbits personality change?

when it hits sexual maturity?? right now its super sweet. it comes to me when it hears my voice and puts its nose up when im petting it.. lets say it gets aggressive when it hits sexual maturity but i get it fixed (which is absolutely the plan) will it go back to being sweet or will it stay semi aggressive??How much will my rabbits personality change?
Hi,

I am a LONG TIME rabbit lover and know exacly what your asking.

Right now, you have bonded so much with your rabbit that your rabbit looks at you like a mum. THIS IS GREAT! even when it hits sexual maturity, it will still look at you as a mum. De-sexing a rabbit makes no perminant change to its personality.

So,

long story short- your fine! Keep interacting with your rabbit and thats great!How much will my rabbits personality change?
I am a breeder and rabbits definately have their own personalities and attitudes. Sexual maturity can happen between 4-7 months.



One example of a behavior change:

I have 2 does that are bred. One was skittish and aggressive before I bred her- she is really lovey and calm now, she also hasn't given birth yet. The other one, was interested and lovey before she was bred, but now she's not into people or being touched- not aggressive though.



Their hormones changed them (from the pregnancy). Now, when they are spayed or neutered- it stops these driving hormone surges. And keeps them sexually healthy. Rabbits are meant to breed by nature- part of survival of the fittest and natural selection. SO being fixed prevents a lot of problems to them. If your bun is sweet now and loves you- she should stay this way, just expect when sexual maturity hits she may act more twitchy and pacey, dig more, grunt or stomp if she doesnt get her way, etc. You will notice its not the same bun, but she should still be ok with you. Look to these sites to tell you more.



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Depends on the sex. Boys are usually nicer. Girls can be more aggressive but it won't change much as it gets older if it's nice now. Girls are also bigger.
Boy or girl?



My does are always bitter sweet at that age...



I'm not allowed to keep bucks because my mom's old roomie had a buack at that age who was evil.

How do I change something about my personality..? read details?

ok so, ive changed a lot in the past year, my morals and point of views have become more resonable, but theres one thing about my personality i can't change, its my whiny annoying side and i just dont know how to take care of that..like i know ppl say you cant change ur personality, but this HAS to go...



dont just say ';dont be whiny..'; thats not helpful!How do I change something about my personality..? read details?
Order the ';Complaint-Free Bracelet';. The rules for the bracelet are at: http://ccunitykc.org/Complaint_Free_Inst

Basically, you order this FREE purple bracelet and once you put it on your wrist you can not complain for a whole 21 days. If you do complain, then you take of the bracelet, place it on your opposite wrist, and start again at 21 days.



But in the mean time(it can take a few weeks for the bracelet to come), just be aware of your words and thought process. Maybe write down everytime you whine during the day, write what you said, and why it was so pointless to complain.How do I change something about my personality..? read details?
be more aware of what you are going to say. when you get into a situation that disapoints you, think hard. do you want to whine or this time are you going to take a more serious approach. just learn to think before you act and speek. you have heard that before and as lame as it sounds, you just have to know when you are going to whine so you can stop yourself.
First you learn to not answer before you've had time to think. Whiny is generally a unthought out bunch of words. it takes time but if you want to bad enough, you can do it, Think, before you speak.

My black labrador dog extremely playful and naughty. How to change his personality?

He is way too playful and it gets difficult to handle. I have given him a ball to play with and he keeps rolling that ball with his nose, without caring where he is heading. In the process he has knocked down lamps, chairs and various objects.



How to calm him down? he is 2 years old. its like playing is his life. he has nothing but play on his mind all the timeMy black labrador dog extremely playful and naughty. How to change his personality?
Neuter and look at the food you are feeding, if it is full of cereals, colourings and preservatives it could be causing behaviourial issues.

Dog training classes are then next on your list.My black labrador dog extremely playful and naughty. How to change his personality?
My guess your dog is not fixed? If not, that's your problem.
he probably wont until he is older.



is he fixed?
If you dont have him fixed. Get him neutered. It calms him down wayyyyy more. He wont be jumping around like he has ADHD but he will still be playful it will just help calm him a little. I think its like 40 bucks which isn't bad.
Labs are energetic dogs... it's not his personality it's just how he is! If you don't have the outdoor space to play with him you should be walking or running him EVERY day. I guarantee you that a dog sufficiently exercised does not have the energy to knock over furniture.
Sounds like the typical untrained Lab to me. You need to instill some controls %26amp; that happens when you start training them. They are a very active breed %26amp; need lots of exercise.
In order to change his personality, you must get him a brain transplant. I think you just want to change his behavior. You have a big dog and big dogs have energy. You need to take him for walks often, get him lots of toys to play with, and spend quality time with him. If you don't have the time or money to do that, you shouldn't have bought that dog. You should also get hi, neutered, if you haven't done so already. That calms dogs down a lot.
TAKE THE BALL FROM THE DOG. yell at the dog, it lets the dog know your boss, and thats its doing bad, hit it right away. but love the dog after a min of hitting it. it worked for me. plus walk your dog you lazy fool and watch animal Planet. damn lol



ps dont beat the dog, spank it.
Neuter, my eye. I had my American Bulldog/Chow pup neutered at six months, and he is still full of energy that I can barely tolerate in the house all the time. He is now 19 months old. He used to knock stuff over, too, but that had to stop. I took him to the vet, and he recommended over-the-counter meds called Calms. I got them at PetSmart. I give them to him when I have to go out, and I take him to run as often as possible so he can expend that extra energy. That seems to help the most. Past experience with dogs has proven that age (about 4 years) is what it takes to get them to calm down on their own.
nothing u can do about the playful part. he will grow out of it. u can always get a trainer to help with the naughtyness
Labs and Retrievers (like the golden I have ) take approx. two years before they start to think about leaving puppy

mode,but there are things you can do. Have you thought about putting him into agility training, its a great way to direct all that energy, and the dog will love it.!
It sounds to me that you got a dog without fully thinking it through.



A lab is a very active dog that needs training and socialization. Mainly they need some type of daily exercise that involves you and commands. Labs were born to follow. But if not given anything to follow they will follow what ever catches their eye or nose.



Giving him a ball to play with is not enough. You have to play with him.



The dog needs exercise. At the very least one daily walk of no less than a mile. He needs to play fetch or tug with you for about 30 minutes a day on top of it.



Do not leave his toys out when it's not play time. Only take the toys out when it's time to play.



Give you dog some simple obedience training. Watch me, Leave it, Sit, Lay, and Stay.



If you can't provide your dog with these basic things then you should consider re-homing him.



Also, if he isn't fixed then get him neutered. It does help.
About the only way you will ';change his personality'; is to shoot him.

Why don't you try changing his behavior instead?



Teach a dog the behavior you want from it, and the behavior that you don't want will take care of it's self.



PS:

Sounds like you have a pretty nice Lab, that ';personality'; is exactlly what I look for in that breed.
Labs do take longer to grow out of the puppy stages. My male Lab started to mature at 2 1/2. But before that he was a total goof and play, play play and goof off was all he did. The only thing that actually saved things at times was long walks, swimming, long games of fetch. The more Energy you drain the better dog you will have. When a dog obsesses with things like yours with a ball they are bored with to much pent up energy. I would recommend two good walks a day or at least one good long one. if not throw the ball for him for 30 minutes. Labs do need their angry drained they were bred to have that energy. I would also say maybe get him the Kong or one of those other treat dispenser and make him work at it to stimulate his mind. But you are almost there they really do start to mature and calm down. My male is now 4 and he is the best. Sometimes too lazy. But at 2 he needed long walks, and mental stimulation. I use to play '; go seek'; with him. Which was great training but it also kept him busy and his mind working. I first taught him the command seek by placing either his toy or treat close by somewhere he watched me put it. Then I would release him and say '; Go seek your ball'; or treat whatever. He knew where I put it and would go get it and with repetiton associated and learned the command. Then once he got that down I would hide things without him knowing and tell him sto seek. It kept him busy which made him happy.
Hi,



I think neutering your puppy would help. One of the benefits of neutering is he will be calmer with less testosterone in his system, and thus you'll be calmer too. Here's more info:



http://lnk.nu/dogtime.com/ser.html
You are not going to be able to change his personality. However, you can calm him down with exercise. He needs lots of exercise. A tired lab is a well behaved lab. You can exercise him yourself or get a second high energy dog for him to romp around the yard with and they will tire each other out. Also, I would not encourage play in the house at all. I have a lab and he knows playing in the house is against the rules. He is just too big and strong to play in the house without breaking something or knocking one of my kids over. Get the toys out of the house. Obedience training is something you should consider. It builds the bond between you and your dog and enables you to communicate what you want and expect from your dog more effectively. Labs act like puppies for several years. I expect your dog will calm down to some degree fairly soon as he matures. Good luck.

How to bring in a dramatic personality change?

as in not only coming out of the shell, but blasting it completelyHow to bring in a dramatic personality change?
I'm going to assume by ';shell'; you mean that you're introverted, really really shy, don't like big groups or talking to strangers.



