Change personality ??

today a guy i really like told one of my friends i have a horrible personality. i'm really shy and have to get to know someone first before i am more open to them. so my question is how can i be less shy more out going. mind you its hardChange personality ??
Yes, shyness is hard, and it is also genetic. You can change your behavior if you are determined enough to ride over your genetic promptings.

Being shy doesn't mean you have a horrible personality. That is a cruel thing to say about someone.

One of the key skills in becoming less shy is mastering small talk. For the longest time I didn't engage in small talk because I thought it was trivial. It isn't. What you are doing is establishing common ground. If you say about the weather, ';Boy, today is hot.';, and the person you address responds with ';I just had a peanut butter sandwhich,'; this is an indication that the other person is at the very least eccentric. You can safely talk to anyone you meet about pets, food, the movies, the weather, sports, and other non-controversial subjects. If you find out that someone is extremely interested in sports and that you are not, you at least have learned something key about the other person (and painlessly).Change personality ??
screw him and find someone who likes your personality



mine please?

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