How to change Personality?

I think im wasting my precious life ,I dont know , ive become very sef-indulget, introvert, conserved and a reserved person. I dont have close friends and i am always alone , i feel I feel lonely even when surrounded with people , always! I dont go out and do nothing, even i dont concentrate on my career, I dont enjoy and i'am always sad, dont know what is the problem! I think some past thing has done this, Now how to bring change in life, bring back joy, fastness, cleverness, interest in Life! Or i will be alaways like this! All take me for granted, i have no value! I think ill be very depressed and alone , as lonliness has always been a friend of mine!How to change Personality?
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Dont knock yourself out. You dont have to be a blabber mouth and the life of the party to live a good life. The good life starts when you accept what separates you from others and make the best out of those qualities. Fitting in and trying to change and march to the tune of someone elses drum is the surest way to kill yourself, you wont be 6 ft under youll be worse off youll be alive without a clue. Treat yourself like a friend for once and stop ridiculing your behavior, rather understand it, youd do that for any other friend you could extend the courtesy to yourself. Apart from that you may just lack a few communication skills and the only way to help that is to take each opportunity you get to talk to someone and practice. Youll fail but youre trying and trying is the only way we learn, the surest way to grow. Peace. :)
I do this and hopefully, it might work for you too.

make a tune for this song and sing it out aloud to stay happy:

Live with what you have,

not with what you had.

It's not gonna help you now.

Live with what you do, not with what you did.

It's not gonna help you anymore.



Those moments of pain are long gone now.

They're not gonna stay any more.



Those moments of happiness are gonna come,

And they're here to stay for long...

Go ahead stay optimistic and keep smiling. you'll feel great and changed.
I go through phases where i feel the same way.



To be honest, the best way to make yourself feel better is to do random, off the wall stuff. Take a trip. But something that makes you feel good. get in your car and drive to no where. Randomness is what i live for and you only get one life to live. Don't waste it worrying. Just be carefree and enjoy the finer things in life.



=] good luck
Hi, ive got the same problem all my life and it finally hit me in the head.....i wanna feel real, different...basically we have NO personality nothing that makes us different.............no one really gets me...

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dont worry you mingle up with your friends when you feel alone you lissen soft music











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you may go out side and talk with ur friends don't be shy talk to ur close fried freely and read books on to change carer browse some type of that book and read it well........
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HI mate fallow this-

1- Figure out what you want your new self to be like. Mysterious? Preppy? Funny? Then figure out what changes will be made

2- Distinguish what is it you want to emulate. Don't just look at a person and say ';Yep, I want to be like that.'; Find out exactly what it is that you admire--How they handle a situation, or their word choice? Make sure to write all this stuff down in a notebook

3- Pick out the characteristics you want. Write down the parts of the character you want to be. Make sure to also write down how the character responds. Maybe you like the way they respond to certain situations, how they treat others, making friends, a bully, etc.

4-Look the part. You don't have to go out and get a new wardrobe, but maybe adding some new jewelry or changing the way your hair looks, changing the way you smile, laugh, hold yourself, anything

5- Make changes to the way you talk. Does your voice quiver when you're mad, or do you talk loudly, or quietly. Practice changing your voice and try to keep the way of talking for a while before doing the next steps.

6- Change your attitude. Do you want to be preppy and happy towards things, or funny and clever, or do you want to be spunky and hard? It may take time to get used to that, so take your time changing it and take it step by step

7- Break any bad habits that you may be doing. They are figments of your old personality, and if you want a better personality, make the way you act better
You sould read this book by Stephen Chobsky called, ';The Perks of Being a Wallflower.'; It's kinda of a ';coming of age'; book, but it's a very beautiful read and I think it deals with a lot of the emotions your dealing with.



I feel the same as you most days. At least I used to; it's a long process to grow out of that mind set if you've felt like that for a long time. It's just something that comes with life experience I guess. You just need to get out and spread your wings and get some fresh air. I know it sounds stupid and clich猫, but I think you'd be surprised how beneficial it can be as long as you keep an open mind. Just going for a walk can be oddly therapeutic in a way and it's good for just a lot of deeper thinking and reflection.



It just keeps you away from the dark and dull abyss of your house and the creeping glow of the computer screen. XD Staying cooped up like that just makes all those thoughts fester and grow since there isn't anything to stimulate your mind and distract you.



Also, socialize more! It's REALLY hard to do for some reason, but it's very important. Be open to meeting good people. Make friends, and go out, and meet new friends there too. Getting to talk with lots of different people will give you new points of view to things. It gets you out there and exposed to the world. It gives you that sense of fulfillment in life knowing you've got a pretty interesting group of people in your heart to share life with. You'll have someone to share all the joys of life with. And all the sh*t too. It's hard to deal with the crap alone, so dealing with it with friends makes it much easier right?