Been there, done that, burned the t-shirt.



First thing you have to understand is that, in spite of what the movies say, you're looking at a process that is likely to take time. There's no quick or easy way to turn the shy guy in the corner into the life of the party.



Next you need to determine what motivates you - is it a fear of risk that keeps you from talking to that pretty girl across the cafeteria? Fear of rejection? Fear making a fool of yourself?



Understand that while you may feel comfortable inside your shell, the cost of staying there is high: fewer (or no) friends, no chance of getting a girlfriend, no development of valuable self confidence and social skills that will help you meet new people, make new friends, succeed in job interviews, succeed in the work place.



And then the hard part - consciously CHOOSE to act just once, take that risk, talk to that person - and FOLLOW THROUGH. Do this once. Don't think about doing it all the time just focus on the once. After that time, do it again, but only focus on that one time.



Talking to someone through all this might help as well - a good friend, a teacher, parent. I'd even suggest a counselor or even a therapist, since they have in depth knowledge on working through these things. One thing you want to watch out for is some of the modern unproven alternative therapies. Many of those will cost lots of money with very uncertain (or no) results. Don't try to find a miracle cure, just stick to what I said. The most important part is to actually follow through and step out of that shell. Do it once. Then do it once again. Soon you'll find yourself doing it more easily, then naturally.How to bring in a dramatic personality change?
join the marine corps ... seriously the will help you blast right out of that shell.. me I was in the navy not so much blasting .... pretty boring to be honest ....peace
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  • I recently got told that i am stuck up. How do i change this personality flaw?

    I dont want to be stuck up!! In fact, i never thought i was stuck up, untill ive been told by someone i really listen to. (bf) so anyways, what do i do about this?I recently got told that i am stuck up. How do i change this personality flaw?
    Humble people are well liked people, be a listener and not the I'm gonna get this or that, I have better and you don't, be humble be happy for others and never brag. Just have a great smile and be interested in others not about you, then you will see others start to emulate you and

    you will gain lots of friends.

    Life is good and never talk about others this is a set up that many people use to get people on there side they lack confidence, just change the subject and say I got to go I'll call you later, something came up.I recently got told that i am stuck up. How do i change this personality flaw?
    The answer depends on how you carry yourself.



    If you talk and behave arrogantly, dominating, act as if no one else is as important as you, or knows as much as you do, I'd say that's being stuck up. That needs to change by humbling yourself. Proud people are brought down, humble people are promoted. Be willing to listen, respect, honor, learn, and give of yourself with sincerity.



    If you're considerate, kind, and don't insist on your own way, and behave with confidence and good self-esteem, I'd say this behavior may be a threat to those who think on a lower level. Your presence may make them feel self-conscious. Just dismiss them by saying you're not conceited, but convinced.
    People that are somewhat shy have a tendency to not act outgoing and friendly. This does give some people the impression that they are stuck up. When you pass people, try to work on not being too shy or so absorbed in your own thoughts, that you don't pay notice to an acquaintance. A friendly hello, now and then breaks the ice.



    Maybe your bf thought that you were too judgmental of others. There is too much on TV that tells us it is OK to judge others, but in real life judgementalism just leads to dissatisfaction.



    At some point in our lives, we try to find our place in the world. We try to pigeon-hole people to see where we fit in. But when we cross the line between trying to understand others and judging others, that is when arrogance takes us over and we become stuck up. But, not to worry, IF you ever cross that line, you can always cross back.
    Everybody gets told that at some time. Maybe you are, maybe not, maybe it was just at that instance or most of the time. I would have your friend clarify that and explore it with them and see their point of view, evaluate it and see if it applies. If not, so what. it hurts a bit, but, if you really are, what goes around, comes around.... or you could just humor them and say, ';Thank you'; could I have another?
    Ask for detailed examples from your friend and if needed ask other people's input. Don't disagree or interrupt. Just listen. Then take time to reflect on what you heard. Then weigh the evidence. Come out with conviction on your decision but don't try to change people's minds.
    lol You are an impressionable teenager aren't you? Listen...you had one person tell you that. Hardly a sign of needed attitude change. Next time tell him say ';You're right I am. And if you keep telling me that, you might not be good enough for me.'; Let me know if he keeps telling you that then...
    TO MOST PEOPLE BEING ';STUCK UP'; MEANS THAT YOU ARE A LEADER AND NOT A FOLLOWER !!! STAY THE SAME ( SEE IF YOUR bf WILL STAY WITH YOU) BECAUSE YOU ARE A UNIQUE PERSON !!! PEOPLE WHO SAY THIS TO YOU ARE JUST ';HATERS'; !!! ask your bf if he think this way of you WHY ARE YOU WITH ME !!!
    people can think your stuck up and some people wont think you stuck up at all, just do you and you would/should be good.
    according to youre name i would think that you know the humble always win in the end ,,good luck
    lol dont change it, embrace it
    lower your standards
    Don't pay attention to what others say!

    How a person can change his personality with respect to psychological reflections?

    i mean that what changes are needed to the person for adopting a good quality personality being accepted by general peopleHow a person can change his personality with respect to psychological reflections?
    it's bit tough dear...there is a word known as 'Habit'...it won't let u change ur personality...u may try changing your personality on a certain issue consciously but your subconcious mind will play the trick...according to me no1 can build up his/her personality by themselves...it's God's gift to us.How a person can change his personality with respect to psychological reflections?
    there is a place for everyone! not fitting in is good. almost all great ideas come from people who do not think like others also some rotten ones too. but as my world closes in.. you can reach out to someone who shares the same thoughts as you in a good personality changing experiences. like, traveling to other places and country's make you open to the changes all around us. we are not alone,,,,we have our selves to live inside of,. if there is a change to be made ....look outside your self and do the most selfish thing known to mankind......help someone or your fellow animal kingdom friend a see how it will make you feel. you wont be around here... the change will happen all on its own....bye ...see ya on the outside doing something to full you up. smiles
    First of all one should be in a good mentally physically emotionally spiritually financially then she or he may have a quality peronality which is acceptep by whole group.

    How do I completely change my personality?

    I'm going back to school tomorrow, and I want to be different than I was for the last 7 years. I was quiet and shy, but I don't want to be that way anymore. I want to date, too. My cousin started dating in the eighth grade, so I want to start, too! I would really appreciate your answer. Oh, and no answers, like, ';You're too young to date, blah, blah, blah...'; because you're only wasting your time. Thanks, everyone!~NickHow do I completely change my personality?
    try to change the bad things firstHow do I completely change my personality?
    You shouldn't have to change your personality because the way you are now makes you you and you should never change that especially for girlfriend. you shouldn't want them to like you because of your new personality you should want them to like you because your you.

    never change the way you are for anybody and you will meet the them when the time is right and you know you haven't had to change for them.

    good luck this year.x
    Bud, you can't change your personality it is ingrained in your brain, there is no possible way to change who you are. Until you start liking how you are nobody is going to like you either.
    The most important is ask yoè°‹urself .. are you the person that you want to be ? if not then I cant say anything cuz you cant change yourself about things easily...
    You are who you are. Don't go and change yourself for no one. We are all so unique and individual. That's what makes us different.
    When you walk onto school grounds...Slap the taste out the mouth of the first person you see. It will mark the day you changed..from shy guy, to the man...People will take notice as well.

    How can I change my personality from being a introvert to being an extrovert?

    Your personality is your personality - you can't change it entirely because it is the way you are wired. However, you can make some small changes that will help a lot in the long run. Being an introvert means that you find pleasure and happiness from doing activities that are done by yourself and that your energy is fulfilled from within yourself (e.g. reading, video games, hanging out with only 1-2 friends at a time). Alternatively, being an extrovert means that your energy and amusement comes from extroverted behavior, such as being around a lot of people. Therefore, if you want to have a more extroverted personality, you have to exhibit more extroverted behavior, such as attending larger parties with more than just a couple close friends attending at a time. However, don't try and go to a huge party all at once and think that you'll be comfortable coping with the drastic change. Instead, gradually work your way up to that level by attempting to initiate conversations more often with close friends, making new friends, and then going out more. Personality is something that is formed and shaped throughout your entire lifetime through both your genetics and your experiences. Therefore, changing your personality is something that takes a while. Be patient, though, and I'm sure that you'll see some improvements.

    I'll give you first-hand advice: I am a junior in college right now. When I initially came to college my freshman year, I was VERY introverted and met hardly any people at all. However, I was unhappy by the time I was a sophomore and decided that I wanted to be more extroverted. I started out by doing more extroverted activities with my then-boyfriend (now we are engaged). Now I am a junior, and just this semester I have been able to comfortably attend parties and enjoy myself and meet new people.

    One thing you have to have is CONFIDENCE - you can't make any changes to your personality until you fully accept the way you are now and know exactly what areas of your self that you want to improve. I gained my confidence through my RA position on campus, and you can find confidence in many areas of your own life, too.

