My friend just got a new boyfriend, her first one, (shes a latee blommer) lmao. Her first boyfriend at 15, but she changes when shes with him, %26amp; she ditches me for him. BTw, %26amp; its not like she actually knew him for that long, they arent even boyfriend %26amp; girlfriend as of this point they are in the step below that. I mean yeah i understand how you try to impress a boy, ive had many boyfriends before but how do i tell her ? -_-Why does my friend change personality when shes with a boy? ugh?
Well i'm 15 and never had a boyfriend and i've never considered myself a late bloomer. I have other things on my mind and enough of a life. Just stating what i think. Though, I think she feels special now she's got male attention and a boyfriend to be close with and it's probably fun and a novelty for her. She probably is obsessive and excited and is not considering your feelings and caring. Or maybe she thinks she has a right to treat you like that. Maybe she just is trying to impress him or make it more official and is taking any opportunity. If she's never had a boyfriend she's probably naive. Just sit her down and talk to her in a polite manner so she understands and inform her of how she is affecting your friendship and there needs to be a balance there and you feel ignored and disguarded when you stand by her and are meant to trust eachother.Why does my friend change personality when shes with a boy? ugh?
cause she wants him to like her so she'll adjust how she acts in order to make him happy and to keep him around. if shes dropping you as a friend though, id drop her. those are not the people you need in your life!
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