    If I can do it, I KNOW you can!How can I change my personality from being a introvert to being an extrovert?
    Talk moreHow can I change my personality from being a introvert to being an extrovert?
    I doubt you can change your personality for good because I doubt that people can change at all.

    But in case your mind is dead set on becoming more social then yes, talk more. Communicate more. Go out more.
    Buy a Ferrari. Get rich. Wear red. Learn to dance and drink. Host parties.
    You can't, but you can gain social skills that help you work around the introversion. You can pretend, play-act for a while, acting extroverted (I'm introverted and have done this). But if you are indeed introverted, you are that for life. Best idea: Learn to live with it, and gain those social skills.



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    Everybody isn't the same. Find happiness while being quiet.
    when you find out let me know. I would say get out more %26amp; to place where you have to interact. even the grocery store or a video store where someone might strike up a covo or where you have to talk at check out. Even the routine check out can in time help lose up the doors. You could go to the movie theater %26amp; ask them about new movies when their not busy of course %26amp; use that as a way of starting a conversation. It's not so much what or how much is said just that you get more comfortable in speaking %26amp; especially starting the conversations. Small steps.......
    Be available to opportunities where you can demonstrate talents and skills. The more responsible and dependable you are, the more people will likely complement and promote you. This is what happened to me and lead to my blossoming out.



    Before this, however, I spent more time in a committed relationship with Jesus Christ (not religion!) talking to God, asking for help, etc.



    Shy no more.

    How to bring in a dramatic personality change?

    as in not only coming out of the shell , but breaking it completelyHow to bring in a dramatic personality change?
    sigh



    If you want help, why don't you explain what it is you want to do.



    Dramatic personality change? No.



    There are aspects of your personality that are in-born.



    You can't simply wish yourself to be a different person than you are.



    What you CAN do is understand how you are, and learn how to live happily with that.



    But it's impossible to say more, given that you've given NO relevant details.
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  • How to change my personality?

    I went through a bad childhood. My personality is now untrusting, quiet, often scowling, but still kind. But I want to be like I used to be. I want to be happy, outgoing, gentle, and kind.How to change my personality?
    I had the same problem as you, minus the bad childhood. I was just creepy and grumpy all the time. I wasn't really like that, but I just acted that way at school. I just literally could not act normally. I thought I was bipolar or something for a long while. After a while a broke through. I think it was because I became comfortable around the people at my school, and I just made up my mind that I didn't want to be that way. Don't give up! Oh, and another thing, always make sure you eat enough, that helped me too.How to change my personality?
    Therapy will help you adjust. This sounds like it's not a matter of your personality but your approach to life. That is something you can change with behavioral therapy or dialectal behavioral therapy. That is not to imply that there's anyhting wrong with the way you behave, but the point of that kind of therapy is finding the root of your actions and changing the course you take.
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    At a SGI-USA meeting, I found out that the method for doing that had all been summarized as Nam Myoho Renge Kyo by the monk Nichiren. He lived in 13th century Japan. Here is the, ';just add hot water'; version of his doctrine.

    1-Everything is always changing, yet, there is a continuity of life and truth. That檚 Kyo. It also came to mean vibration, speech, teaching, sutra.

    2-Causes produce effects. Sometimes this is not obvious because of time gaps between the cause and the appearance of effects. That檚 Renge.

    3-Life is both physical and non-physical. That檚 Myoho.

    4-I needed to organize my mind according to what檚 real in order to win. That檚 Nam.

    I started to recite Nam Myoho Renge Kyo. It took some time to discard my cynicism, even when I got phenomenal results in my life and felt completed. I later found that joining with others enhances the effectiveness and gets me a big source of potential friends.

    Source(s):

    My own experiences as a result of reciting the formula and working with friends for peace, culture and happiness

    http://www.sgi.org

    Do you think it is possible to change your personality/ behavior?

    I don't think so... I think a lot of your personality has to do with your genetics... Whenever I am myself, 8 hours of sleep, ate, etc. I will have the same personality 99% of the time. No matter how hard I try to behave differently, I just can't do it.



    The only time my personality is different, is when the biological factors are off... For instance, when I have 3 hours of sleep... Or, when I don't eat... And the funny part is, that I don't even have to try to act differently.



    What do you think?Do you think it is possible to change your personality/ behavior?
    Humm..let me think of the best way to explain this. Your brain is like elastic...meaning that its not impossible to change and manipulate. As a child is growing up it's not uncommon for their personality to change a few times.



    For example: a child that is very introverted can grow up to be the most lively, outgoing, and funny adult.



    But, it's harder to change our personalities once we get older, because by the time we are 20 and 21 we usually have our identities/personalities set in stone.



    %26amp; yes... genetics does play a major role in how we behave (but not completely). Most likely you have found a personality that works for you, and that you are comfortable with. Why would your brain need to change if it's content?Do you think it is possible to change your personality/ behavior?
    Your personality is yours, its unique,



    But...when it ';has'; be changed, then you can be conditioned to respond to things in a more positive, healthy way. But really you are just repressing behaviour that is natural to you.



    Interesting question. Hard to answer.
    Personality can be changed by Neuro Linguistic Programming.eg; self help CDs on Depression,stop smoking,letting go of the past etc.

    On Yahoo Personals how do I change my personality type?

    I have a profile but no personality type? I cannot find how to edit it, is this a feature only paying members have?



    I can't find anything ANYWHERE in Yahoo Personals about how to change it - thanks!On Yahoo Personals how do I change my personality type?
    You are correct , this feature is for paying members only/

    Is it possible to change your personality if yes then how?

    Do you know any websites? I can't get angry or upset at ppl and they tend to take advantage of me? (I can't afford psychotherapy) I kno this question sounds silly but I need to get more asertive and learn to love myself. I kno i have to i just don't kno how.Is it possible to change your personality if yes then how?
    your personality changes every day but only small changes but it is possible to change your personality like if your bad temper (I'm not saying you are) you have to be nice instead of mean. then in time your personality will changeIs it possible to change your personality if yes then how?
    i think so, i would just search ';assertiveness help'; or something similar, gl! i wouldn't say 100% personality change cuz that's what it sounds like from your question, but def, at least i hope so, cuz i'm like you in a way,
    well, the first step is to recognize that you're like that..so good job..



    now you just need to recognize when you're doing it and stop it..



    i'll try to find some links for ya..

    http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/



    hope this helps..it details how you can fix things yourself..
    There are hundreds of self help books... head to your local Library. Just by asking this question proves you are a person who is very worthy... most peolpe go through life never trying to improve themselves. You have a promising future... good luck :)
    well no your personality will always be. but you can change certain behaviors. focus on the behavior instead of suppressing yourself. loving yourself is a personal battle, you can practice being more assertive by putting yourself in situations that need it.
    theirs more websites to look at.
    you can read websites and ';expert advice'; all day and probably get something out of it. ultimately though you should be aware it is a choice, like most everything. you are entirely equipped at this moment to be the person you want to be. ';cogito, ergo sum'; good luck :)

    How Do I Completely Change My Personality?

    I'm so sick of people walking all over me, teasing me, ignoring me and whatnot. And before you say ohhh just be yourself, well, no I can't because every time I do things just get worst.





    So my question is, how do I change myself to become a much more confident and respectable personHow Do I Completely Change My Personality?
    I felt it was important to get oriented. When you know what you know, what you believe/believe in or don’t believe/believe in and why, when you learn to appreciate what you have to say and you know why you do, when you realize that everything you do and believe-- is your choice, when you decide to have a mission such as seeking your purpose and know that it is only you that accepts or does not accept what another says, when you know why you do what you do, nothing anyone tells you or says holds any weight to what you think unless you believe it should).





    We are all unique. A lot of folks out there choose not to orient themselves and as a result they feel lonely or like something inside is missing... they want to feel like they are ';on the right track'; but don't know what that is or what it means. They don’t know how to feel that way except by downsizing, manipulating, puffing up their own perceptions, comparing themselves to others and others to them, belittling, and stepping on others. They want some kind of visceral ';charisma'; or popularity so others will seem to like them or so they feel like their accepted but the catch is, they've traded who they are for something else, something they aren't and deep down inside they still don't know what they think or who they are or they've chosen to live a lie and don't understand the fruit they reap from it. Sometimes they think it’s a game they have to play. The further they try to get from who they are, the more and more lost they become. They've traded their unique design to look, act, and feel like everyone around them. They choose not to embrace who they are and magnify it. These people probably need to feel loved and appreciated more than the average person for whom they really are and not for whom they are trying to be. These people could be on their unique learning path or on a path to self-destruction but seeing through their mask isn’t in my opinion something to live for except to become aware that not everyone knows what’s best for themselves and often because of this they overcompensate by trying to know or sound like they know what’s best for others. You don’t have to agree with everyone you come in contact with and what they think they see in you may not even be true. One other thing to consider... if you feel you are being belittled, ask yourself if you belittle yourself. Its possible that the reason some folks shrink around others is because they don't respect or regard their own attitude or perspective strong enough to hold its own. If that be the case however, that can change simply with choice. The truth is you know enough to get started. Focus on what you know, not what you don't know.





    Learn about yourself more. You have a lot to offer just like anyone else who chooses to be who they uniquely are. If you ';changed'; your personality, you might as well be destroying or disregarding who you really are and always will be. Imagine that your maker was perfect and His love which is perfect is what made you so take this journey as a beautiful one to find out who this wonderful person is. Think about ';construction';. You can “enhance” your personality, build on what you have, learn, grow, and build inner strength through small steps. Your time is valuable. You don’t need to waste it on big/cheap/fast appearance/image fixes that don't last forever. Take small meaningful steps with diligent effort. Small steps such as admiring your strengths -- plant some seeds to start this process -- you could try positive self affirmations and ponder them. Recognize what you're good at - there's a lot you're good at (remember you don't have to define this by what others tell you), strengthen those attributes and appreciate them. Let yourself smile when you recognize your growth and when you find genuine ways to uplift those around you (you can begin to recognize how truly valuable you are as you can do so so so much!). Let yourself find humor in things, allow yourself to enjoy the efforts you put forth, the work you do, the positive things you find, the choices you feel good about that you make, the fun you made out of anything you face in your path, the sound of your own voice (a voice is a wonderful thing!!!) (also think about the magnitude of it, not the softness or quietness of it unless you don’t want people to hear you), the positive effects smiling has on others (chain reactions), the things you share with others (whether they accept it or not), the growth that you see in yourself, the ability to think/to love/to learn/to grow. Forget what others think of you.





    Learn how to forgive yourself for not being perfect and give yourself an encore for moving forward, for choosing progress, for learning what you can from your experiences that respect how you feel and what you think. Allow yourself to recognize and have joy in the growth, fun, and unique design of those around you – allow yourself to be interested in them the way you take interest in yourself. Also, learn to forgive others who aren't perfect either and accept the fact that some things people choose to say are things you wouldn't necessarily say yourself but that just like you, these people are on a journey too, making their own choices. Find what you respect both in you and everywhere else. Learn why you respect those things. Reflect on your thoughts and follow those things you believe in. Pay attention to your heart. Decide what you want to represent, what you want to stand for and do it, live it, be it. Love it.





    Standing for what we believe in, figuring out what our foundation is made of and working to build it as we learn what it should be made of, may very well be part of the purpose of this life, yes? I know I feel sure when I stand on a rock. Things that change with popularity don’t last forever. Seek after things that are truthful/eternal in value. Be honest with the self and with the source of all truth. Trying something without knowing what will come of it but believing good will come of it, while being honest with ourselves about how we feel and being true to ourselves by respecting that feeling, we can learn, as faith comes first, then learning.





    Know too, that you don't have to spend the rest of your life trying to prove to those around you that you're something you thought they perceived you were not. Do this for you and what you want to stand for.





    Its okay to step outside the box. You could try the acting thing too but you don't have to see it as faking it. You could see it as making it. You can have any attitude your heart desires.How Do I Completely Change My Personality?
    I wish I knew the answer we could make millions if we did.
    Join community theater. There you will learn how ';act'; differently from your regular self. You will learn to act a certain way in different situations...... PLUS you get applause when your convincing.
    The only way people can really walk over you is if you put yourself on the ground. And pretending to be someone you're not is a very strange thing to do... You should just hope that someday you'll respect yourself so that others respect you too. If you respected who you are, you wouldn't be trying to change it.
    It's all about character. I know the question, ';What would Jesus do?'; sounds trite, but there's something to it. Yes, he turned the other cheek, but he also threw the moneychangers out of the temple forcibly. So he was tough when he needed to be, loving always, loyal to friends, wise to all, but threw down the line when it came to the Pharisees. You can almost see him shouting at them. ';You whitewashed graves! You nest of snakes!';





    So grow in character. It's a lifelong journey. Ask yourself, what would be the mature thing to do here? How would my grandmother counsel me?
    The secret to success in being more confident is this:





    Pretend you are a great actor, and the role you are playing is the person you wish that you were. This person is confident but not arrogant. This person stands up for herself/himself without being combative. This person is friendly and open with others, and shows interest in what they like to do, and as a result, people find her/him fascinating to be around.





    Once you become really good at acting out this role, you will realize that this is the person you were born to be. The secret, to put it succinctly, is to ';fake it until you make it';.





    When you act confident, people treat you like a confident person. Don't be afraid to BE that person, and if you feel like you can't, play the part like an award winning actor!





    Good luck!
    If you want to change your personality the best way is think of how your actions affect the people around you. Before you do something see yourself as a 2nd person who's watching yourself do it and think how you would react to it. Like that change your ways of mingling with people. I'm not really good at explaining this but a 4-5 years back i used to be teased walked over and ignored and its not fun. Mingle more with people around you and stop caring about it when people tease you etc. When you react to it people get tempted to continue on.
    start working out, the working out releases hormones whether your male or female, the hormones pump up you how do i say this ';caveman'; part of your personality giving you confidence, and looking good does too, start watching different shows than what your watching now, also get a new wardrobe and remember when somebody asks you to do something for them and you don't feel like doing it say no and if they ask why say i don't feel like it
    Nice question :P


    just do what I tell you and your life will change dude


    first of all just need to let you know that this world is not for nice people lmao and like people these days are F****D in the head so its hard to gain respect which eventually leads to losing self condience and low self esteem but you cant let these F*****S win!


    listen, for the walking all over ya problem, you gotta learn to man up and be tougher, dont be scared to F**K someone up when they disrespect you, even if it means you get your *** kicked you have to get your *** kicked sometimes in order to get somewhere, its a part of life.


    Dont take **** FROM NOOO ONE !!!! AT ALL , dont be an ***hole but like always make sure to defend yourself even from the stupidest comments or even if someone simply makes fun of you.


    as I wrote above, you do that slowly people will tease you less and eventually will lead to you being respected equally unless you start teasing people lmao which probably wont happen.


    If people ignore you it just means they dont know you probably or theyre juust to cocky to socialise with someone who may not appear to be as cool as they think. **** those people , never change urself for someone else to impress them or anything cause its a ****** up thing.


    One last thing, if you feel like doing (not nessceary) change your image, the way you dress, the music you listen to but stay original at the same time. if you had your own personality, people will revolve around you, dont be the one that always trys to fits in with a group of people.


    thats pretty much it , remeber always stay positive and dont let anyone get to ya. be nice to all people except the people that arent nice to you.


    good luck XD

    How do you change your personality?

    From bad traits to good..the type of person people want tom be around with.How do you change your personality?
    be more likeable and relateable. depends on what in ur personality you want to change. but i think you cant change personality because personalites are who we as humans are. and no one, not even our-selves can change that.How do you change your personality?
    not easy, you are who you are and you can only keep an act up for so long
    Not easily.

    If you were to change who you were then you would be a fake.

    Its better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not.

    As Curt Kobain would say..
    you just have to accept everything around you. i guess negative traits happen when you reject things you refuse to accept.



    slowly, you'll just change. :)
    Well you have to find you bad traights and you work on each one seperately until you have gotten rid of the bad traight and then you can move onto another bad traight although it is not easy.
    You shouldn't change your personality - its what makes you different from everyone else, bad traits and all. you wouldnt be you if you had a different personality :)
    by changing your personality your becoming a different person, if you want to be that perosn everyone wants to be around, think about what you like in other people and whats draws you to them and take it from there
    You might not want to hear this but to a large extent you can't change it.



    People suggest that you analyse and hang around with the people you admire. That way you pick up their traits that you like and see how they tick.



    But you also need will power. I wanted to change my personality a while back and asked the same question. But I just couldn't be assed changing. If people have a problem with me its theirs. I'm not going to waste my time on them.
    Well, the traits that make up personality are pretty much hardwired... you can alter them a bit, but you cant entirely change them.



    No one can, you could practice acting like someone else but that wont change you or make you happy...
    You have top brainwash yourself. Retrain your though process. Read ';How to win friends and influence people'; Then do everything its says. Keep reminding yourself of that goal and keep living your life the new way.
    That's a loaded one for sure. Well, you don't change your personality. Everybody has good and bad in them. Some poeple show the two characteristics in balance, while others show one more than the other. I think the way to approach a desire like that, is to watch yourself, I mean really watch and listen to yourself for a period of 24-48 hours. Make notes if you can on all of the good things that you say or do, and do the same for the bad, or things that you would not want to be on the receiving end of.



    Couple things will happen here. First, you are going to say and do less things that are disrespectful just because you are consciously watching yourself. Also, yo will become aware of the person that you are presenting and, aware of the person you can be and where the opportunities are. Don't be afraid to tell poeple what you are doing, those worth knowing, will respect what you are doing.



    After that, set goals for yourself, look for opportunities to improve, and before you know it, you'll be the person you always knew you could be.



    That's just my $.02 worth, best of luck!
    Bad trait run in all family's but u can over come them by doing good things . Such has people who are mean with no purpose be nice to people ur normally mean to etc.. It's not a bad change to be nice to others and it's only going to give good return in the future.
    The first thing is to stop hanging with people who keep dragging you to bad habits.
    It's your unconscious mind that is in the driving seat and if you want to affect change in your behaviours and beliefs etc then you need to access your unconscious to do it. Getting into trance and hypnotic states is the way to do this. We go in and out of trance all the time, every day and if you make a desision to change while you are in those states then the change is going to have a much better effect.
    It can be done. What traits do you want to change?



    I actually 'gave up' being shy, by acting as if I wasn't. Soon enough, being bolder became part of my nature. I've also stopped losing my temper.
    u cant change ur personality. u r who u r. if people dont accept who he is then obviously theyre r not the people to hang around with. if ur good friends with this tom then u should stick by his side. even though he might have some bad qualities about him hes still ur friend right?



    if i were u i wouldnt hang around people who dont like ur other friends. stick witht the people u can trust. even though this tom might be bad, dorky, or sometimes very obnoxious hes still ur friend. stick with him.



    i hope i gave u some good insight! : )
    My personality and demeanor changed when I started Prozac..it sounds bad, but I can handle the kids screaming and the husband yelling. any time things get worse, my DR just ups my dosage ..so you could try medication, if your DR will allow it.



    And start saying ';Whatever'; alot, just don't let things get to you on the outside



    I know I sound like a wakko, saying to medicate yourself, but it is better than yelling at the kids and not having the patience to be a good mommy. And don't get me started on the huubby.
    If you are being you, you should'nt chnage yourself. I'm sure you will find someone that understands you. You don't change anything about yourself for others.
    smile a lot and think about happy things. be ignorant, my friend
    Suffer traumatic brain injury, like Phineas Gage.

    How can I change my Personality?

    I hate my personality! People call me dumb,and stuff. Just cause I like to have fun and they like to be rude. I like hanging out with people who are like to have fun not be all mean and stuff just I wanna know how to change my personaility!?!?!?! please help best answer gets 10 pointsHow can I change my Personality?
    this may sound really corny but i say ..u just hang out with people that actually like to have fun to !

    and that accept u for being yourself !How can I change my Personality?
    you can't change personality

    because then it wouldn't be...you
    why would yuh want to......to confirm to some stuck up jerks?! screw them and find some rad people to hang out with...never change for anyone

    Is it possible to change your personality?

    I hate my personality x3 it makes me miserable and a social outcast...mainly with girls.. I know im not ugly but even when i know a girl likes me im very... very.. very shy and scared to talk to her unless she speaks first i know its crazy how do i change.. oh yeah i worry about what others think way too much.. for example if i bought some shoes and some said they look big or ugly... I'd take them back to the storeIs it possible to change your personality?
    * Do this step by step. You want to change yourself completely and it will take some time before you actually do it.



    * Maybe do it for the summer and then in the fall people will see the new you.



    * Don't get frustrated if you don't change right away. Like I said, it'll take some time.



    * Is there something you absolutely love that you can't sacrifice? Then keep it! It is most important to feel good about your new self.



    * NEVER change who you are because other people don't like you. If you are a nerd, don't become a prep just because they are 'cool'. Go take a look at a group of true goths at your school (The kind that are goth because it is a way to express themselves, not because they think they are vampires.) They are all standing around laughing at the preppy people and making jokes about how every blonde at the school will work for them some day.



    * If you think you cannot change who you are because of parents or other people in your life, change yourself in small ways. Cut down habits you don't like and introduce new ones. If mom or dad asks what's up, explain to them (DON'T yell or argue) that there is nothing wrong with your self-esteem, that you are just trying to be more comfortable with yourself.Is it possible to change your personality?
    personality comes from inner soul and atitude

    so change ur atitude if any thing is WRONG
    i worry of what people think of me, too... but i have learned if you just relax a bit and dont stress.. its gonna be ok!
    ok well I tried this and i worked for me... im not sayin it will work for u but u can try...

    1) hang out with new friends thataren'tt shy

    2) try not to be so selfconsciouss

    3) be CONFIDENT

    4) if u see a Girll go for her (well of unless of course she is taken..i did that with guys though cause im not lesbo! =))

    5) get more into the social groups like get into a sport or somethin or drama like and extra activities that gets you out there more!!
    You can change qualities about yourself and grow.

    How come I change my personality when talking to new people?

    i kinda feel like i am not myself, i become a different person...

    but when im with family i am calm.,How come I change my personality when talking to new people?
    You reflect what you see in others because you have a belief that other people love themselves and that's what they want to see more of. This is quite true, but people should be attracted to you because they see something in you that they like, not because they see a reflection of themselves.

    Be true to yourself, but at the same time love others.

    Try to build a better self image. Get confidence in all things and change your life with a new mindset. ';I think, therefore I am'; literally means I am a product of my thoughts. Listen to your thoughts, if they are telling you you have a low opinion of your self, then you will project those thoughts into your life.

    Change your thoughts to something positive and reap the rewards of an excellent life.

    Good luck out there.How come I change my personality when talking to new people?
    Everyone does that. I don't curse around my family but when I'm around my friends, you'd swear the fleet just flew in. I think it shows an ability to adapt quickly to certain situations.
    Every one shows different personality traits when with different people it's normal we all get that way
    You are not ' changing your personality' you are just adapting to a new group of people. your attitude towards people you don't know is not the same as those towards whom you know. coz unlike your family these guys are kind of unknown to you. so your not yourself, till you get to know them better, like your family. all after all, our attitudes changed towards different people based on how we view them emotionally.

    How can a change my personality, so I am not anxious?

    I have always been a tense person. Now, I am in my mid 40's and having to take medication to control my high blood pressure. Is there a new attitude I can learn or new habits to help me get my blood pressure back to normal and not have to take medication for it. I am also on medication for depresion, which I think could be related to the anxiety. Any ideas?How can a change my personality, so I am not anxious?
    By meditation and prayer you can tide over shyness.



    Your prayer is from your heart. Further You must have to understood the fact that God is present in our heart. This can be realised in meditation. Further we are the creation of our own destiny. As per Hindu sacred religion, we carry all good and bad deeds life after life. There is no end unless we pray for unification of self with the divineliness.

    Hence there is always a possible way to complete mergence with God in this life by a simple and wonderful meditationHow can a change my personality, so I am not anxious?
    True personality change takes alot of time and insight. We can all change behaviors but the self knowledge of changing the way we think which changes behavior is a long hard road but yes, you can do this if you are determined and honest with yourself.
    dont eat chicken
    As far as the physical symptoms go, like clenching and jitteriness, as just some personal advice that works for me, I like to calm my breathing, and then pretend that I'm underwater, and all my movements are slow and fluid. This is just a strange thing that calms me down throughout the day, but maybe it will help you a bit!?
    meditation and massage would be something to look into. Exercise too would be great
    add a new hobbie to your lifestyle ....if you like animals ....horse riding would be wonderful .....or take up biking ..or hiking .....think about the things you eat ...personally I find fresher rawer organic foods to keep me in balance ..weight and mental wise .....good luck .....
    The high blood pressure medication is necessary until your stress is relieved. Depression is hopelessness and that is tied to your situation. If you can't change your surroundings, then you have to find some peace within it. Meditation and prayer can help.

    Making changes for the better like giving yourself a break from the tedious work, doing something you love,

    getting help to fix what you want to fix and doing some good for others.- All of these can be a place to start.
    Changing your personality-it can be done, but it does take time and a wish to truly change.

    There are techniques that you can use to lower you blood pressure:

    Breathing techniques, Meditation, Don't smoke or use tobacco products, Don't be overweight, Exercise regularly, Eat a healthy diet, Limit sodium, alcohol %26amp; caffeine intake.
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    All my friends are really outgoing, and really pretty. We all have a lot of other friends, but som seem to enjoy my two outgoing friends more. I am kinda the shy one in the group, and I want to know if there was a way for that to change. I want to be more ';liked,'; and ougoing,but is there a way to accomplish that without changing the real me, or kind of like who I really am? Please help, :DHow do I change my personality?
    Well if you have yhem as friends, why would you care on changing your pesonality *raises eyebrow*How do I change my personality?
    There is no need to change yoru personality. It's like changing your whole identity.
    well they should like you for who you are

    and you shouldn't change too much for them

    but if it's just to be more outgoing that's cool

    i did that too but it was for myself

    and that's what you should do. make sure it's for yourself, not for someone else

    but just start talking to more people

    get more involved in the conversations

    ask them sometimes if they wanna hang out

    and maybe like okay i know this will probably sound wierd, but talk to guys too that can help boost the confidence a little bit too. because sometimes that's a major reason that some people aren't more out going



    good luck%26lt;33
    just be yourself, sometimes it's best to be quite, observe and listen, only you know your heart, don't go against it.
    Why would anyone change their personality? If they don't like you for who you are, then why'd you want them as your friends?
    I'm sorry sweetie, but i'm going to have to disagree. Being shy is great. Why would you want to be outgoing and crazy? And you want to be...';liked';?

    I used to feel like you but when you change your personality things get crazy, hun. Stay the same. If they are your friends nobody cares if your shy or not pretty (which btw your probably not) You don't need help on this, you don't need to ask this question you're already beautiful and you have characteristics that make you stand out in the crowd which makes you more noticed than the outgoing friends. Please, I dont want to see another teenager changed because of their friends look or act.

    Good luck %26lt;3 %26lt;3
    people are just gona have to like you for who you are and how you are.



    people like you more than you think...trust me

    i have the same thing im 17 yrs old n im really shy but people approach me all the time like at skool and try to talk to me and im just friendly and i can tel they like me. i thot i wanted to change too but i kinda like it now.



    dont chage yourself for other people..

    hope that helped..good luck!!:]
    There is almost no way to change the core you, but in terms of confidence, which it sounds like in your case, you should try a theater school...unless you aren't a school kid, in which case just practice being confident, it may seem stupid to you but it seems normal to other people, and you will sink into it in no time.
    One thing that really helped me was an polished agate stone. I all of a sudden was socializing more with my friends and changing how I dressed and DEVELOPING the real me, not changing it. try using some kind of confidence talisman it really helped me. Your friends are your friends and they will like you for you so embrace your shy side and use brighter colours in your wardrobe, etc. etc. Good luck
    The best thing to do is enjoy being yourself. Then others around you will enjoy being around you. Everything will fall into place very soon.

    How do you change your personality?

    I am so sick of me. I've changed my look recently and now I like it, but what I mostly dislike about myself is how attached I get to things, ideas, and people. I want to becomre more adaptable.How do you change your personality?
    Your personality is defined by how your brain is wired, so it is hard to change it. See: MBTI personality test for example. I get attached to things also, but I think this is normal. And I don't think, it's a personality issue. For example, as people become older, they become more attached to familiar things and people. They don't like change. And that's normal.How do you change your personality?
    Don't change yourself you will never find you again. Be happy with you, who you wouldn't even be able to experience the amazing thing called life, and be happy with what you've got. That's why its called the 'present'.....its a gift

    Cheer up sister!

    :):)
    if you sincerely think you want to change try hard nothing is impossible go ahead success is yours

    How can I change this personality that I have?

    Well you see I'm kind of the two extremes. When I'm quiet, I'm quiet! I don't want anyone pestering me and if they do I get very aggressive. But then I'm really outgoing when I want to be. And when I'm out going, I'm am an aggressively social! I'll talk to anybody. I'm a Sagittarius by the way. Are these normal traits? How do I change?How can I change this personality that I have?
    HA, I am a Sagittarius and I'm the same way.

    I have my moments where I can make anyone laugh and extremely outgoing. But there are moments when I feel I just want to be left alone. ( usually gathering my MANY thoughts). I'm not sure what to tell you to change that....its a pretty common trait. We have our serious moments..



    I wouldn't consider that to be a bad thing either!

    Everyone needs a little peace of mind!



    ( cheer up ) ;-)How can I change this personality that I have?
    Though others rarely see this in Sagittarians, it is true that Sagittarius is one of the few dual signs of a zodiac. Like its polar opposite Gemini, Sagittarius is also moody and prone to two personalities; however, the more pessimistic and private is rarely shown to the world. Generally, a moon would accentuate that polarity, especially if it falls in Gemini. Look into your chart and placements of Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars, as these are vital in calculating your persona.

    How can I change my personality?

    I am really shy and always looking and seeming angry to friends and family or like I am depressed about something. And, i want to be the total opposite, like not loud but but not shy either. I really need to change fast to get a job etc. So I was wondering if there is any way that I could achieve this. Or maybe if you know any good videos on the net that will tell me.How can I change my personality?
    Changing your personality is almost impossible, and it's exhausting trying to be someone else, but you can work on these particular issues. Work on your confidence, and find out what's making you angry and eliminate it. Good luckHow can I change my personality?
    why not do something to make you feel good about yourself

    like volunteer at a local park/library or something

    that way when you apply for a job,it'll look good on your application and along the way you'll meet new people
    You may got to change your thinking process to change your personality
    Some people dream of success, while others wake up and work hard at it.

    How can I change my personality?

    Most of my friends think I act so exaggerated and so ';not natural'; so it make me have less friends,

    I tried to be myself but that WAS my personality, I just hated that.

    I tried to change it, but it failed, how am I suppose to be a more natural person?How can I change my personality?
    real nice friends ya got there....







    BUT maybe your just trying too hard to change it, and you coming off too strong when being yourself. You cant CHANGE your personality, it's who you are. and if your friends don't like you for you, then forget them and their shi+How can I change my personality?
    Your friends are Mean! Just be your self.
    be yourself and don't try and change for anyone, if they are true friends they will except you for what you are and not try and change you. find some different friends that you fit in with more that wont try and change who you are.
    Love who you are! Your friends should too!
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    It seems like everyone is more mature than me.

    I try so hard to be myself but it doesn't seem anyone likes my personality except for my close friends.

    I don't want to change everything about myself, I just want to be more mature.

    :)How can I change my personality?
    Start taking on more responsibility and give yourself goals. You can't change your personality though. You'll always be you.How can I change my personality?
    This is gonna sound cliche, but you shouldn't change who you are... Even though you may not be as mature as other people, who cares. Eventually, on your own time, you'll develop maturity and I think it's great that you have close friends that accept you for who you are... So my advice: Don't change your personality : ) Hope I helped in some way : )
    cuz ure close friends know the true you and would like you for who you are, you dont have to change your personality cuz it'll be hard and when its time for you to mature it'll just happen automatically
    dont worry about changing yourself. A few years ago, I felt the same way, but gradually through experience I felt i socially and physically matured. but honestly, if you arent true to yourself, no one else will be, even your close friends. In time and with experience you will mature.
    in school if u take care of ur responsiblities and at home and everything that ur suppose to do then ur responsible enough cuz durning scholl and when i'm out with my friends i act like a 5 year old cuz its fun to let go of ur self and not be all ';mature'; and act like a grown up but even if u r be a kid

    How do I change my personality?

    I do not get along with the world. I have been diagnosed with PTSD and I understand how that works but how do I change it without drugs, or religion? I have read that the neural pathways in my brain are to blame for the way I see the world. I see the world in a very negative light. So how do I get rid of the old neural pathways and form new ones. How do I change myself at the core of who I am?How do I change my personality?
    As Shakespeare said, ';assume a virtue if you have it not';. We can use our conscious minds to create new mental habits which will, with patience and persistence, overcome old bad ones. So you could choose to practice positive thinking. At first this will take many acts of will, much conscious effort. As time goes by it will get easier, because the new ';neural pathways'; you create will be etched deeper each time you ';walk along them';.



    You may find that abundant repetition of a simple, true affirmation to yourself helps. For example, ';I am Light, I am Love.';



    You may want r e l i g i o n like a hole in the head, but personally I couldn't get there without s p i r i t u a l i t y. Spirituality that KNOWS that love is our true Self, our true essence, and fear is only a shadow, playing on the wall of appearance to our mind. Rationally, you may even know that whatever you experienced traumatically is not likely to happen again, but to be free from the fear of it you have to convince your subconscious. This requires an ';anti-venom'; such as courage (to do what feels scary, especially when your head tells you it's OK) and trust (that you are OK no matter what happens, because you are..... what can you hear? You are Life, you are Love Itself, there is God within you, the Inner Buddha, the Higher Self.... can you find the words that resonate for you for who you ARE as distinct from your scared (sub-) personality?How do I change my personality?
    In theory, you cannot change your core personality. However, behavioral modification therapy can change the way you relate to people - IOW you may not change how you feel but you can choose to change how you react. In turn, you may find that this is a significant mood lifter all by itself.
    I don't know if this will help or not, but try working with what you enjoy. Hobbies or anything else. Find people with those same interests. Maybe it will help you think more positively.
    There are a myriad of ways to change yourself, but they all take time and commitment.



    If you're not willing to try drugs or religion, the best I can think of is a commitment to discipline. For example, join the armed forces or become a disciple of a martial art.
    I don't suggest religion but I do suggest therapy, meditation, a higher power, your own concept of God or a power greater than yourself.

    I suffered from PTSD and kept repeating the same traumatic events out in my adult life. I could not stop myself and I hated the world. My ';reality'; was tainted with self infflicted abuse because I didn't know how to behave otherwise.



    My path to healing and my psychic change occured because I was desparate enough to let go of how I was going to get cured. I didn't care about the method as long as I got a positive result. I asked the universe for help and I received the right people in my life to help me get out of my personal hell and as a result I began actually living in my skin and enjoying life for once. I had to stop running from the pain and learn to feel and deal.



    This is only written to share with you the hope that because it happened for me it can happen for you also. Your path may look very different than mine; to each his/her own. The important thing is that you get healed.



    Healthy neural pathways can be fed with positive thought and reinforcement. Perhaps try affirmations to reprogram your wiring.
    well you don't want help from the first 2 , all that's left is a long road of cognitive therapy with a psychologist
    Although you can't actually change your personality, you have all the power within you to change the choices you make and your attitude about life. I believe that life is about those two concepts. If you make positive choices for yourself and try to keep a healthy and positive attitude, you really can't go wrong.



    My twin sister used to suffer from PTSD. It was a difficult time for her, as I'm sure it must be for you. One day,however, she got so sick of herself sitting on her ';pity pot'; that she changed everything she did.



    She loves older people, so she started going to a nursing home that was fairly close to her house and volunteered by reading to those precious souls who had no family. She'd take them for a walk or a ride in their wheelchairs, brush their hair, or just sit and visit for awhile. She quit taking her meds two weeks after she started helping others and she never slipped back into the cold empty world of chronic negativity.



    I think if you could also find a positive outlook, you would find your life would be more content. We honestly do choose how we view life. I hope you can find a positive outlet for the emptiness that must surround you. Everyone deserves to be happy in life, but we are generally our own worst enemy.



    I hope things start going well for you! Annie
    start by changin ur display pic...if u convert ur personality to small thoughts that wander in mind and go unnoticed, u might be able to see highly progressive results rapidly.
    see a psychologist and get some counseling.
    sllep 13 hour daily
    you are on the right track. i believe this is the premise for cognitive therapy. my suggestion to you is start to do things that are different. your thought will create your world. so change your thoughts. lets say you think something is stupid, like an entertainment show where people are happy. go to the entertainment show and open your mind. try to enjoy things you never tried before. try new things. if you dont like art, go to an art museum. try new foods. do things you have never done before. go hot ballooning. include new experiences in your everyday. do you stay in your home a lot? start to take walks. distract your mind and do new things. i think these create new neural pathways. they will distract you. you will start to become a new person. every time you think of something negative replace it with a positive thought. also start praying to the lord. no im not trying to push religion on you. just pray 5 minutes a day. tell god everything youre grateful for even if you dont have a lot and it is trivial. thank him for the orange you ate that day. feel connected with the universe. you will feel glad that you did. a lot of people have experienced trauma. youre not alone. and i think the difference between them and people who dont recover very well is that they develop ways of coping? how? by entering new experiences. dont sit in a mud puddle with all your problems. go out and face the world. feel good. fake it until you make it.
    To do this you must take a good look at yourself. You must find that not all in the world is bad, deserving negative thought. You must see the bad and the good in every thing. In order to change your personality you must first take small steps. It cant happen over night. Put yourself in what would normally be an uncomfortable situation for you. Then try to thrive in that situation. Once you do that it will get easier, but once that happens you must put yourself in an even more uncomfortable situation. That is how I did it at least. I hope this can help you.

    Is it possible to change your personality?

    I absolutely hate myself I am quiet and angry. I am constantly hormonal and can't help myself I feel like crying ALL the time. I am not pregnant I am always like this and it is hard. I also suffer with bad acne because of my hormones which makes me feel even more shy. I have tried my whole life to change how I am and how I connect to people. Is it ok just to be happy with my family and close friends and be myself? or do you think it is worth trying to change my personality?Is it possible to change your personality?
    Being yourself is one of the most important things a person can do especially in this modern world where fitting in and being part of a stereotype are a real pressure.

    I dont think it is really possible anyway to change your personality. You can change how you appear in the eyes of others but who you are inside rarely ever changes.

    It is tough to be shy and quiet, but just keep persevering, keep your spirits up.



    By the way if your a teenager, then these mood swings can just be puberty which means that they and the acne will most likely end in a little while.Is it possible to change your personality?
    I dont think you should change your personality, your personatlity is who you are, its what sets you apart from the rest. the angry thing maybe you need to go and speak to a professional about that they might be able to help you with that and then you might not feel like that. I have had very large groups of friends and i know that the only people that are important are your family you can have one good friend or more but your family will never turn there back on you.
    Whether changing or being the same, it has to be for the good, not the bad.



    Good meaning, for both you and the people around you.



    You just need to calm down. Take a few breaths, and slowly relax yourself.



    As to why you're angry, how and why exactly? You can't be angry at anything. (well maybe).



    Its tough to just change yourself completely. Mentally changing is much harder than changing physically. The reason: you're used to who you are. Habits are harder to change as well.



    The acne issue can be dealt with on how you're really angry. Don't let acne make you feel as though its embarresing. Most of the people I know have them. I had them too, but they were gone when I gave up on having the acne disappear.



    How old are you? The age issue might help as well.
    Well, more than giving you an answer i just want to tell you that i understand you perfectly.

    Sometimes i hate myself, i don't do or say what i want to, on the contrary, sometimes i hurt the ones i love the most.

    I have qualities that i like about myself, but there are things, feelings, that i wish i didn't have.



    I think is possible to change, but it's really really hard....
    Well you didn't state your AGE, which I am assuming is under 18. And if that is right - then what you feel and experience is NORMAL hormonal, moody, attitude ridden, roller coaster emotions of a teenager. If you outline the things that you LIKE about yourself and your personality they would include FAR more important things like how kind you are, how loving, generous, giving, unselfish, your goals, your academic skills, your talents %26amp; gifts, your communication skills, your athletic abilities, your musical talents, your relationships, the list could go on and on. THOSE are the things that matter more then how moody, hormonal, shy or temperamental you are. BECAUSE those things are a product of your maturing and age and they can be tempered, controlled and will be refined and change as you grow up.



    Focus on the good instead of the bad that you SEE so blatant and flaw filled in yourself. We all have flaws - make the best of the good and don't stress about the bad or things you can't control or change. WE all have things we wish we could change about ourselves...just make the BEST of who you are. As you grow older, mature, gain wisdom, knowledge, experience %26amp; confidence hopefully you'll put things in their proper perspective and not sweat the small stuff...
    Don't let people change you just so you have friends. If they can't accept you the way you are, then they are not true friends. Go and see the doc about your hormonal problem, my sister had a similar problem, which was soon sorted. It doesn't matter what people think about us, as long as we are happy.
    people normally change their personality when they start puberty, but you can still change your personality. First you have to change your ways.... become positive and don't get angry over little things.
    yes and no at the same time

    How can I change my personality?

    I'm not happy with my personality. I'm shy, quiet, I never know what to talk about with someone. How can I change that about myself? I really need help with this. I don't get noticed often.How can I change my personality?
    You have stated your problem in a very direct manner, now you need to take direct actions in order to solve them. First and foremost, being shy and quiet is not always wrong a bad thing, and certainly nothing to be ashamed of. It is no more right or wrong than being a complete extrovert, it is just different than. Also, keep in mind that a personality is a compilation of many different qualities which in turn make up your own unique personality traits. Your self description from beginning to end is quite negative. I would believe that this has a lot to do with your uneasiness around others. The best thing that can help you to stop these types of feelings is to face them head - on. Just begin gradually by saying hello to someone or people on a daily basis, then move on from there. Always keep your chim up, your shoulders back, and a smile on your face. These non-verbal clues will exude confidence and make yourself seem more approachable. How are you so sure that you do not get recognized? I would be willing to bet that no one has ever came up to you and told you that you blend in with the wallpaper. So this is purely speculation on your part. Not everyone enjoys small talk or finds it easy. Not everyone goes to the hairdresser and talks about anything and everything under the moon. The big thing is that you do not have to, and you are not weird or strange or bad because of it. Start to gradually talk with others and move forward from there. (keep up on current events in order to have some ides to start off with. Desensitization or facing your fears directly is the only way to become more outgoing. Always remember that you are who you are and learn to respect that. Everyone is different and not one person's personality is better than yours. Good luck to you!How can I change my personality?
    Don't change who you are! Just give it some time, and be with people who make you laugh. Have fun, it's life.
    You can but it will come back
    You need to find out what your interests are.

    You need to concern yourself with seeking knowledge.

    When you develop confidence, everything changes.

    Not everyone starts out confident.

    Strive to be excellent at something. There are unlimited choices insofar as interest.

    You can do anything that you want to do. you just need to be quiet and still and find out what inspires you. We as humans don't have so much time on this earth. You are your own masterpiece and it is your duty to sculpt yourself and create what you want.

    I was very shy when i was young. Both my parents deserted me and I never had any direction as far as role models go. I dropped out of school in 8th grade so i could go to work and take care of myself. I was forced to learn how to survive. It helped me to have confidence but I did it myself alone.

    I became a figure skater when I was 11-16. Won 5 gold medals

    I became a body builder when I was twenty Won a 2nd place trophy

    I became a guitar and blues singer at 23 and played in bands.

    I became a working chef (self taught) at 34 made big cash

    I became a wellness counselor at 40 because i love to help people

    I am a bartender by trade but Im NOW retiring to become a skin care specialist. I will move to Hawaii because I CAN. I am still alone...never had kids.

    You can do anything in the world that you want!

    I did and you are no different.

    It's all about setting goals.

    You WILL open up just like a caterpillar and have many things to share and talk about with others.

    You can have the person (ality) that you want. I just know it!

    Go get it now.

    I hoped this helped.

    Please email me anytime.

    Peace and Love

    How can I change my personality?

    I really want to change my personality. Be a little girlier, dress better, and look good. I'm sort of a tom-boy right now but I hate it. And I just want to be more fun to be around and look pretty. Help?How can I change my personality?
    Depending on your age, you might just mature. My younger sister was a mega tom boy all of her childhood. Now she's a beautiful young woman who hasn't lost touch with her rugged side, but is visibly and outwardly feminine.



    I don't suggest you do anything drastic, but maybe slowly transitioning into feminine clothes will do the trick. Slow so you don't shock everyone and maybe get negative feedback.



    Just see what little changes you're willing to make, and i think you'll feel better about yourself. Just don't lose touch of your true self, and only do a little self improvement.How can I change my personality?
    hang out with barbie girls.. soon you'll be one of them..
    Why the hell would you want to be a girly girl? I love being a tom boy and wont ever change.
    You shouldn't want to change your personality! Someday, someone will love you for being who you are. And if you try to change yourself it can lead to depression and sometimes even suicidal thoughts. Besides, at out school the guys like tomboys better than some prep wearing pink carrying a hand-bag.
    Don't change it, be yourself not someone else! But for your looks just try to do something else with your hair and buy different clothes... you were made to be the way you are, so no need to change!
    hmmm..well you should start buying more girly clothes and do your hair differently, like curling it one day and straightening it the next. You can always change ur appearance but i dont think theres any way u can change ur personality, its part of who u are:)
    its hard to give you advise over yahoo. You need a girly girlfriend so she could help you in every step of the way with dress and make up. Although your personality wont change, and I would suggest not to change it because its your personality that makes you who you are inside not just the outside. You just need a little change of style.



    wish i could be of better help. Try to find a close friend, a relative, cousins who are into girly girl stuff.
    well honestly thats not changing ur personality..thats just changing ur apperance.
    Why try? Just be whatever your nature is and be yourself! I rather be around 'tomboy' girls than oh so proper lady types!
    Hey,

    Well, since you want to be more girlier you could give yourself a makeover. Find a new hairstyle that will fit your face (if you have a round face the maybe side layers or side bangs) and if you want you could try some makeup, even just a little can change the way you look. If you want to dress better, instead of just wearing t-shirts and stuff like that maybe you could find a nice shirt and layer it or something and add a necklace with some skinny jeans. Since you want to be more fun to be around, I'm not sure how you act now but you could try and talk to more people and make jokes and stuff like that. For extra help you could also buy some fashion and beauty magazines if you need more help for your look and stuff like that.



    Hope I helped! :D
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  • How can I change my personality?

    For example, how can I become a more outgoing person, or become an extrovert when I'm an introvert. Is it even possible to change ones personality?How can I change my personality?
    you cant change your personality

    but you can fine tune it

    and make a better who you are

    by building up on what you allready areHow can I change my personality?
    to tell the truth, there isn't a specific way.



    The only ways to change your personality, i think, is for you to slowly change over time or to have a very very traumatic experience.
    As long as you don't over- do it, drink (alcohol) acts on your inhibitions %26amp; can affect your personality. It can relax you more and allow a shy person to become more expressive, however, the trick is, knowing how much %26amp; when to stop - if you can't manage this bit then it could be desastrous (take it from me !)
    I've always been a shy person, and it seems like every other person I talk to says, ';Yeah, I used to be shy too.'; So, I guess it is possible, but I'm learning that (for me at least) it's a long process. It's just small steps that lead to big changes.
    Get involved with people....Attend social activities......Be visible in the community...
    it is possible to change personalities, you want to become more socially out going, you have to understand the socializing imagine yourself as who you want to be and stick to the rules go to sleep and wake up everyday with that in mind... maybe try reading books about manipulation persuasion, social influence e.t.c. to give you a bretter grasp of understanding socializing make like nike and just do it

    How can i change my personality?

    Yea How can i change my personality?

    I don't like the way i am right now... When i don't talk to people in person i always change to be a nice and funny guy but when i talk to people in person then i get emotionless and careless just want to be away from the people i talk to...

    How can i change?How can i change my personality?
    take an acting class....maybe relax more...talk to people with the same interrest as u

    How can i change my personality?

    I wat to change my personality to be more exciting bubbly keeping everyone on there feet i feel so boring i just want to get out there and change that. be more like able always have something on my mind that i can do. please help.How can i change my personality?
    Hey,



    Everyone is born with a ';temperament';, which is your initial personality.



    However, your Character (Acquired Personality) is something that you can definitely modify.

    Stephen Covey said ';Begin With The End In Mind';.

    So visualize the best you that you can be (How you're acting, how you're talking, the look on your face etc...)

    And then, start implementing. :)How can i change my personality?
    Accept who you are. If you try to change your personality, youre not being you.
    Your personality doesn't need to be changed, your confidence does. Just be happy with the way your are and that will shine through. Sounds corny and cliche but it works.

    How can i change my personality?

    i've been told that i havent got a welcoming or friendly personality and ive been completing personality tests online and the results are often that im unware of peoples feelings, cannot handle stress etc. These descriptions sound like me which kind of makes me uncomfortable about my personality.

    im changing schools next year and sorta want a new friendler personality and was wondering how to change my personality.



    are you just born with certain charactersistics?? or can you change your personality if you dont like it?? how would i change my personality???How can i change my personality?
    well personality is made up from the people your hanging out with, the challenges you face, the things you do.. and having a more friendlier attitude: you can start with smiling as oyu walk past people in the hallway at school that might make it easier to approach you and talk to you and feel more comfortabl trying to make friends with you. you can learn how to handle stress by searching google.. oh wait i already searched it for you.. bwahaha you welcome.. but anyways. herre is a few links i searched so i wouldnt have to write down a whole bunch of stuf.. its way early and im tired.



    here you go:



    how to handle stress: http://www.google.com/search?q=how+to+ha



    how to have a better attitude: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en%26amp;rls=c



    how to be happy with yourself and others: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en%26amp;rls=c



    how to make friends when changing schools: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en%26amp;rls=c





    AND REMEMBER EVERYONE LIKES SOMEONE WHO IS SMILING.. unless they are narcassistic.. hey im even annoyed of people who are always happy sometimes. well im goin ta bed.. g'nightHow can i change my personality?
    First of all you have to be in the mood to change your personality . . in other words you have to want too.



    Secondly you need to make sure that you are doing this for yourself and not for others . . . people are just people . . as long as you are happy with who you are then there is no need to change.



    it's best to get a piece of paper and pen and write out the things that you are not happy with based upon your observances.



    then one by one try to find a solution to each on of them.



    for me, i am too sarcastic. so when i am hanging with my friends, i have learned to monitor what i say before i say it to fit the situation and to put me in a good light. . . however, this takes practice, i am doing it for myself too..



    if people can't accept who you are even if you try then you are better off finding other people who ';get you';
    These questionairs are a bit airy fairy.

    So if it is merely that the completion of one has told you these things then it may not be quite so bad. You then say you see some of these traits in yourself so therefore the acknowledgement of failings is the first step in dealing with them. Try one thing at a time. Practise smiling and being welcoming and build on that, sometimes we can all be unaware of other peoples feelings but try and be sensitive to what may hurt another and eliminate. Often it is hard when the person says nothing but common decency should prevail a sin not making a fool out of anyone, being polite and treat as you would hope to be treated.
    you can always change your personality if you dont like it %26amp; personally

    always stick to being yourself not others %26amp; you might to change your

    unawareness for others feeling be more open minded to what they say

    or do before judging them if also control ur stress it also might help out

    to be more open minded %26amp; yourself
    First of all, just because your focusing on these particular characteristics at the moment doesn't mean that you are a bad person or should want to change your personality at all.

    I've been studying psychology for 4 years (now postgrad) and from what I have learnt you can't change your personality, but you can learn tools to try and improve on areas like sociability and empathy. NEVER trust those silly online tests. They are absolutely NOT valid or reliable and are no indication of who you really are. I have been trained for years on how to develope accurate measures of psychological phenomena (ie personality) and these online tests are far from that.

    It sounds like you do care about other people, so it won't be too hard for you to be friendlier. If you are worried why don't you go and see a counsellor? Either at school or a psychologist that your GP can recommend. They will teach you strategies to deal with the stress of changing schools and help you to come up with some ideas about making friends etc. The fact that you are bothering to ask questions like this just goes to show that you are a nice person and are on the right track. I'm sure you just need to practice little things like listening skills and maybe set yourself little tasks like asking someone if they want to study with you or eat lunch together.

    Don't let mean people or crappy online tests make you feel bad about yourself!